Will he or won't he??

[Whitney]

Hi my names Whitney!! I just want to tell you all a story well recently the love who I thought was the love of my life had cheated on me!!! We have a beautiful son together!!! Well a few days before this I prayed I asked god to give me a sign if rob was cheating on me n a few days later my mothers day I caught him !! Not in the act!! So I packed me n the kids n were gone that day!! I just kept it in until I had a netvouse break down!! Well a few months had past and you know I started going out and drinking until this! Then I said it's time to get over it and I need god he's the only one going to help me bc by now I lost all my friends !! I meet a great person who introduces me to his church he goes to and I take my children and I love it I have actually found god!! And me n rob have gotten back together bc he wants a family he's almost thirty and truly tells me he made the biggest mistake with barb!!!! So I have him a second chance! He dosent go to church Ive asked him but that's his choice but the other day I'm leaving work n who's leaving same time barb aka Michelle anyways we pull over and get into it!! She says she knows robs gonna Fu@@ her again and I laugh bc he knows u still wants him he can b sleeping with her right now but he's not!! And if rob decides to cheat again!! I will leave with a smile on my face knowing I tried everything for my family but to b a person like that that she is is sad!! So I Want to just say I'm thankful for my children n that I can b happy knowing them n god live me and that my mom taught me a take man is taken!!! I'm thankful for the new friends who r in my life!! Bc it's not Gonna make me feel better or change anything I'f I beat the crap out of barb bc nothing will take it away so the first thing I have learned is to forgive!! I truly know that god will send me down the right path he knows what's best for me!!! I'm changing everyday and I look forward to every Sunday for church!!! And if rob does cheat again then I'm the stupid one for beliving in him but I know that I can find someone else that will b there and treat my chdren as their own but as long as in living fir god and my children!! That's the only that matters!!! I want to thank god for coming into my life when I needed him!!! And if anyone has anything negative to say!! I just have one more person to pray for in church!!!

[LilacScentz]

God bless you Whitney! Keep your faith strong. God comes first in our lives and when we keep it that way and truly accept God's will for all we are more able to get through life's challenges. The Bible tells us that as Christians we will be persecuted on this earth, we were not promised a life of bliss while our time is here. Our home is Heaven and that is where our rewards will be. What we are offered on earth are God's Grace to see us through our time left here.

When I pray I always ask that whatever God's will be that it be done. I am willing to accept His authority over my life. It took me many, many years to learn that. I was a stubborn learner and boy did I get myself in some messes, LOL.

Anyway, I believe you are on the right track. One thing, you need to forgive this Barb/Michelle person no matter how hard that is. Christ told us to forgive as He forgives. Think about the totality of that statement. It was not an easy one for me to learn until I actually sat down and devoted time to embracing this thought.

It does not matter what the other does as long as you are doing right by God. No one else is going to stand before Christ for you at the Judgment Seat. We are only responsible for our actions. Only time I know that we are not 100% responsible for ourselves alone is we cause another person to go to hell.

God bless you once again as well as your family.

[Whitney]

Thank you so much for that confidence I still have soooo much to learn and thinking about makes me extremly excited!!! I truly believe gods presence has been speaking to me!!! And I'm just so ready to wash away all my sins bc I believe that judgement day is not far off!!! And just found out that I will b judged for my children so I'm going to do everything I can to tech them all about god!! And only show them m teach them all that I'm learning bc I don't know much about his but what I do I think is amazing!!! It's just gonna take time!!! And everyday is a blessing not a right so i'm nit gonna take it for granit I want thenest for my children n my self and the only way is through Jesus Christ!!!

[the bitch he pleased]

what u doin tryin to type this while u are drunk? Don't kid urself. You are not making a good impression on NO ONE!

[u just think uve been]

if you wanna end up senseless resulting in an out-of-body experience before you come back to realize you'll never be the same; then you need to give me a shot.

[Whitney]

the bitch he pleased wrote:

what u doin tryin to type this while u are drunk? Don't kid urself. You are not making a good impression on NO ONE!

the only impression I need to make is on god!!! You won't b judging me!!!! But I will pray for you!!! And hope god comes to you before judgement day bc you have a son ANd he will judged for your actions!!!

[lindsey]

whitney, why do u come on here talkn shit. for one-u know u cant beat barbs ass.or u would AT LEAST get out of your car!!u wouldnt of stabbed her,u woulda faught her- like a woman!u know it wasnt only her,ur man was the one that either gave her his # or asked her for hers. it was him TOO. and if he isnt going to cheat with her again, who know's who it will be next!!and for u to say the stupid shit that "jamie's not your best friend anymore, ashley is" well was ashley the one that was bestfriends with you through eveything??was she around when you needed help with your babies or was that jamie?was she the one that told you your man was even cheating..NO JAMIE WAS!!!there was times she put you b4 anybody..even me,her younger sister who idolized her! you are stupid whitney to say jamie is not your bestfriend SHES the one who told you rob cheated!even though knowing it would start shit b/t her and her sister. obviously whitney she was your bestfrind, and one day you'll wish never said she wasnt!!and for to to brin other family into it...that is NONE of your business!!!!!they had nothin to do with that!!u think thats hurting barb u puttin that shit on here. well fuck no, your jus making her more pissed and mad for when she does get ahold of your pussy ass,..she'll tear the fuck outta you. and you'll wish you never talked your shit!

Whitney wrote:

Hi my names Whitney!! I just want to tell you all a story well recently the love who I thought was the love of my life had cheated on me!!! We have a beautiful son together!!! Well a few days before this I prayed I asked god to give me a sign if rob was cheating on me n a few days later my mothers day I caught him !! Not in the act!! So I packed me n the kids n were gone that day!! I just kept it in until I had a netvouse break down!! Well a few months had past and you know I started going out and drinking until this! Then I said it's time to get over it and I need god he's the only one going to help me bc by now I lost all my friends !! I meet a great person who introduces me to his church he goes to and I take my children and I love it I have actually found god!! And me n rob have gotten back together bc he wants a family he's almost thirty and truly tells me he made the biggest mistake with barb!!!! So I have him a second chance! He dosent go to church Ive asked him but that's his choice but the other day I'm leaving work n who's leaving same time barb aka Michelle anyways we pull over and get into it!! She says she knows robs gonna Fu@@ her again and I laugh bc he knows u still wants him he can b sleeping with her right now but he's not!! And if rob decides to cheat again!! I will leave with a smile on my face knowing I tried everything for my family but to b a person like that that she is is sad!! So I Want to just say I'm thankful for my children n that I can b happy knowing them n god live me and that my mom taught me a take man is taken!!! I'm thankful for the new friends who r in my life!! Bc it's not Gonna make me feel better or change anything I'f I beat the crap out of barb bc nothing will take it away so the first thing I have learned is to forgive!! I truly know that god will send me down the right path he knows what's best for me!!! I'm changing everyday and I look forward to every Sunday for church!!! And if rob does cheat again then I'm the stupid one for beliving in him but I know that I can find someone else that will b there and treat my chdren as their own but as long as in living fir god and my children!! That's the only that matters!!! I want to thank god for coming into my life when I needed him!!! And if anyone has anything negative to say!! I just have one more person to pray for in church!!!

[Whitney]

Oh Lindsey it's wonderful you idolize Jamie she's a good romedole for you!! I'm so happy for you n Chris the best thing you ever did was move away and start out fresh and I hope all goes good for you selling Avon!! I love you n Jamie!! But infortunatly barb has ruined all of our friendships! Well I love you girls n tell jamie I hope she has a healthy beautiful baby!!!!! Bye lindsey!!!!!!

[tamera]

Whitney wrote:

Oh Lindsey it's wonderful you idolize Jamie she's a good romedole for you!! I'm so happy for you n Chris the best thing you ever did was move away and start out fresh and I hope all goes good for you selling Avon!! I love you n Jamie!! But infortunatly barb has ruined all of our friendships! Well I love you girls n tell jamie I hope she has a healthy beautiful baby!!!!! Bye lindsey!!!!!!

man, you sound like a real nut case.

[ok here goes]

Whitney i have to say i have read other threads on here where you were talking and i can see you are trying to make a change in your life just through your words and i dont even know u or anything about you other than what you tell on here. you need to let it go girl and put it all in the hands of god and concentrate on your family leave the haters behind. Your better off not to even answer back to negativity. just some advice. poop stinks but you stir it the poop stinks more.

[welcome]

I am so excited for you and the changes you are making for yourself and your children. It is really hard to leave behind the life your use to living and make a change. But I can tell lyou it will all be worth it. God has changed so many things in my life since i have washed away my sins and recieved the gift of his spirit. So just keep learning about him and he will make great changes in You, Rob and your kids life, So proud of you.

[Whitney]

Thank you so much!! Iam proud of myself I have nothing negative to say back to them!!! It's not worth it in the end you know sometimes I wanna just flip out on them but something has come over me n it's just telling me u don't have to bc u will b rewarded in the end!! I'm so thankful for the new friends I have made that R living for god everyday they keep me going n give me strength just like the girls I work with just give me so much support and I'm so thankful! My children are so wonderful!! N I appreciate them so much! Everysunday I learn more n more exspecially about forgivness I admit it's hard but I'm doing it and I been told I will b rewarded for it!!

[welcome to wp]

The rewards are greater that you can even imagine. It will change every thing about your life.

[Not Right]

Whitney, If you have changed your life and become a Christian, then I am proud of you, but I think you need to change your picture on facebook, that is not very Christian like. Thanks

[lee]

i was married for 15 years until my wife cheated on me.never once cheated on her.if u wana meet a nice guy im single.i'd treat you like a lady that u deserve to be.i have a real big heart that needs mended.how old are you whitney.im 40 and have 3 great kids. im a 1 woman man.

[Friend of Whitneys]

Whitney I wouldnt worry about what people here say its just something for them too do because some people DO NOT HAVE A LIFE! I'm glad that you and the kids have started to go to church so have I and the kids and my bf,I remember all of us girls going out alot and I had fun, but I almost lost the man I love more than anything and Im really proud of you! So for all those who are on here bad mouthing her you really need to get a life! bye whitney and take care....