salt

Humboldt, TN

#294 Feb 6, 2013
Yes I agree. The way he expressed his love for her was good to see. Now days we do not see that very often. Disappointment is usually followed by anger or bitterness. Heartbreak is the hardest form of disappointment. To see love still show through heartbreak is very rare.

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#295 Feb 6, 2013
To love someone unconditionally is to have a Godly heart.
It is confusing for some to understand. Forgiving is a way of healing and moving on.
The ex will surely take your kindness as wanting them back. Not at all. Simply means you are ready to get on with your life without them.
pepper

Sioux City, IA

#296 Feb 6, 2013
Very well stated ,the last three post . Does my heart good to read nice words for a change . Thanks for making my day .
Guest

Sioux City, IA

#297 Feb 6, 2013
Very true! Sometimes loves isn't enough! You can still love them and know in your heart that they are not good for you and that you want them to be happy! It shows what kind of person that is! Strong and with kind and loving heart!

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#298 Feb 6, 2013
Guest wrote:
Very true! Sometimes loves isn't enough! You can still love them and know in your heart that they are not good for you and that you want them to be happy! It shows what kind of person that is! Strong and with kind and loving heart!
Even if it hurts to talk on the phone...you never let them know.
ex bf

Odessa, TX

#299 Feb 6, 2013
I wouldn't even talk to them on the phone. Just causes you to feel horrible after you hang up. Also gives them a chance to see if they still have a hold on you. Why give them the chance or opportunity?

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#300 Feb 6, 2013
ex bf wrote:
I wouldn't even talk to them on the phone. Just causes you to feel horrible after you hang up. Also gives them a chance to see if they still have a hold on you. Why give them the chance or opportunity?
Just because I am nice to him, doesn't mean that I want him back. It means I am healing. It means that as bad as he did me, as bad as he hurt me, I am not going to let him know that it had that big of an empact on my mind by being mad.
I am always laughing, making him laugh just like before only not. I am his friend even though he doesn't deserve me.
I'm scared to get back out there. I'd rather not. I'll just sat right here untill someone finds me...like he did.

Hellbilly 1

Since: May 10

South Sioux City, NE

#301 Feb 6, 2013
Pepper_126 wrote:
<quoted text>
Absolutely. Too many times kindness will be mistaken for weakness.
That's right. It happened to me too many times. Now I am only nice to ones that show that they deserve it. It's open season on all the others though.

Hellbilly 1

Since: May 10

South Sioux City, NE

#302 Feb 6, 2013
Pepper_126 wrote:
To love someone unconditionally is to have a Godly heart.
It is confusing for some to understand. Forgiving is a way of healing and moving on.
The ex will surely take your kindness as wanting them back. Not at all. Simply means you are ready to get on with your life without them.
All of my niceties and unconditional love were met with "I need money to pay for this or that". I'm still nice to people, but there is no more lending of money.

Hellbilly 1

Since: May 10

South Sioux City, NE

#303 Feb 6, 2013
ex bf wrote:
I wouldn't even talk to them on the phone. Just causes you to feel horrible after you hang up. Also gives them a chance to see if they still have a hold on you. Why give them the chance or opportunity?
This is true also.

Hellbilly 1

Since: May 10

South Sioux City, NE

#304 Feb 6, 2013
I still have hope for love one day, but sometimes it seems so far away. there is no need to swell in the past. You should only look to tomorrow. And if it happens, it happens. If not, I've lived a good life with those around me that I cherish and appreciate.

Hellbilly 1

Since: May 10

South Sioux City, NE

#305 Feb 6, 2013
dwell.....

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#306 Feb 6, 2013
I absolutely refuse to allow the man to pay everything. I have to have that balance. There is no I in We.

Hellbilly 1

Since: May 10

South Sioux City, NE

#307 Feb 6, 2013
Pepper_126 wrote:
I absolutely refuse to allow the man to pay everything. I have to have that balance. There is no I in We.
If there were only more like you dear. This is West Tn though. I've been many places an this is the worst.

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#308 Feb 7, 2013
Hellbilly 1 wrote:
<quoted text>If there were only more like you dear. This is West Tn though. I've been many places an this is the worst.
I value my relationships.
dog one

Sioux City, IA

#309 Feb 7, 2013
I love my dog , a big boxer bulldog .He never ask for anything . He likes a pet on the head or a big bowl of food .My kind of love .

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#310 Feb 7, 2013
dog one wrote:
I love my dog , a big boxer bulldog .He never ask for anything . He likes a pet on the head or a big bowl of food .My kind of love .
Hell yeah. Put your dog and your mate in the trunk of the car for 2 hours. Let them out and who still loves you? That's rite.....

Hellbilly 1

Since: May 10

South Sioux City, NE

#311 Feb 7, 2013
Pepper_126 wrote:
<quoted text>
Hell yeah. Put your dog and your mate in the trunk of the car for 2 hours. Let them out and who still loves you? That's rite.....
LOL. I'll have to try that one. I'll call it, "The test of Love".

Me: Hey baby, Do ya love me?

Her: Yeah baby, you know I do?

Me: Get in the trunk with the bitch then, if ya love me.

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#312 Feb 7, 2013
Hellbilly 1 wrote:
<quoted text>LOL. I'll have to try that one. I'll call it, "The test of Love".
Me: Hey baby, Do ya love me?
Her: Yeah baby, you know I do?
Me: Get in the trunk with the bitch then, if ya love me.
Lol. Don't do it Hellbilly! Don't do it!
guest

Humboldt, TN

#313 Feb 9, 2013
Still wish he would give the initials of who this was. I think I know. If it is who I think it is there is alot he never knew about her and I don't think he ever had a chance.

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