Manfred

Dunlap, TN

#1 Jun 25, 2012
I have problems with my ex wife causing problems in my life. Any suggestions? I'm a good dad to our kids. I stay out of her business but she's in my business to the point of driving past my house and spreading rumors. It causes problems in my relationship. I need suggestions on what I can do. She's irrational and a little psycho. I've had people tell me to grow a pair and tell her to back off. I've tried that and it only makes the situation worse.
hey

Pikeville, TN

#2 Jun 25, 2012
Manfred wrote:
I have problems with my ex wife causing problems in my life. Any suggestions? I'm a good dad to our kids. I stay out of her business but she's in my business to the point of driving past my house and spreading rumors. It causes problems in my relationship. I need suggestions on what I can do. She's irrational and a little psycho. I've had people tell me to grow a pair and tell her to back off. I've tried that and it only makes the situation worse.
My suggestion would be too, walk away. I know it's the obvious answer and rumors are just that rumors. If someone believe's something that comes out of someone's other than who the rumor was started about then I wouldn't even associate myself with them. However if she's making threats to you then I would pursue means of getting a restraining order and/or file harassment charges.
Idea

United States

#3 Jun 25, 2012
Long Slow Ride in the Dessert
getting to you

Dunlap, TN

#4 Jun 25, 2012
When you show her that it is not getting to you she will either kill you or get bored with it all and stop. Find her a man to keep her busy.
Chuck Norris

Clover, SC

#5 Jun 26, 2012
Kick her square in the vagina. Sometimes their brains leak out of them from time to time so u have to clog them back up.
lucky

United States

#6 Jun 27, 2012
Tell her boyfriend who probably has no clue of what she's doing because of the hours he works!! Maybe he can get a handle on her.
Been there

Dunlap, TN

#7 Jun 27, 2012
Just ignore her.
Manfred

Dunlap, TN

#8 Jun 27, 2012
lucky wrote:
Tell her boyfriend who probably has no clue of what she's doing because of the hours he works!! Maybe he can get a handle on her.
She's married. I thought about getting her husband involved but my kids will be in the middle of it an the less on them the better. I ignore it an my wife gets upset because she wants me to set her straight. If I set the ex straight she gets irrational and psycho. When I was out running the town an getting in trouble the ex wasn't in my business as much. I've settled down and started behaving and the ex is going nuts. She keeps the rumors going. I see what she's doing but I can't get a handle on the problem. It's not something I can get the law in on. There's no law against acting like a high school kid. We divorced years ago and she moved on real quick. I think her life has gone stale and she's jealous. I'm tired of the games just don't know how to handle her. She's turning my kids against me an my wife with all her lies. It gets real confusing for them because they don't know who to believe. My wife won't give her the time of day an that isn't good neither it just makes things worse.
I dont get it

Dunlap, TN

#9 Jun 27, 2012
You, your wife, your ex ,her husband and a referee of some sorts with out the kids should get together in a private but public place, like Harris Park and decuss it all. Good Luck.
i no

Dunlap, TN

#10 Jun 27, 2012
My ex done the same $hit. It aint worth the fight. Keep ur space an don leter gt to yall. She jealous an nuthin gona shut up a jealous woman. Giver a warnin an if she dont back of teller husband. Itll kick up dust fur sure. That husbandll geter in line. Mine aint got a man to keeper in lin an i just gota put up wither. Be hapy you aint wither an keep them kids out the midle. I feell for ya. I ben doin it fur 17 yrs. ups an downs.
Poor Fella

Dunlap, TN

#11 Jun 28, 2012
It gets frustrating! Believe me, I've been there! My husband has an ex that ENJOYS causing problems. In my case, the ex tries to get between us. I had to stop answering calls and ignore messages from her. She doesn't have one good thing to say about the man, but she can't go a day without calling him. They have kids together but the things she calls about should be handled by her new husband. My opinion is that it's pure jealousy. In some cases, the ex is still attached and it's hard for them to see someone else come in and make the man happy. They're deeply miserable with themselves and they want to make everyone around them miserable. I haven't found a solution and I don't think you will find one either. I stay as far away from her as I can. I don’t associate with a woman that, in a way, is cheating on her new husband with MY husband. Her husband doesn’t know the things she’s done and I know for sure it would cause her some big trouble if he did. You can only hope that she will find happiness in her life. Misery loves company. Keep your head up no matter what she says about you and prove her wrong. I can’t tell you that it works and it will make her go away, but it will make you feel good about yourself. Don’t worry so much about the kids. Kids are a lot smarter than we give them credit for. They can see through people just as we can. They’ll remember what their mother has done and it will cause them to disrespect her later in life. Good luck!
wake up

Monroe, NC

#12 Jun 29, 2012
Poor Fella wrote:
It gets frustrating! Believe me, I've been there! My husband has an ex that ENJOYS causing problems. In my case, the ex tries to get between us. I had to stop answering calls and ignore messages from her. She doesn't have one good thing to say about the man, but she can't go a day without calling him. They have kids together but the things she calls about should be handled by her new husband. My opinion is that it's pure jealousy. In some cases, the ex is stil

l attached and it's hard for them to see someone
else come in and make the man happy. They're deeply miserable with themselves and they want to make everyone around them miserable. I haven't found a solution and I don't think you will find one either. I stay as far away from her as I can. I don’t associate with a woman that, in a way, is cheating on her new husband with MY husband. Her husband doesn’t know the things she’s done and I know for sure it would cause her some big trouble if he did. You can only hope that she will find happiness in her life. Misery loves company. Keep your head up no matter what she says about you and prove her wrong. I can’t tell you that it works and it will make her go away, but it will make you feel good about yourself. Don’t worry so much about the kids. Kids are a lot smarter than we give them credit for. They can see through people just as we can. They’ll remember what their mother has done and it will cause them to disrespect her later in life. Good luck!
Sounds like your the jealous one theyre divorced if she wanted him she would still be married to him. She probably starts problems cause u run ur.mouth and r crazy.
Ex alert

United States

#13 Jun 29, 2012
wake up wrote:
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Sounds like your the jealous one theyre divorced if she wanted him she would still be married to him. She probably starts problems cause u run ur.mouth and r crazy.
Woooo weee! Looks like an ex wife chiming in folks! You sound real stable! What are you getting your panties in a bundle for sweetheart? I hope you chime in again. Aint no tellin what'll come outa the mouth of a bitter woman!
Hello

United States

#14 Jun 29, 2012
Ex alert wrote:
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Woooo weee! Looks like an ex wife chiming in folks! You sound real stable! What are you getting your panties in a bundle for sweetheart? I hope you chime in again. Aint no tellin what'll come outa the mouth of a bitter woman!
No not the ex
loose bruce

Dunlap, TN

#15 Jun 29, 2012
Hello wrote:
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No not the ex
Not very convincing sweetheart. You got all hot and bothered by them comments. A nerve been exposed! Go take one them crazy pills in your purse and relax for while. You aint gotta be out creepin on your ex. I figure you got you a litter of kids you need to attend to.
hell yeah

Dunlap, TN

#16 Jul 2, 2012
wake up wrote:
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Sounds like your the jealous one theyre divorced if she wanted him she would still be married to him. She probably starts problems cause u run ur.mouth and r crazy.
I agree. Poor Fella sound so jealous of you calling her husband. That so stupid. Give me a break poor fella! She can call him as much as she want to. She had him first and you can backoff and let her enterup your life as much as she want. Who cares if her husbend don't know cuz I bet your husbend don't know all you do neither. You got some nerve telling the exwife she should talkki to her husbend. I mean who does THAT?? These people don't get it! Get a life! I call my ex all the dam time and that aint none of that bitches bizness. I got control and always will! Hell yeah I turn the kids against that crazy bitch. I'll turn the hole town against them if I want! It make me sick when they do things for my kids cuz I wont stand for them to do more then I do. I'm glad I aint the only 1 to think it. Wake up is right! I'd bust that bitch in the mouth if she run it on me.
wow

Pikeville, TN

#17 Jul 2, 2012
hell yeah wrote:
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I agree. Poor Fella sound so jealous of you calling her husband. That so stupid. Give me a break poor fella! She can call him as much as she want to. She had him first and you can backoff and let her enterup your life as much as she want. Who cares if her husbend don't know cuz I bet your husbend don't know all you do neither. You got some nerve telling the exwife she should talkki to her husbend. I mean who does THAT?? These people don't get it! Get a life! I call my ex all the dam time and that aint none of that bitches bizness. I got control and always will! Hell yeah I turn the kids against that crazy bitch. I'll turn the hole town against them if I want! It make me sick when they do things for my kids cuz I wont stand for them to do more then I do. I'm glad I aint the only 1 to think it. Wake up is right! I'd bust that bitch in the mouth if she run it on me.
This has to be the most ridiculous uneducated dribble I've ever heard spewed from the mouth of an ignorant person.

Correction: dumb person. Ignorance can be cured, but dumb lasts forever.
Hello

Monroe, NC

#18 Jul 2, 2012
hell yeah wrote:
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I agree. Poor Fella sound so jealous of you calling her husband. That so stupid. Give me a break poor fella! She can call him as much as she want to. She had him first and you can backoff and let her enterup your life as much as she want. Who cares if her husbend don't know cuz I bet your husbend don't know all you do neither. You got some nerve telling the exwife she should talkki to her husbend. I mean who does THAT?? These people don't get it! Get a life! I call my ex all the dam time and that aint none of that bitches bizness. I got control and always will! Hell yeah I turn the kids against that crazy bitch. I'll turn the hole town against them if I want! It make me sick when they do things for my kids cuz I wont stand for them to do more then I do. I'm glad I aint the only 1 to think it. Wake up is right! I'd bust that bitch in the mouth if she run it on me.
ya u think they would be happy that they actually get along instead of argueing!
lucky

Dunlap, TN

#19 Jul 3, 2012
My ex married the most wonderful woman. I consider her my best friend. I've seen it go the other way and I know how lucky I am to have her. I get along real good with my ex. I don't ever have a need to call him because I can call his wife for anything. There's only been a few things I needed to call my ex for but that's only because I couldn't get his wife first. I do it out of respect for her. Plus he can't remember anything that's going on and it's easier for the women to get together on things. I wouldn't feel right calling my ex and planning things without his wife knowing. Communication is the key. I talk to them two or three times a week. The kids go through enough during the divorce so I try to keep things easy on everyone and they do the same for me. I can't do as much for my kids as they can but it doesn't bother me that they can. I'm glad they have people that CAN do for them what I can't. It's best if everyone gets along but I know situations where it doesn't work. We don't always agree but we work at it and come to an agreement that we can all live with. You got to bend a little and be understanding. Let go of the past and make the best out of the future for your kids.

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