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#92 May 20, 2013
-Pepper wrote:
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Lol. And so you are SIIIIIIICK!!!!!!!
Yes Pepper, but he seems perfectly content!

“I AM YOUR OWN PERSONAL JESUS !”

Since: Feb 13

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#93 May 20, 2013
-Pepper wrote:
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Lol. And so you are SIIIIIIICK!!!!!!!
No it is just would be so HOT

Closest I have been so far is two sisters

and not not together

I wish

“I AM YOUR OWN PERSONAL JESUS !”

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#94 May 20, 2013
Guest From Martin wrote:
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Yes Pepper, but he seems perfectly content!
Oh I am......very

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#95 May 20, 2013
Ha Ha! people like you, make the world go round.... More power to you, hope you make your goal!

Since: Dec 11

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#98 May 20, 2013
-Pepper wrote:
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Oh Gawd. He is my buddy but he's sick. You hear me?
Ha Ha! I hear you! But you can't have the light, without the dark. Think about how bored you would be, if he wasn't here to make you realize just how well you are!
The other one

Canyon Lake, TX

#99 May 20, 2013
He will delete texts. When he leaves the room to talk on the phone or just takes it with him when he walks into the kitchen for a drink. Tells you he's been wandering the hardware store just looking when he's been gone for a few hours. Sits & stares into thin air just a few things. But now a days there are several apps available to hide calls, texts, pictures. If he keeps the phones home screen locked- there's those hidden apps hiding his secrets.

“I AM YOUR OWN PERSONAL JESUS !”

Since: Feb 13

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#100 May 21, 2013
Guest From Martin wrote:
Ha Ha! people like you, make the world go round.... More power to you, hope you make your goal!
Me too
history

Dallas, TX

#101 May 21, 2013
A man who cheats or wants to will treat the women in his life like a piece of dirt, start fights, act out, try to blame a woman for drama, when in turn it is really him causing the problem and just trying to make his mind believe things are bad enough at home so it gives him an excuse to cheat hope its worth it here on earth, cause death and taxes are inevitable and God knows the truth.
zoe

Harrisburg, AR

#103 Jun 10, 2013
Sad wrote:
<quoted text>lol that's like saying its ok. Hell no!!if I find out facts he can kiss my sweet a-s-s good bye:) he was always a play boy and always had several women he was with before we got together so I know he is good at hiding it. He just made ME believe that I was the ONE for him
I had one like that i keep going back too. Sadly some are better than you could ever imagine at playing that game
My suggestion is leave it be and let god handle it.
I say this because I caught mine but lost myself in the process. Trust me you don't want to do that. If he is it will show up at some point . Just enjoy your time together while you can. If you are unhappy just leave
really

Dyersburg, TN

#105 Jun 11, 2013
Guest wrote:
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I did all the work myself, except for the pics! It was awesome to be vindicated! I was past the point of jealous, but I was very hurt and totally pissed off. I gave this man many years. Never again will I give this kind of power, over me, better to have friends with benefits than to allow someone to crush your heart and skew your view of the world!
but you never cheated? You so sound like an endless babble basket case I know. I'M saying this bc I read your other comment on here as well.. In most relationships people cheat bc of many reasons. Not agreeing with the concept, but most of the time both parties have been unfaithful or other twisted things have occurred in the relationship... maybe he wondered if you would go back to dating girls is why he cheated???? It sucks for sure but usually when it happens, it wasn't the best situation to begin with. The guilty always keep on and on saying how perfect everything was until the (other person) messed up. For instance?? You said in your other comment your ex would accuse you to the point of verbal abuse and violence...... If that's true then why did you stay? Oh. LOVE? I'm sorry LOL but if someone beat me I would go and wouldn't hang around to be cheated on, since my life was so bad LMAO!
really

Dyersburg, TN

#106 Jun 11, 2013
Guest wrote:
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Uhm lol no thanks I got past feeling the need to talk about it a long time ago! Found me a beneficial friend already ty for the thought tho!:P
then why are YOU on Topix talking about it !?! Lol flip flopper LOL
guest

United States

#107 Jun 29, 2013
Me and my future ex just split up too. They said they wanted start over by themselves. Ok. Who is it this time? They said no one. And repeated wantin to start over. And there is kids involved. I said who is it? I have been thru this before several years back with same spouse. In 10 years I never once cheated. I'm happy about this but it bothers me for the kids. They are the ill type person even in daily life normally but at first and in public. Fun joking. Its like two different people I swear. Needless to say I was ready this time. Thank u. Good luck next guy. But what I don't get is why cheat or put yourself in those situations. If u get the urge. Its time to leave who u are with and start over first. But they seem to want someone else waiting. Just cut clean first so no one gets hurt. Why all the lies and decit. U want cake and eat it too. They started started acting different a few months back. Three hour trips to walmart and spend 50$ regular. Staying on cell phone all the time . Hours and hours daily. Use to didn't like to run errands. She started finding reasons to leave several times daily for hours. Leaving the baby at home when they begged to go. Started picking arguments about everything. Went from being mean to super nice. Our personal life got more active after suspicion at times. Didn't cook or clean at all. She barely did at all even when we first meet. I was cook. But they stopped completely. And what funny they have been cooking commercially for last few months as well. Started spending around 4 days a week diown at there families house for 8 to hours a day visiting . This was abnormal of past 10 years.All these signs almost identical happened several years ago when they cheated and I forgave. And they swore it wont ever happen again. Well it did. This I asked her just to be honest and tell me. I could see her holding back. But she said no. Well today I find out she has been messing around for a while. Someone told me that and what type of vehicle they was told they was seen in rough description of vehicle and what area they were seen in. But they wont admit to me till I prove I kno. Why? If that's what someone wants fine. Except for my kids I'm thrilled to start fresh. I get to start fresh to with someone. I have been depressed unhappy for years but my kids were more important. Cheating has happened several times with them. So I owe someone for doing me a favor. I'm pretty sure her and this person has been on again off again for years. I think. And I think he may be married or just recently split up. But how can someone lie so much. Hide crap. But be so headstrong supposely. Why not just come clean and cut ties burn the bridges. I would have rather heard it from her instead of someone else. No respect.love. I'm burnt.
guest

United States

#108 Jun 29, 2013
Hideing the phone doesn't mean everythings ok. Cause if they been doing it for a while. You will notice them outside and going places by themselves. You might want to look for another cell phone account. Or walmart prepaid cell. That's what my soon to be ex was doing. Using a walmart thro away. Kept it hide in suv. Sometimes in house or secret purse compartment. I found out one night when ans unusal ringing started but no ones phone was ringing late. She had accidentally left it on or bump the volume key. I knew a lot more than they knew I knew and they still don't. Sad folks never satisfied . Its funny where the saying hindsight is 20/20 was made for situations like this. They knew in their gut not too. But didn't listen. You made ur bed
guest

United States

#109 Jun 29, 2013
I meant not hiding the cell phone.
guest

United States

#110 Jun 30, 2013
Guest2 wrote:
its better to kno the truth than to live a lie.
I agree but the times its happened to me, the truth was denied. You have to hear it from someone else.
scorned spawn

Dallas, TX

#111 Jun 30, 2013
Or maybe they'll just meet some younger "dirty ho" at the gym and carry on an affair for a few years before it's discoveredscorne
Caponw

Irving, TX

#112 Jun 30, 2013
Sad wrote:
<quoted text>no has only been really sweet to me for a month. I was meaning 6 months prior to that he talked to me like a dog. I found something out and I started digging dirt then questioned him about some things and now he wants to play perfect husband. That's why I am asking about things people have personally experienced
If your asking the question your gut is trying to tell you something. But you have to look at your situation to. Nice big house? Nice cars? Couple kids? That's alot to lose ? Especially if you find out someone is cheating. They might try to sneak a divorce through fast. Or they may not be planning on not leaving at all. I figure the latter. Maybe a brief stay at friends out and saying its just to get there head together. So they can have blast and when done coming back home. But the reason they treat you bad is they have to justify the cheating. So picking arguments, calling names, picking about every little thing you do. Starting an argument out of blue. When you think things are ok. And then getting mad and they just got to get out and drive and think. And your like what just happened. You start trying to figure out. What's going on . Abrupt out of normal behavior. Usually you start thinking cheating? Or drugs? This happens alot . You will notice if you start thinking. They sure do stay gone a lot the last 6 no or so. Men usually try to make woman think its cause because. She does nothing but fuss. She never wants to do anything . Or your questioning to much or accusing. They will find a reason for them cheating and you will always be what causes it. Even though your not. Its all on them but they won't admit it to themselves they are the reason there family might be split. They will focus only on negative things when it comes to you. And they will blow everything up. Mountain out of mole hills. And if you dare ask them what's wrong with you lately or anything bothering you. They will inform you quick its you. Then go to a friends house and meet the new one. While your blaming yourself or trying to figure out what happened. And they want proof if you ask anything. If you can deliver proof. They will start being nice and sweet and over caring for a while . Till they get you fooled again and can slip your blinders back on.
guest

United States

#113 Jun 30, 2013
scorned spawn wrote:
Or maybe they'll just meet some younger "dirty ho" at the gym and carry on an affair for a few years before it's discoveredscorne
,. Found out my relationship had a close path. Since late 09 early 2010 it started. I suspected but every time I inquired got my head bit off.
Scorned spawn

United States

#114 Jun 30, 2013
guest wrote:
<quoted text>,. Found out my relationship had a close path. Since late 09 early 2010 it started. I suspected but every time I inquired got my head bit off.
so what did you do?
guest

United States

#115 Jun 30, 2013
We split up. And I didn't find out to couple days after they left. I was suspicious the whole time. And when I asked they would get mad and rant rave and end up blaming me for something. Which I went thru this before years ago. And they swore it wouldn't happen again and how sorry they was. Ended up getting more serious have a kid together. And for the baby I took a lot. I split my first kids family up. Running around and I watched my first kid suffer due to it. It was caused by me thinking the grass was greener on my first one. I had no reason to leave my first woman she was faithful. Sweet . Honest and truely loved me. I picked arguments . Focused on everything bad that i could find no matter how small. To justify me leaving. It took a few years and i realized i had made worse mistake of my life.So I was good with this relationship and I took a lot so there family wasn't a split like my first one. Cause I carry guilt bad due to me causing them to grow up in broken home. I am better off this time. Just the deception and lies and how long it went bothered me.

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