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cantunderstand

Flowery Branch, GA

#1 Feb 8, 2011
im tired of guys getting the bad rep when every woman i know cheats. Whether its on me or my friends or coworkers. What makes women always check to see if the grass is greener. And just to clear it up, yes im doing stuff right. Job, bedroom , yardwork, and plenty attention. It seems that it only takes any kind of attention from another male, and then it happens. If wasnt happening to alot of people i know , then i wouldnt think....has women became worse than us?
greenbay

Flowery Branch, GA

#2 Feb 8, 2011
yes they have and amen brother
what

United States

#3 Feb 9, 2011
Women are fed up with being cheated on! Menfolk are what taught us women everything we know! Women have cook, cleaned, worked and been passionate, where does that get us??? Men who think the grass is always greener!!! Women are tired of being played! Plus, it depends on WHO you fall for!!!! We all need to learn that love takes two who are willing to give it everything!!! When the other party does not - move on!! Love takes patience! But when its not given-it becomes a job!! Why have two????? You can't make someone love you!!! But you can find someone who does love you!!!
Wantitdoneright

Alma, GA

#4 Feb 9, 2011
Women are much worse than men- truth be known- just hid it well or had sympathy from others because everything get's blamed on men.
When with their female friends, studies show women talk about sex and sex related topics much more than men with their friends.
LAWstudentGIRL

Madrid, IA

#5 Feb 9, 2011
oh cmon we are all the same, advice: dont fall in love.
greenbay

Flowery Branch, GA

#6 Feb 9, 2011
much agreed, ...dont fall in love
Wantitdoneright

Alma, GA

#7 Feb 9, 2011
Amen to that!
mom hunter

Fitzgerald, GA

#9 Nov 4, 2011
Best wedsite in the world. www.momsacheater.com

Since: Oct 11

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#10 Nov 4, 2011
If you actually want to learn about why someone cheats or how to deal with a cheater, go to survivinginfidelity.com

The short explanation is that men and women cheat for the same reasons: all cheaters are broken inside and looking for someone else to make them feel better about themselves. No one can "make" another person cheat, and it is never the betrayed person's fault. Cheaters have more honorable choices they could have made: get out of the relationship or do the work to fix it. Instead, they choose the broken path of cheating.

By the way, research indicates that relationships that begin as affairs have a less than 3% chance of lasting 5 years. Relationships that are started with lies and secrets as their foundation don't tend to work out well.
Luvs2Fap

Gainesville, GA

#11 Nov 4, 2011
mom hunter wrote:
Best wedsite in the world. www.momsacheater.com
Thanks for the free porn! I thoroughly enjoyed it!
No Gossip

Gainesville, GA

#12 Nov 4, 2011
experience is the best teacher who said it had to be your own..........

why women and men cheat ??????????

1. The get married too young. Too many couples are not mature enough for marriage. The man wants someone to pick up after them the women wants someone to support them. If you can not take care of yourself dont get married...

2. They focus on the romance and puppy love. The man or woman does not take the time to get to know each other. All is great and they tie the knot move in get married then find out that it was not what they wanted.

3. Rush into having kids. Half the couples don't plan for a child they rush right into it. A newly married couple become a family too quickly. The are not ready for the responsibility and this causes on or the other to feel trapped.

4. They don't take it seriously. It is too easy to get a divorce or cheat than work on the relationship or communicate. Yeah you can run to the courthouse and get that piece of paper. Marriage is not something to take lightly nor is it easy.

5. Hate to say it but many women get married have kids then when the going gets tough or the man is not what they wanted they leave and collect child support, foodstamps and complain about what a deadbeat their ex is.(and yes I am a woman)

which ever reason it may be one or the other think they can find better and they don't think about what they are doing or think they wont get caught. The "new" man or woman makes them feel "special" or they may feel like this is an escape from being trapped by the other. In a nutshell they cheat because they are not happy and don't have the guts to do the right thing. I am 35 and 90% of my friends have been married 2-4 times already.

Ive learned that trust, commitment, respect and communication goes a long way. Eight years later I still feel that way LOL
Blue Fox

Barnwell, SC

#13 Nov 4, 2011
what wrote:
Women are fed up with being cheated on! Menfolk are what taught us women everything we know! Women have cook, cleaned, worked and been passionate, where does that get us??? Men who think the grass is always greener!!! Women are tired of being played! Plus, it depends on WHO you fall for!!!! We all need to learn that love takes two who are willing to give it everything!!! When the other party does not - move on!! Love takes patience! But when its not given-it becomes a job!! Why have two????? You can't make someone love you!!! But you can find someone who does love you!!!
Men folk ahve always stood by as the fall guy....Who ate the apple first and then conned Adam into doing the same!!!!!
Walt E

Fitzgerald, GA

#14 Nov 4, 2011
Because all women these days are whores! They would not know a good man if he punched them in the face. I have had three friends in the past 5 years go through divorces because of their sorry wives! Never cook, clean, take care of the kids, nothing and now expect a check from their old man to help take care of their new man. One of them actually swore off women and is now GAY! So the best thing is never get married and keep it rapped up when you take it out or you are screwed!
just 10

Saint Augustine, FL

#15 Nov 4, 2011
women cheat just as much as men.A Female business owner in Douglas one of the biggest one.
Johnny Reb

Flowery Branch, GA

#17 Nov 4, 2011
When men cheat, it is usually for something strange with little or no emotional/loving involvement. Just the beast in them. On the other hand women who cheat often tend to form loving/emotional feelings while cheating. Agree that all to often, kids get married at age 15 or 16, start immediately having kids and are burned out with each other after a few years. On top of that they, especially the female has few good marketable skills while the male with little job training is forced to take what low paying jobs he can find. A recipe for disaster in many, many cases.

Since: Feb 11

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#18 Nov 5, 2011
I think there are many forms of cheating and people just target the sexual part of it when someone does it only because it is easier to do so. Most men are never ever honest when it comes to communications with their wives. That is cheating. Most men are not observant to the emotional side of a woman, that is cheating. Those combinations help form the cheating within women. When you add to those two combinations the men who sexually cheat, you have yourself one more concoction for disaster. It does not matter how old you are, a cheater is a cheater. Holding back, taking away from or giving it away. Man or woman. There is something lacking that one or the other needs. It does not have a thing to do about time space in life. People become needing every day because of what is lacking in their lives right then and there. Not because of something that they chose years ago. If they got it then, they had it, it goes missing when it gets lost. It gets lost because people quit and people quit because they don't have it themselves.
Personally, it sounds like at least one person on here has no idea what it's like to loose interest.
No Gossip

Gainesville, GA

#19 Nov 5, 2011
Walt E wrote:
Because all women these days are whores! They would not know a good man if he punched them in the face. I have had three friends in the past 5 years go through divorces because of their sorry wives! Never cook, clean, take care of the kids, nothing and now expect a check from their old man to help take care of their new man. One of them actually swore off women and is now GAY! So the best thing is never get married and keep it rapped up when you take it out or you are screwed!
Hey not all women are like that.... My husband was one of those men that were taken advantage of by the women you describe and yeah we may still be paying a giant child support to his sons mom. But she got the bad end of the stick because $1200 dollars a month might be her reward but I got a good man and a good father so her loss. Don't give up on all women there are good ones out there
Angela

Flowery Branch, GA

#20 Nov 5, 2011
Personaly I like to masturbate online with a friend especially if we both have a live web camera.
Angela

Flowery Branch, GA

#21 Nov 5, 2011
Look, I am not cheating. I get online and masturbate online and have an orgasm with another online.
We watch each other and come together.
Try it and you will like it.
Then my mate comes home and I am ready for a night of
escape-to-nowher e

United States

#24 Nov 11, 2011
Angela wrote:
Look, I am not cheating. I get online and masturbate online and have an orgasm with another online.
We watch each other and come together.
Try it and you will like it.
Then my mate comes home and I am ready for a night of
Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if you've ever read the bible, That is CHEATING, if you need the verses let me know. Lusting after anyone but your mate is a sin. If that suits you carry on.

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