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I know this isn't the best place for truth but need honest information

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Penny

United States

#1 Jan 25, 2013
I know this isn't the best place for truth but need honest information when we first met. But he says he was getting out as soon as he could get things in order. He told me 4 weeks ago that he has filed for divorce and that his soon to be ex was livid. I've seen the drawn up divorce papers so I know he's not lying but she won't sign them.. I don't live in the same town as he does but I've heard rumors that everyone knows everyone's business around there. I heard that she is insane and will never let him go... I recently found out that I'm expecting but haven't told him yet cause I don't want .that to be the only reason he does leave. This woman used to work for law enforcement and I'm told that she would use any means to keep him. I'm just confused and would like some advice without being bashed. I know I was wrong to fall in love with a married man but I didn't know till 6 months in that he was married. He told me himself. I was already in love at that point and I'm sure he loves me back but I just need to know that he is really getting divorced. .thank you guys for any information you may have.
honey

Sioux City, IA

#2 Jan 25, 2013
WOW !!! You need a phychic ,no one i know is a mind reader .86
advice

Sioux City, IA

#3 Jan 25, 2013
Should have walked away the minute you found out he was married. That is a choice whether you have invested 6 days, 6 weeks, or 6 months. And 6 months is nothing compared to years of marriage for him!
anon

Ripley, TN

#5 Jan 25, 2013
Someone not taking their medications properly...
curiuos

Herndon, VA

#6 Jan 25, 2013
well first of all u should have known better to mess with a married man havent u heard the saying if u mess with a married man he will always be by his wife no matter what he will always go back to his wife if one dont want a divorce then there is no closur one cant open up a door without closeing the other one it will never work out i know im a married woman and i would be pist off royaly if someone messed with my husband but its ur life im just trying to give u the best advice but u need to run away from him and let his wife know whats going on its only fair to her that she knows best of luck in ur life

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#8 Jan 26, 2013
Married men do leave and never go back.
Think again

United States

#9 Jan 27, 2013
Married men can leave, but there check book stays behind.
Missy

Bowling Green, KY

#10 Jan 27, 2013
Think again wrote:
Married men can leave, but there check book stays behind.
Which one is more important, love or money?

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#11 Jan 27, 2013
Think again wrote:
Married men can leave, but there check book stays behind.
Then you say what kind of a partner you will be...
Guest

United States

#12 Jan 27, 2013
Why did he wait six months in to tell you he's married? Already withholding information. Same as lying. And you know if they will cheat with you then they will cheat on you. Common sense. And why did you let yourself become pregnant? Hopefully not as a means to keep him from dropping you. You have no idea what you're doing, where you're going, or how you're going to deal with all these poor choices. I do not see a happy ending for anyone. Least of all for the precious baby you got coming. If he loves you the way you think, then break up, let him get his divorce he's supposedly getting and then when it's finalized you can be together. Surely all this love you think you share will endure until that time. If not, then you will know it wasn't anything to begin with. I hope and pray for your baby that the father of your baby steps up. But it's your job as a mother to step up and tell him. I mean, my god, with all the lying and cheating going on here at least show your baby with the respect it deserves by not keeping it a secret from the father. Poor lil thing didn't ask for this. Do the right thing even when others might not. Good luck to ya.

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