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lost without you

Cedar Park, TX

#1 Apr 18, 2013
Always think before you say something when your mad.it can hurt people more than you know.it can cause you to lose the people you love the most.i lost a very special person in my life that i loved with all my heart because i said some mean and hurtful things just because i was mad and hurt.i never meant any of it but now its too late to change it.GOD knows if i could i would!!!! I never meant to hurt them that bad to lose them forever.i only wanted them to feel some of the pain i was feeling and only caused them to hate me.its really killing me inside that words caused me to lose them.i would give my life to have them back in my arms again.i have learned a very valuable lesson from this.saying im sorry doesnt make it go away.i dont know what else to do but not sure i can ever get over this one.my heart is crushed.so please think before you speak those hurtful words.
Jeanie

Bowling Green, KY

#2 Apr 18, 2013
lost without you wrote:
Always think before you say something when your mad.it can hurt people more than you know.it can cause you to lose the people you love the most.i lost a very special person in my life that i loved with all my heart because i said some mean and hurtful things just because i was mad and hurt.i never meant any of it but now its too late to change it.GOD knows if i could i would!!!! I never meant to hurt them that bad to lose them forever.i only wanted them to feel some of the pain i was feeling and only caused them to hate me.its really killing me inside that words caused me to lose them.i would give my life to have them back in my arms again.i have learned a very valuable lesson from this.saying im sorry doesnt make it go away.i dont know what else to do but not sure i can ever get over this one.my heart is crushed.so please think before you speak those hurtful words.
If somebody really loves you they should be able to forgive those hurtful words. It's the actions that are most hurtful. Sorry for your pain. Hopefully in time they may learn how to forgive.

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#3 Apr 18, 2013
Words don't end a relationship.....people do.
Agree

Sioux City, IA

#4 Apr 18, 2013
Words have the capability to sting more harshly than any physical pain ever could. Silence is the wisest choice in these situations. Time heals. Best of luck to you.
Guest

Sioux City, IA

#5 Apr 18, 2013
Absolutely. If people stood back and really looked at the whole picture, they would realize the words had little to do with it. Usually there were other underlying issues long before the words were said.
Sector101

United States

#6 Apr 18, 2013
Actions speak louder than words but words do cut like a knife. Which hurts worse? A slap in the face that leaves a bruise or a cut from a word that leaves a scare? Bruised and scared up isn't good at all so try being humble and kind and lose the viper tongue.

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#7 Apr 18, 2013
Guest wrote:
Absolutely. If people stood back and really looked at the whole picture, they would realize the words had little to do with it. Usually there were other underlying issues long before the words were said.
I have never seen a relationship that couldn't be fixed. The couple involved have that control.
Agree

Sioux City, IA

#8 Apr 18, 2013
Well usually people have a certain tolerance level, and once that level is surpassed, they are done. Keep turning the other cheek until there are no more cheeks to turn. Straw that broke the camel's back, etc.

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#10 Apr 18, 2013
Agree wrote:
Well usually people have a certain tolerance level, and once that level is surpassed, they are done. Keep turning the other cheek until there are no more cheeks to turn. Straw that broke the camel's back, etc.
This is true but then again, there are choices.
get it right

Sioux City, IA

#11 Apr 18, 2013
just remember always treat the one you love with respect and put them first. everything happens for a reason. whoever you are suppose to be with will appear when you least expect it.
Guest

Sioux City, IA

#12 Apr 18, 2013
Guest wrote:
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Pepper should know. All her's were ended.
Whoa. Not cool. Pepper isn't the subject of this thread first of all so knock it off. Secondly, she's said nothing ugly and whether you agree with her or not, her personal business true or not is not any of our business. If she wanted to discuss personal matters with the whole town then she would have let us know. Make yourself useful and stick with the program.

“Old Dinner Bell”

Since: Mar 13

" Home Sweet Home "

#13 Apr 18, 2013
It seems that noone ever thought about knowing the person that you want to spend time with. Learn what they like and don't like, and how they feel about the things that happen in life.
A disagreement should be about little things with little meanings. Arguments should never happen with a person you really know. Apologies are for simple errors that we all make. Know that a relationship is what you want together, not what is convenient.

Pepper_126

“I don't do red lipstick...”

Since: Sep 12

well maybe this one time...

#14 Apr 18, 2013
Old man- Bville wrote:
It seems that noone ever thought about knowing the person that you want to spend time with. Learn what they like and don't like, and how they feel about the things that happen in life.
A disagreement should be about little things with little meanings. Arguments should never happen with a person you really know. Apologies are for simple errors that we all make. Know that a relationship is what you want together, not what is convenient.
Good post OMan. Hopefully everything will work out for them.
get it right

Sioux City, IA

#15 Apr 18, 2013
sounds like its over but life goes on.
lost without you

White Oak, TX

#16 Apr 18, 2013
Thanks for all the kind words.i really felt like if they loved me enough that it would work out but they wont even speak to me.i have been through some bad relationships in the past.cheated on,lied to and mistreated so i had a wall built around my heart but somehow he broke through it.i have always given my all in a relationship.thats the way it should be but i guess that wasnt really good enough and thats why i get stepped on so much.i mean,it was all through texting which made it even worse.i tried to talk to him but he just ignores me.i dont know what to do.i guess time will heal my heart but its gonna take a long long time.i feel if we could sit and talk face to face,we might could work through this but i guess he didnt love me as much as i did him.i thought things were great between us then everything seemed to change.just wish i knew how i could change it all and what i did so wrong.
lost without you

White Oak, TX

#17 Apr 18, 2013
Old man- Bville wrote:
It seems that noone ever thought about knowing the person that you want to spend time with. Learn what they like and don't like, and how they feel about the things that happen in life.
A disagreement should be about little things with little meanings. Arguments should never happen with a person you really know. Apologies are for simple errors that we all make. Know that a relationship is what you want together, not what is convenient.
thats the worst part.it was over a little thing.i just told him how i was feeling about something because he was acting different and it just blew up.i dont think either of us know what really happened and it was all on stupid texting but he jyst never would talk to me.it doesnt really make sense but maybe one day it will.like someone said,"if it was meant to be,it would have been.
get it right

Sioux City, IA

#18 Apr 18, 2013
did he treat you right
lost without you

White Oak, TX

#19 Apr 18, 2013
I know i am done with serious relationships.i dont think i will ever fall in love again.its just too much pain and hurt and takes so much from you.i guess nothing last forever.
lost without you

White Oak, TX

#20 Apr 18, 2013
get it right wrote:
did he treat you right
yes he did in the beginning but he started acting differently toward me.
wow

United States

#21 Apr 18, 2013
Hmmm sounds familiar. you know. admitting it is an entirely different story.

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