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jjj

United States

#21 Jan 3, 2013
Also most of the females who goes to Waycross to get a child support order is not working cause they are to sorry and lazy to work. They want everything handed to them. I'm a person who will tell anyone YES a father should take care of his child, but im also the person who will tell you that the mother of a child getting child support she should HAVE to have a job in order to get the child support!!! The father shouldn't be the only one providing for the child (money wise)!
answer_this

Ocilla, GA

#22 Jan 3, 2013
I know this guy that got with this girl and she had a child by another man and the grandmother had custody of the child. Well the guy married this girl. This girl is sorry and don't take time to spend with the child she may keep her child once every 3 months. The girl would not work to pay her child support so the guy paid her child support. Do u think its right? The girl did not have her child when they got together nor did she pay child support. I know when u get with someone and they have kids it becomes a package deal. So what advice could you give your friend?
jjj

United States

#23 Jan 3, 2013
Tell your friend to tell the girl she needs to get off her @ss and get a job. If not then she can go to jail.( thats what they do to fathers that dont pay) Also if she really loved him she wouldnt be that sorry and low down. She would either pay it herself or even more try to get her child back. If she only sees the child once every three months that should let him know she is a low down no good for nothing person. No better yet tell him to get out why he can. She is NOT a women at all. Shes nothing but the scumb on the bottom of a nasty tolit! DEADBEAT MOTHER!!!!!! The only way i would go without seeing my child is being 6 feet in the ground. Let me stop now cause i could go on forever about this.
sick and tired

Moultrie, GA

#24 Jan 4, 2013
Glen Quagmire wrote:
You obviously need his money or you wouldn't have pursued a child support case against him that led to him being arrested. Most women don't need the money they are just greedy and have too much pride. I am a father and I am behind on my child support but I only make so much money and I pay what I can afford to pay while still putting gas in my truck to get to work and feed myself. But my ex is greedy that isn't good enough. She doesn't work and pays her bills and buys clothes and gets her hair done etc with my child support. Times are tough for men as well. And the more shit you talk about the father of your kids the more shit you talk about your kids themselves. They are 50% him.
I agree! My husband pays out his butt for child support. His ex is the one who filed for divorce because she was running around on him. Now her nor her husband works they live off child support. I know a man needs to suppport his kids but the mom should have to get a job and do her part too. Just my opinion.
sick and tired

Moultrie, GA

#25 Jan 4, 2013
jjj wrote:
Tell your friend to tell the girl she needs to get off her @ss and get a job. If not then she can go to jail.( thats what they do to fathers that dont pay) Also if she really loved him she wouldnt be that sorry and low down. She would either pay it herself or even more try to get her child back. If she only sees the child once every three months that should let him know she is a low down no good for nothing person. No better yet tell him to get out why he can. She is NOT a women at all. Shes nothing but the scumb on the bottom of a nasty tolit! DEADBEAT MOTHER!!!!!! The only way i would go without seeing my child is being 6 feet in the ground. Let me stop now cause i could go on forever about this.
My husband ex keeps running with the children on his visitation. Out of 6 weeks he might get 2 weeks with them. They live out of state. And to take her back to court cost $2500 just to file it. She has done it twice. We filed on her one time for contemp but they never served her. These sorry moms get away with everything. Where is the justice for the dads who take care of their kid?!
ahhh

Douglas, GA

#26 Jan 4, 2013
I tried the whole child support services thing for a while, not because I was lazy and didn't want to do my part, but because I really needed the help with a child that not just myself made, but my childs daddy help me make. Needless to say, I haven't recieved the help from him and at this point I dont give a rats ass if I ever do. Actually the next step I am taking is Im going to get married to the wonderful man we have in our life and get her sorry daddy to sign his rights away so she can be adopted by someone who loves her. Ladies life is not perfect and as much as you want or need help you aren't always going to get it, charge it to the game, move on, and raise your babies the best you can without the baby daddy drama. And to the fathers that get screwed by the system while trying their best and wanting to be daddys, I am so sorry the system is stacked against you, I hate women who keep kids from dads they really love their kids, its not fair to kids like mine whos father never loved them. Please keep trying and dont give up so later down the road your children will know daddy tried his best.
answer_this

Ocilla, GA

#27 Jan 4, 2013
jjj wrote:
Tell your friend to tell the girl she needs to get off her @ss and get a job. If not then she can go to jail.( thats what they do to fathers that dont pay) Also if she really loved him she wouldnt be that sorry and low down. She would either pay it herself or even more try to get her child back. If she only sees the child once every three months that should let him know she is a low down no good for nothing person. No better yet tell him to get out why he can. She is NOT a women at all. Shes nothing but the scumb on the bottom of a nasty tolit! DEADBEAT MOTHER!!!!!! The only way i would go without seeing my child is being 6 feet in the ground. Let me stop now cause i could go on forever about this.
Do you think it is his place to pay the child support since they are married?
No Gossip

Douglas, GA

#28 Jan 4, 2013
Rreally wrote:
Instead of bailing out and leaving baby with the mother, why don't you raise the child yourself Dad? Then see if that is any cheaper.
If you intend to have a baby with a guy make sure he is the right one, have a relationship first, get married and if your not sure use birth control. Why do all these women make it like it is always the mans fault, come on be real it takes two to make a baby.

I know alot of women who left the husband for another man. Or they ended the relationship. I also know alot of men who were good to their wives and children and still ended up with the short end of the stick.

Guess what I am not a guy. I just feel like people need to keep it real. What about the women who have 3 kids by three different men and collect child support on all of them, dont work, have no skills, sounds like its all the mens fault (yeah right). There are exceptions but in reality if you have kids well might want to be careful who you sleep with and what protection you use.

Why don't the men raise the children well the system is geared to the woman. I know many guys that would jump at the chance to have their children. But wait then mama would be paying child support lol.
jjj

United States

#29 Jan 4, 2013
Hell no its not his place to pay it! My husband has to pay child support if not then he goes to jail. We both work and his child support is one of our many bills, but HE WORKS and ist a deadbeat dad. Unlike the girl you are talkin bout. If he knew what was best he wouldnt pay it for her and let her ass rot in jail.
sick and tired

Moultrie, GA

#30 Jan 4, 2013
No Gossip wrote:
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If you intend to have a baby with a guy make sure he is the right one, have a relationship first, get married and if your not sure use birth control. Why do all these women make it like it is always the mans fault, come on be real it takes two to make a baby.
I know alot of women who left the husband for another man. Or they ended the relationship. I also know alot of men who were good to their wives and children and still ended up with the short end of the stick.
Guess what I am not a guy. I just feel like people need to keep it real. What about the women who have 3 kids by three different men and collect child support on all of them, dont work, have no skills, sounds like its all the mens fault (yeah right). There are exceptions but in reality if you have kids well might want to be careful who you sleep with and what protection you use.
Why don't the men raise the children well the system is geared to the woman. I know many guys that would jump at the chance to have their children. But wait then mama would be paying child support lol.
They will never take kids away from moms to let the dads raised them no matter how sorry the moms are. Our system is so not just and for the good people. They serve the sorry people. Their have been many times police has been called in on my husbands ex where child molestation was a problem. On one case she said yes it happened and she still has the kids. Like I said NO JUSTICE for the party that tries to be a good parent but the government won't let them!
oh no

Pineview, GA

#31 Jan 4, 2013
this is amanda minix getting back at michael
jjj

United States

#32 Jan 4, 2013
Using child support to get back at an ex is soooo childish. Why cant people act there age? Give the father a chance to do what is right. It dont matter if yall dont get along and hate each other. Its not about yall its about the kid/kids. Child support to a lot of females isnt cause the need the money! Its just away for them to still control their ex.
The flip side

Perry, GA

#33 Jan 5, 2013
Sometimes they do go to jail by choice. My ex was court ordered to pay over 400 a month. I told him that he could pay fifty a week. He would not pay it. Had one hundred excuses why he just could not do it. So yes I let CSS take it over. Now he pays over 500 a month. He is paying that just fine but he could not pay 200 a month on his own. That is just my case.

And I know SEVERAL men who got custody of their kids from the Mama don't know how they did it but I know several single Dad's that have their kids 24/7
Starfall

Douglas, GA

#34 Jan 6, 2013
It's always gone be the womans fault.I think it makes these men feel better about thenselves.Do what I do work all you can,take care of your child or children I only have one so its not that hard.It's a good feeling to look at everything and say I did this by myself for my child.Things has a way of working out.

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