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Antioch, TN

#116 Jun 30, 2013
The cheating my spouse did several years ago . So I noticed signs early on years back. But I didn't want too. So some I ignored some I asked about and of course they made a big deal out of it and turned it on me. It was good for months and then out of blue it would get bad overnight for next 3-4 months. About month ago. Late at night a phone started ringing after they were asleep but no ones phone that was known was ringing. Then it happened couple more times. It was a prepaid phone. And I didn't say anything I sit back and waited. With the staying gone all the time and riding on back roads they started doing it became more obvious. But I listened to them instead of what I knew it was. I knew in my heart from their actions. I would look at my baby and hope I was wrong. I love my baby more than life. And they knew it. So they knew as long as I didn't catch in the act I wasn't going nowhere. The first cheat time took 3 mos for them to admit to it. At the same time they wanted to come back home. This time our last convo they denied denied and said they will always love me. But didn't say much else
So when I was told were they were seen and the rough description of vehicle they was seen. And that it being going on for a while. I wasn't surprised really. Cause deep down I already knew. And I been thru it with them before so I didn't even get mad or hurt. It surprised me I didn't. But I was glad I wasn't wrong all them times I asked. At least it didn't take three months like before. All the times I asked and got called names and cursed. It turned out I was right and that felt great. I knew better than try again with a cheater. They was cheating on someone when I met them. I just glad the darkness was light up. They could have never really loved cause of the cheating. If you u truely love someone you don't cheat on them. And I believe that. The way I see better now than 5 more years than find out.
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Antioch, TN

#117 Jun 30, 2013
The dealing with a cheating spouse is bad. But its when your gut tells you but the one you care about says different. The truth is when your in a long term relationship you learn everything good and bad about them. So when they start acting different you pick up on the subtle things and don't realize it right away. It starts as a gut feeling. Usually the one cheating is very manipulating and convincing. And they know unless you have hard proof they can talk there way out of it. Leaving the one its happening too. After your questioning yourself. In my experience s when it happens and there's longterm relationships involved they end up with a lot of guilt if you split and don't have anything to do with them anymore. Cheating is exhilarating for some but when the ones cheating end up together. It don't last long. Cause its normal after the new wears off. And the exhilaration is gone and its a matter of time till the cheaters that get together start looking for that exhilaration with new jodys and janies while together. It happens a lot more than thought.
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Antioch, TN

#118 Jun 30, 2013
scorned spawn wrote:
Or maybe they'll just meet some younger "dirty ho" at the gym and carry on an affair for a few years before it's discoveredscorne
Im interested in this statement. Cause it fit or at leat close enough to inquire about. Your time frame and saying younger nd the rest of your description possibly fits my scenario. But I highly doubt the gym. We might have something in common and if we do . We mightshould figure out.
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Antioch, TN

#119 Jun 30, 2013
scorned spawn wrote:
Or maybe they'll just meet some younger "dirty ho" at the gym and carry on an affair for a few years before it's discoveredscorne
I set up an email just for this. I'm sure you can do the same. I got a little one so I need more info. I don't want to meet or anything. Just to swap info. To see if we are talking maybe about same thing. cheaterdyersburg @ gmail com All together
quest

Dyersburg, TN

#120 Jul 1, 2013
My boyfriend is always talking abour his co-worker. He made the statement that her husband doesnt like them texting months ago but it seems they havent stopped. Now he is texting her and lying to me about who he is really texting. I dont think it will be long and he will be single again.
scorned spawn

United States

#121 Jul 1, 2013
guest wrote:
<quoted text> I set up an email just for this. I'm sure you can do the same. I got a little one so I need more info. I don't want to meet or anything. Just to swap info. To see if we are talking maybe about same thing. cheaterdyersburg @ gmail com All together
I did. Shot you an email.

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