step kid that you love as your own bu...

step kid that you love as your own but just dont mind and disrespects the both

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us again

Douglas, GA

#1 Jul 7, 2012
what advice can any one tell me about a 13 year old step son that is living in my house hold~ RULING and doing exactly what he wants and how he wants. and when i voice my opioin i either get told that i am going to fix it and agrees or says im bitching but does nothing either way! i bend over backwards and back for the both of them.
yup

Manorville, PA

#2 Jul 7, 2012
tear that ass up and remind them who is the boss and who pays the bills!!!
yup

Manorville, PA

#3 Jul 7, 2012
jus sayin
suggesting

Douglas, GA

#4 Jul 7, 2012
I wouldn't take any of his crap and lay down the law. Yet, also I'd make certain times where just you and the child do something together. I know ppl say you cant be your kids friend, but you need to have some form of a relationship with them. If you are constantly getting onto them, then they will only see you as the person that finds them doing something wrong all the time. Praise them for the good things that day and try to explain things on their level. But be there to point out their wrong doings too. I couldnt stand my father bc he was always the one that was telling me when I did wrong. When he started spending time with me, I started to see him as a person and his experiences in life taught me not to go down certain roads. This is just an idea. I have a child and I'm quick to point out his wrong doings and I do not take his stuff. But I also show him that i believe his is a good kid, I believe he is. He just need to show that good side. We get along pretty well. Maybe if you guys had a good relationship, you could understand each other more and be able to come to a common agreement. I wish the best. Also, you are a very good person for loving a child that is not your own. Some men who have kids dont give a crap about them.
Fisherman

Fitzgerald, GA

#5 Jul 14, 2012
yup wrote:
tear that ass up and remind them who is the boss and who pays the bills!!!
I Agree as myself is a stepdad to a 12 yr old girl who likes to disrespect myself and her mom...bUST HIS ASS AND IF HIS FATHER WANTS TO STEP IN AND SAYS ANYTHING THEN BUST HIS ASSSS ALSO
gagirl45

Fitzgerald, GA

#6 Jul 15, 2012
If parents would understand it is NOT illegal to bust that ass and do it. We would have more respectful kids that do as they should. Yes it is illegal to beat them but not to spank them. Kids are out of control because either parents are afraid of there kids or just don't care.
Get A belt and wear that behind out and you will see a big change.
this is your answer

Douglas, GA

#7 Jul 15, 2012
Give him a bj or let him rub on that thang. You will both be happier
dee dee

Douglas, GA

#8 Jul 15, 2012
this is your answer wrote:
Give him a bj or let him rub on that thang. You will both be happier
you are a nasty ass person..pervert!
uhh

Enfield, IL

#9 Jul 16, 2012
Is mom on board with you? It is vital to provide a unified front
us again wrote:
what advice can any one tell me about a 13 year old step son that is living in my house hold~ RULING and doing exactly what he wants and how he wants. and when i voice my opioin i either get told that i am going to fix it and agrees or says im bitching but does nothing either way! i bend over backwards and back for the both of them.
STEPDADS Point of view

Fitzgerald, GA

#10 Jul 16, 2012
First of all BOTH the parent and step parent need to be on the same level. As a step parent myself, I know that if the biological parent is not willing to make a change and stand up for the respect of the step parent then it is a lost cause. Yes, tearing that behind up is a sure way to ensure dos and donts. You have to follow through. If you say no then guess what. NO! simple as that. If only one parent is looking out for whats best, the kid will only half understand what it means to be respectful and responsible. I was raised by mother (a single parent)and she wasn't over strict but my brother and sister and I knew when MAMA was no longer messing around. If she said get you sure should do so or that was your behind.

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