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SueH wrote: As far as what Carol is doing.....she is a little fish in a big pond. Leave her alone. She has no influence over how that village is run. Who cares how she decides to spend her time ON HER DAYS OFF. ++++++++++ She was doing this ON VILLAGE TIME...DURING BUSINESS HOURS. SO WAS DREW DOING STACY ON VILLAGE TIME....showing up in his uniform to her job at the cafe....and then sleeping with the minor teenager while still married to his wife... but that's different, right?
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orphanannie wrote: <quoted text> SO WAS DREW DOING STACY ON VILLAGE TIME....showing up in his uniform to her job at the cafe....and then sleeping with the minor teenager while still married to his wife... but that's different, right? Can you EVER stay on topic? Screwing a homewrecker isn't what this is about. If the chief had no problem with it and SP had no problem with it...get over it.
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SueH wrote: <quoted text> Can you EVER stay on topic? Screwing a homewrecker isn't what this is about. If the chief had no problem with it and SP had no problem with it...get over it. SueH, for once I have to agree with you. It seems that whatever goes on in Bolingbrook is somehow tied to Stacy Peterson. The White Hen gets robbed, and according to orphanannie it is because DP had just visited and he jinxed the place. It sure is tiring.
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1SexyRepublican wrote: <quoted text> SueH, for once I have to agree with you. It seems that whatever goes on in Bolingbrook is somehow tied to Stacy Peterson. The White Hen gets robbed, and according to orphanannie it is because DP had just visited and he jinxed the place. It sure is tiring. uh...republican, get your facts straight...I have never said that, and you need to retract your statement... my POINT was that it is EASY for some to POINT FINGERS at other VILLAGE employees, but NOT DREW, while he was working.... apparently, you didn't get that. and if it makes you tired to hear all about Drew Peterson, then don't 'tune in'.... Don't blast me for pointing out that a village employee named Drew Peterson was engaged in a sexual relationship with a minor while still married and while he was in a position of authority over her....which by state law says he should have been charged with sexual exploitation of a minor.....but the VILLAGE MAYOR and powers that be,'had no problem with it'....the PROBLEM IS: if you look the other way at STate and Federal Code, you just might get your ass sued.... the Mayor has a responsibility, Republican, to uphold the standards and laws that govern his little realm.... just because he failed to do so, doesn't give Drew a free pass for his behavior. It does however, imply that his silence on the matter is consent....which both you and Sue H. seem to endorse... I bet you though, if it was your 16 year old daughter having sex with the married night commander of the village you lived in, your butt would be hiking it straight to village hall and you'd be in the mayor's face...no?
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"Was Drew doing Stacy on Village Time?" Orphanannie, what the heck are you talking about? Drew is an idiot, Stacy knew he was married, neither one of them had any morals and you reap what you sow. Getting involved with a married man was a CHOICE she made. SHE taunted Kathy Savio. However bad I feel about Stacy being missing, it does not erase the fact that she made a CHOICE to be with him.
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orphanannie wrote: <quoted text> uh...republican, get your facts straight...I have never said that, and you need to retract your statement... my POINT was that it is EASY for some to POINT FINGERS at other VILLAGE employees, but NOT DREW, while he was working.... apparently, you didn't get that. and if it makes you tired to hear all about Drew Peterson, then don't 'tune in'.... Don't blast me for pointing out that a village employee named Drew Peterson was engaged in a sexual relationship with a minor while still married and while he was in a position of authority over her....which by state law says he should have been charged with sexual exploitation of a minor.....but the VILLAGE MAYOR and powers that be,'had no problem with it'....the PROBLEM IS: if you look the other way at STate and Federal Code, you just might get your ass sued.... the Mayor has a responsibility, Republican, to uphold the standards and laws that govern his little realm.... just because he failed to do so, doesn't give Drew a free pass for his behavior. It does however, imply that his silence on the matter is consent....which both you and Sue H. seem to endorse... I bet you though, if it was your 16 year old daughter having sex with the married night commander of the village you lived in, your butt would be hiking it straight to village hall and you'd be in the mayor's face...no? Orphanannie, Let me try to address all of your points. Is this not a thread talking about Mayor Claar and how he runs the town worse than a first grader? Yes. Do I think Mayor Claar knows what each and every employee of the police, public works, fire department, and his office are doing? Probably not. Do I think this man is right? No. Do I think he further implicates himself everytime he makes a television appearance? Yes. Do I firmly believe this man needs NO help from anyone else in the world to cook his goose? Yes. Of course, I am going to sway with public opinion that this man is a sociopath and a dirtbag. I agree wholeheartedly. Do I think that every wrong that occurs in Bolingbrook is due to DP? Absolutely not. To answer your question. I do not have children, but if that was my 16 year old daughter sleeping with a man old enough to be her father I would take it up directly with him. Not the mayor, village hall, etc.
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Wake Up wrote: "Was Drew doing Stacy on Village Time?" Orphanannie, what the heck are you talking about? Drew is an idiot, Stacy knew he was married, neither one of them had any morals and you reap what you sow. Getting involved with a married man was a CHOICE she made. SHE taunted Kathy Savio. However bad I feel about Stacy being missing, it does not erase the fact that she made a CHOICE to be with him. uh....she ws 16 years of age at the time, her brain and critical thinking skills had not been developed completely, as it is in all human beings...that happens at about 21 years of age... she didn't have a good support system, ie PARENTS who were plugged in and engaged with her...her dad was/is alcoholic, her mother turned up missing as well...so,I can't technically blame HER entirely for the relationship that took place...this has been discussed before, and my stance is that DREW WAS/IS THE ADULT in the relationship....HE CERTAINLY KNEW BETTER....HE PURSUED HER!! He would show up at her job at the coffee shop where she worked and spend several times a shift while he was on duty, coming there to flirt with her....no, he wasn't there for just the coffee...he then got her a job at the police department as a cadet....while he was still bopping her in his basement with Kathleen upstairs asleep with the kids.... If you want to point fingers....it should be pointed at the 29 year veteran of the police department, WHO WAS THE ADULT!!, and who by all standards and mores, should have known better, but DIDN'T DO BETTER!!
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1SexyRepublican wrote: <quoted text> Orphanannie, Let me try to address all of your points. Is this not a thread talking about Mayor Claar and how he runs the town worse than a first grader? Yes. Do I think Mayor Claar knows what each and every employee of the police, public works, fire department, and his office are doing? Probably not. Do I think this man is right? No. Do I think he further implicates himself everytime he makes a television appearance? Yes. Do I firmly believe this man needs NO help from anyone else in the world to cook his goose? Yes. Of course, I am going to sway with public opinion that this man is a sociopath and a dirtbag. I agree wholeheartedly. Do I think that every wrong that occurs in Bolingbrook is due to DP? Absolutely not. To answer your question. I do not have children, but if that was my 16 year old daughter sleeping with a man old enough to be her father I would take it up directly with him. Not the mayor, village hall, etc. well, since you are a republican, you might want to take it step further in that the village kept this man employed with our tax dollars for years afterward, right? I agree, taking it to the source would be the honorable thing to do, and most decent employees would be happy to comply; but you are talking about a child sexual offender on the police force, in essence, and yet the village looked the other way... THAT PUTS THE VILLAGE ON PAR WITH PRETTY MUCH CONDONING CHILD MOLESTATION..... I don't think running to Drew's doorstep with that one would have amounted to a hill of beans...other than he might have sold you his autograph for $25! The only thing needed for evil to triumph is when good men/women do nothing. What a shame the mayor couldn't grow a pair, and look into the 'allegations' a little more thoroughly, not to mention what STATE LAW really says, and put the police chief on notice that this situation was not acceptable behavior ON ANY LEVEL!! Again, as so many failed K. Savio, I believe many also, who were in a position of authority and action, also failed Stacy.... had someone done an intervention, we might not be having this conversation....no?
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whatever annie. this thread is about Claar and the bangup job he does with the Village! Legal age of consent is 17. Nobody but Drew and Stacy know exactly at what point the disgusting affair was consumated.....but if it was when she was 17 there is not ONE THING anyone can do about it. Like it or not, that is the plain fact. Real classy, "bopping" your married boyfriend while his wife and kids were sleeping upstairs. But this thread is not about Drew. Let's get back to Roger, the hot mess that he is.
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Orphan, for once you have put it best... orphanannie wrote: <quoted text> ...this has been discussed before.. EXACTLY! There are 75 other DP topics that you give your 2 cents in, can we have a "DP Free" topic for once? This is NOT what the original poster is asking, and not everyone cares to continue to discuss DP over and over again. Orphan, as has been stated in other Topics ABOUT the DP/SP subject, there are people with many differing opinions and yours is not solely correct. And all that you are trying to relate as "fact" might not be able to be presented as fact in a court of law. Also, I could dispute alot of what your account of the "facts" are, but this is not the time or place for it. We know you hate DP, we know you think about this 24/7, we know how passionate you are about this subject, but Bolingbrook does not equal all things Drew Peterson.
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Wake Up wrote: whatever annie. this thread is about Claar and the bangup job he does with the Village! Legal age of consent is 17. Nobody but Drew and Stacy know exactly at what point the disgusting affair was consumated.....but if it was when she was 17 there is not ONE THING anyone can do about it. Like it or not, that is the plain fact. Real classy, "bopping" your married boyfriend while his wife and kids were sleeping upstairs. But this thread is not about Drew. Let's get back to Roger, the hot mess that he is. This is addressed to both Copper and Wakeup: Wake up, you are wrong on two points: you are wrong on the legal age thing...age of consent with an adult in position of authority is 18 in illinois...better read the law.. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_... just scroll down til you get there..and you are wrong on "no one knows when sex happened between Drew and Stacy"; the facts are, her sister and her aunt knew, and they BOTH were unable to get anyone to do anything about it....and her sister states that STacy was 16 when she began dating Drew. this was ON TOPIC....because it shows a pattern in the bolingbrook community of the 'head in the sand' mentality from the mayor on down... If you go back a few posts, you will see that my point was not DREW PETERSON per se, eventhough, that is what you seem to want to take away from this... MY point was that one poster was castigating a village employee for selling FIND STACY bumper stickers while on the job....my response was that what should be good for the goose should also be good for the gander....that DP did much worse while on company time, and NO ONE confronted him about that... It's amazing to me that a village administration would in essence condone a 47 year old employee of sleeping with a 16 year old girl...while BOTH are employed by the village.... It doesn't matter WHO it is, does it? Or does it? The fact that this situation has gone on unpunished and unaddressed says a lot about the administration in the village...doesn't it? esp. in the climate of sexual harrassment and the law suits that have arisen because of impropriety among employees. I wasn't making this about Drew Peterson....which you and copper seemed to have surmised.....I was making a point about village employee behavior.... Apparently that got lost in your vehemance to blast me for my opinion... too bad you can't apply some of that passion to making change in the bolingbrook community, copper.
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Wake Up wrote: whatever annie. this thread is about Claar and the bangup job he does with the Village! Legal age of consent is 17. Nobody but Drew and Stacy know exactly at what point the disgusting affair was consumated.....but if it was when she was 17 there is not ONE THING anyone can do about it. Like it or not, that is the plain fact. Real classy, "bopping" your married boyfriend while his wife and kids were sleeping upstairs. But this thread is not about Drew. Let's get back to Roger, the hot mess that he is. Hot mess...man oh man...we are full of humor today!
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orphanannie wrote: <quoted text> too bad you can't apply some of that passion to making change in the bolingbrook community, copper. Actually I do and have. What have you done in your community besides spend a ton of hours every day on message boards talking about the same subject over and over again?
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Orphan, no one is blasting you for your opinion. You opinion seems to seep into whatever it is people are discussing at that very moment. It is redundant. Yes we are all very much aware that you hate DP. DP is a vile individual in your eyes. That much we are all aware of. Can we please talk about something else now? Drew is getting so very old.
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Copper wrote: <quoted text> Actually I do and have. What have you done in your community besides spend a ton of hours every day on message boards talking about the same subject over and over again? I am not going to get into a pissing match with you over something this trivial. I have, and do spend much of my 'off time' from both jobs/(I work about 50 hrs. weekly) volunteering in women's shelters and group sessions with victims of domestic violence....so, no, I don't hang out here all day as you imply...and my posting times prove that... I do not require a lot of sleep...and sometimes for the sake of 'winding down', I post... guess that doesn't make me the loser you want to portray...sorry to disappoint you... but I wonder, couldn't the same words you spoke to me, also apply to you, copper??? I have taken your words under advisement...and I won't speak again on this particular thread about DP....it seems to some, he is sacred territory... sorry you have such a hard time with that... and for the record...I don't hate him...you assign an emotion to me that I clearly do not have...which is easy to do on the internet... I do abhorr his actions....which I believe speak much louder than words, and contrary to his words. There is a clear difference...and if you are astute enough, you will recognize it...
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Orphanannie I hope you have a slendid weekend doing all the wonderful things you do for all of the people around you.
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Back to the original question about if the town is going downhill? Yeah- I think it is too. We've been here for about 5 years and it does seem to be getting worse. And, I question if crime is being hidden. For example, our home was robbed (quite a bit was taken) yet it never appeared in the police blotter. Do they not report certain crimes so that people in the community don't get upset and move? After talking to neighbors we came to find that several houses had been robbed in the area in the last few years yet we never read about them. Why are these things not told to the community?
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YeahItSucks wrote: Back to the original question about if the town is going downhill? Yeah- I think it is too. We've been here for about 5 years and it does seem to be getting worse. And, I question if crime is being hidden. For example, our home was robbed (quite a bit was taken) yet it never appeared in the police blotter. Do they not report certain crimes so that people in the community don't get upset and move? After talking to neighbors we came to find that several houses had been robbed in the area in the last few years yet we never read about them. Why are these things not told to the community? Because the Mayor, not the Police Chief or dept., gets the final say of what gets released to the media.
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Copper wrote: <quoted text> Because the Mayor, not the Police Chief or dept., gets the final say of what gets released to the media. And I'm sure the village clerk has a bit to do with it too, and since she's too busy selling Find Stacy stickers on village time, it can get a tad hard to release information that will actually benefit the public.
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That was my guess Copper. Thanks for confirming.
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