Should I cheat on my wife?

Should I cheat on my wife?

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ctlr

Jackson, TN

#1 Dec 10, 2011
My wife cheated on me for over a year.Her affair ended last year however,forgetting about it and moving on is more challenging than I expected.I have had several chances to return the favor but haven't.
I have never cheated on any woman and hate to start now!Lately,all I think about is doing to her what she did to me.Will I feel better if I bed another woman?
Probably not

Boise, ID

#4 Dec 10, 2011
Just divorce her, get over it, and get on with your life. You sound miserable.
Tim Tebow

Nashville, TN

#5 Dec 10, 2011
Go for it dude. I pray for you and your loved ones (including your future mistress).

XOXO
Tim Tebow
Big Mark

Miami, FL

#7 Dec 10, 2011
I thought all husbands cheated on their wives. Don't they?

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#8 Dec 10, 2011
Don't sacrifice your morals just because someone else did. Two wrongs don't make a right. In the end you have to decide how much sin you can live with, like the rest of us
Mama D

Sioux City, IA

#9 Dec 10, 2011
If this marriage means anything to the both of you then seek marriage counseling. At least you'll have no regrets later if things don't work out...
guest

United States

#10 Dec 10, 2011
Don't do it. Just leave,because if u have ne feelings for her still it will hurt you more then it does her. I no. Don't do it. Take ur pride n leave.
HAHA

Palestine, TX

#11 Dec 10, 2011
ctlr wrote:
My wife cheated on me for over a year.Her affair ended last year however,forgetting about it and moving on is more challenging than I expected.I have had several chances to return the favor but haven't.
I have never cheated on any woman and hate to start now!Lately,all I think about is doing to her what she did to me.Will I feel better if I bed another woman?
I say dump her and divorce her, my husbands ex wife cheated on him and they divorced and he found someone better, even though his ex did it before and he gave her a second chance, she did it again, they always cheat again, hope it works out for ya!
Watching from a distance

Monterey, TN

#12 Dec 10, 2011
Dont cheat. Dont lower yourself to her level. If you dont love her anymore and dont trust her go ahead and get a divorce. Be better off in the long run.
2wrongs

United States

#13 Dec 10, 2011
No you shouldn't, as they say 2 wrongs don't make a right, sorry to hear she done that to you but it is the past and you did forgive her, correct? All i'm saying is I believe if your wanting to sleep with other people then just divorce and be single but you usually realize its not all its cracked up to be...but cheating is not the way to go, if you love her go to counseling, if not then move on. Hope you make the right choice
been there

United States

#15 Dec 10, 2011
Don't do it, it will not help only make things worse. I have been where you are at and although it seems like the answer, I promise its not!!!! If you can't let it go for the sake of your sanity walk away!
comeonman

United States

#16 Dec 10, 2011
Either you leave or she leaves but dump her. Then get you some. Time heals most wounds.

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#17 Dec 10, 2011
well if your name is jamie.... i know u DO speak the truth about her cheating, but.... be better than that. if you do it, you will regret it (if you have any conscience) just leave her and find someone that will treat you better.:)
guest

United States

#18 Dec 10, 2011
ctlr wrote:
My wife cheated on me for over a year.Her affair ended last year however,forgetting about it and moving on is more challenging than I expected.I have had several chances to return the favor but haven't.
I have never cheated on any woman and hate to start now!Lately,all I think about is doing to her what she did to me.Will I feel better if I bed another woman?
Do It!!!Think about how low she made u and no telling what her and other guy talked about..You..How u not good in bed or not paying attention to her.

Since: Dec 11

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#19 Dec 10, 2011
I say Divorce the nasty thing! A friend of mine was married for over 18 years. He started cheating on her soon after the wedding. She caught him and he cried huge tears, talked her into staying. Well she came to regret it! She caught him several times over the years and forgave him several times.
He worked over seas and was home every three months. About every other visit he became physically abusive. She hired a PI and found out, he was having an affair with this waitress...and had been for a while. Not her fault tho...she was pregnant and couldn't name the father. My friend figured out, he was messing around overseas Too. I guess the abuse was because, he couldn't keep up with three women!
Well, she asked for the divorce, he cried again...It was terrible to see. It was like his heart was broken. Told her, she was tearing their family apart and those other women meant absolutely 'nonthing' to him, and he would NEVER love ANY ONE like her.
She stayed strong though, she filed for the divorce and hid out till the husband left. Then started living for herself. Now she's happy as h3ll! Found a GREAT guy!
I guess life is better for the ex husband now too! He moved the waitress in, she got an abortion and now they are working on one that might (haha) be his...At least he figured out, don't get married...They can't take half of your SH!T He can screw any one he wants, and the house is clean when he gets home!
So ...Go for it! To thine own self be true! Get the divorce and go find a lady!
guest

United States

#20 Dec 11, 2011
Mama D wrote:
If this marriage means anything to the both of you then seek marriage counseling. At least you'll have no regrets later if things don't work out...
U said that u could have cheated lots of times but didn't ;;It sounds like your pride is damaged.Plus. I think u still.love her or u would have already screwed around and made sure she knew it.Did she tell u of this affair or did u just fine out.? Did she say she was. Sorry and wanted to make things right.
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Donna

Palestine, TX

#21 Dec 11, 2011
Guest From Martin wrote:
I say Divorce the nasty thing! A friend of mine was married for over 18 years. He started cheating on her soon after the wedding. She caught him and he cried huge tears, talked her into staying. Well she came to regret it! She caught him several times over the years and forgave him several times.
He worked over seas and was home every three months. About every other visit he became physically abusive. She hired a PI and found out, he was having an affair with this waitress...and had been for a while. Not her fault tho...she was pregnant and couldn't name the father. My friend figured out, he was messing around overseas Too. I guess the abuse was because, he couldn't keep up with three women!
Well, she asked for the divorce, he cried again...It was terrible to see. It was like his heart was broken. Told her, she was tearing their family apart and those other women meant absolutely 'nonthing' to him, and he would NEVER love ANY ONE like her.
She stayed strong though, she filed for the divorce and hid out till the husband left. Then started living for herself. Now she's happy as h3ll! Found a GREAT guy!
I guess life is better for the ex husband now too! He moved the waitress in, she got an abortion and now they are working on one that might (haha) be his...At least he figured out, don't get married...They can't take half of your SH!T He can screw any one he wants, and the house is clean when he gets home!
So ...Go for it! To thine own self be true! Get the divorce and go find a lady!
Your friend seems like a desperate person or just palin out stupid, i will say both, better yet i will say shes a liar! Either way your family should know that word well! I Hope you and your friend gets over her bad choices soon and moves on with her great life, troll!

Since: Dec 11

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#22 Dec 11, 2011
She did!! Thank you Green Funk Woman!

All is well at the Castle!

Since: Dec 11

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#23 Dec 11, 2011
HAHA wrote:
<quoted text>I say dump her and divorce her, my husbands ex wife cheated on him and they divorced and he found someone better, even though his ex did it before and he gave her a second chance, she did it again, they always cheat again, hope it works out for ya!
This is a prime example of you harrassing that family. They hadnt said anything about you at all on this thread. You brought it up and later they responded. Hello again Bully!
Sally-mae

Palestine, TX

#24 Dec 11, 2011
no i didnt say anything on here groupie, thats the point dummy! They are stalking people that are not me and i have post that they have done this on to prove it tard!

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