Why do exes keep calling and texting

Why do exes keep calling and texting

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ex wife

Miami, FL

#1 Feb 3, 2010
I have 2 ex husbands and both of them call and text me behind their new wife and girlfriend's back. Why can't they just either leave you alone for good? or admit to their new so called love that they are keeping in touch? This would cause less drama for everyone involved.
Just Because

Alamo, TN

#2 Feb 3, 2010
Dont answer them... they will quit then..
guest

Dyersburg, TN

#3 Feb 3, 2010
ex wife wrote:
I have 2 ex husbands and both of them call and text me behind their new wife and girlfriend's back. Why can't they just either leave you alone for good? or admit to their new so called love that they are keeping in touch? This would cause less drama for everyone involved.
do yyou have kids with them
Yep

Hendersonville, NC

#4 Feb 3, 2010
My boyfriends ex kept calling and texting him, hoping to manipulate her way back in when we got together. She tried everything she could and still hasn't given up. Even trying to get close to his family. It goes both ways.... most of them just don't understand the fact that it is over with.
ex wife

Miami, FL

#5 Feb 3, 2010
no, I don't have children with either of them, sad thing is they down me to their new so called loves, but keep calling me behind their backs. Maybe the new ones need to check their cell phones from time to time.
bjb

Miami, FL

#6 Feb 4, 2010
If it's such a problem I don't see you cutting it off seems to me you like it but the jokes on you cause if your stupid enough to keep texting and talking back then mayby you want them or like keeping up drama as well reality check if it didn't work once why the hell you think it's gonna work twice, cause they keep texting and calling (not!)
guest

Dyersburg, TN

#7 Feb 4, 2010
They want more and she does to
Dr Know

Milan, TN

#8 Feb 4, 2010
I guess they figure you might still be as easy as you were the first night together.
ex wife wrote:
I have 2 ex husbands and both of them call and text me behind their new wife and girlfriend's back. Why can't they just either leave you alone for good? or admit to their new so called love that they are keeping in touch? This would cause less drama for everyone involved.
who knows

Miami, FL

#9 Feb 4, 2010
They never are happy, they want greener pastures until they get it, and then they want what they had before. Go figure!!! They want and want and never satisfied with what they get. Most men text women for their ego.
no call list

Sioux City, IA

#10 Feb 5, 2010
I would ignore their texts and calls. They will eventually give up.
Guest

Sioux City, IA

#11 Feb 5, 2010
ex wife wrote:
I have 2 ex husbands and both of them call and text me behind their new wife and girlfriend's back. Why can't they just either leave you alone for good? or admit to their new so called love that they are keeping in touch? This would cause less drama for everyone involved.
Why do they keep calling? Because you let them!
ex wife

Miami, FL

#12 Feb 5, 2010
Guest wrote:
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Why do they keep calling? Because you let them!
They both still buy me stuff and give me money, why quit? They just need to let the new wife and girlfriend know that they will always be in my life or go on with their new life. I don't have to have their gifts, but they are nice.
ex wife

Miami, FL

#13 Feb 5, 2010
And before I get slandered, I don't have sex with either one of them and I don't ask for money or gifts, they say that I need taking care of. Their choices, not mine. I am seeing someone else and don't want either one of them back.
Justmythots

Henderson, TN

#14 Feb 5, 2010
If you are seriously seeing someone else, then it looks more like you are playing the game. If you care about the someone you are seeing then you should tell the X's not to call or tx you or be coming around. Sounds more like you are enjoying the attention and you are leading them on to believe that there is something more you feel for them than just friendship. Why would you get on topix and act like it is a problem with them contacting you if you like it. If I were your bf and you had your x's txing and coming around I think I would be asking you why you would let them and I would definitely be questioning my relationship with you. If you are really through with them you should not be accepting their money and gifts, because they are not just giving you these things with intentions of just being your friend.
pax

Morocco, IN

#15 Feb 5, 2010
ex wife wrote:
I have 2 ex husbands and both of them call and text me behind their new wife and girlfriend's back. Why can't they just either leave you alone for good? or admit to their new so called love that they are keeping in touch? This would cause less drama for everyone involved.
When it's love, it will last forever.:)

Are you hot or something? Sounds as if you are SO hot they cannot leave you alone!
ex wife

Miami, FL

#16 Feb 6, 2010
pax wrote:
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When it's love, it will last forever.:)
Are you hot or something? Sounds as if you are SO hot they cannot leave you alone!
Don't consider myself hot, just a good person.
UH -OH

Sioux City, IA

#17 Feb 6, 2010
SO TELL US WHAT ARE THEY TEXTING AND CALLING ABOUT ? THE WEATHER, YOUR HEALTH,GLOBAL WARMING ? YOU KEEP IN CONTACT EVER CONSIDER CHANGING YOUR NUMBER OR BLOCKING THEIRS?
ex wife

Miami, FL

#18 Feb 6, 2010
UH -OH wrote:
SO TELL US WHAT ARE THEY TEXTING AND CALLING ABOUT ? THE WEATHER, YOUR HEALTH,GLOBAL WARMING ? YOU KEEP IN CONTACT EVER CONSIDER CHANGING YOUR NUMBER OR BLOCKING THEIRS?
Guess you are right, they just call checking on me, making sure I am okay, nothing sexual at all. I guess I need to stop talking to them. that was why I mentioned that they needed to tell their new loves, so that it would not be a problem. I have no problem with any of them, we just could not make it together, don't hate each other.

Since: Mar 09

Truth or Consequences, NM

#19 Feb 19, 2011
Because I love you.

Since you been gone
I feel my life slipping away
I look to the sky
And everything is turnin' gray
All I made was one mistake
How much more will I have to pay
Why can't you think it over
Why can't you forget about the past

When love makes this sound babe
A heart needs a second chance
Don't put me down babe
Can't you see I love you
Since you been gone I've been in a trance
This heart needs a second chance
Don't say it's over I just can't say goodbye
So this is love
Standing in the pouring rain
I fooled on you
But she never meant a thing
And I know I ain't got no right
To ask you to sympathize
But why can't you think it over
Why can't you forget the past

I never loved her
I never needed her

She was willing and that's all there is to say
Don't forsake me
Please don't leave me now
A heart needs a second chance
You've been gone, and I've been in a trance
This heart needs a second chance
Don't say it's over I just can't say goodbye
Please forgive me and forget it
Why can't we talk it over
Why can't you forget about, forget the past
(A heart needs a second chance...) When love makes it sound bad
(My heart needs a second chance...) Don't put me down, babe
You've been gone, and I've been in a trance
This heart needs a second chance
Don't say it's over I just can't say goodbye
(A heart needs a second chance...) When love makes it sound bad
(My heart needs a second chance...) Don't put me down, babe.....

Unreal 20

“HOW YOU LIKE ME NOW???”

Since: Jul 10

Location hidden

#20 Feb 19, 2011
Slim_Harpo wrote:
Because I love you.
Since you been gone
I feel my life slipping away
I look to the sky
And everything is turnin' gray
All I made was one mistake
How much more will I have to pay
Why can't you think it over
Why can't you forget about the past
When love makes this sound babe
A heart needs a second chance
Don't put me down babe
Can't you see I love you
Since you been gone I've been in a trance
This heart needs a second chance
Don't say it's over I just can't say goodbye
So this is love
Standing in the pouring rain
I fooled on you
But she never meant a thing
And I know I ain't got no right
To ask you to sympathize
But why can't you think it over
Why can't you forget the past
I never loved her
I never needed her
She was willing and that's all there is to say
Don't forsake me
Please don't leave me now
A heart needs a second chance
You've been gone, and I've been in a trance
This heart needs a second chance
Don't say it's over I just can't say goodbye
Please forgive me and forget it
Why can't we talk it over
Why can't you forget about, forget the past
(A heart needs a second chance...) When love makes it sound bad
(My heart needs a second chance...) Don't put me down, babe
You've been gone, and I've been in a trance
This heart needs a second chance
Don't say it's over I just can't say goodbye
(A heart needs a second chance...) When love makes it sound bad
(My heart needs a second chance...) Don't put me down, babe.....
Wow dumb harpo you must be the copy and paste master. No thoughts (I am sure it is hard for you to think) just a copy and paste. Put on your asshat and unplug your computer..........please

Have a nice day :)

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