Before any other issue can be put on the table, the basic question of whether a relationship qualifies as marriage must be answered.<quoted text>
We've had legal gay marriage in America for 8 years already
The only thing that has changed in 8 years is an increase in the number of legally married couples
The very fact that you didn't know that; is proof that gay marriage has no adverse affect your marriage
Marriage is a cross cultural constraint on evolutionary mating behavior.
Gay couples are a defective, desolate contradiction of the very basic goal of evolution.
Hence, the very term 'gay marriage' is an oxymoron. Literally 'unmarriage'.
That reality can't be legislated or legalized.