What happened to RObert MAyer?
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#163 Feb 20, 2014
Would love to see more WS here--- a little more freedom to voice opinions and theories
Joan

Elmont, NY

#164 Feb 20, 2014
Hi Carolyn! Way back over the summer, they had a "scanner room" where people would volunteer and listen to police scanner reports to see I anything was called in that could pertain to rob. One of the administrators at the time posted that if anybody heard anything about a black suitcase being found to contact them immediately!

Now.... Why is nothing being said about this?
And also , if this was my brother I too would be all over the news.... I can't shake the feeling his family knows where he is! And that's why they are laying low! On the "I support Ida page" ( as I now refer to it) it's very very rare to see any mention of them , why? They are just as crushed I'm sure! I would be !
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#165 Feb 20, 2014
Wonder if networks and people like Nancy Grace would be all over this story if they knew Ida's past! Not saying her past plays a part in any of this , but certainly adds to the story ! IMO
Lisa Watson

Sag Harbor, NY

#166 Feb 21, 2014
Hi Carolyn, I remember on a facebook issue that Ida had no intentions on seeing a medium because another person perdicts he was still alive, my opinion and my life I would go to everyone I can.

Is Ida a part time school teacher, considering her husband missing and all still living the perfect lifestyle in that big house, and the reward $10,000, I don't think if someone has him, which Ida keeps mentioning that she will get them and find Rob,$10,000 would not be enough, sell the house and get more money, she must still have a lot of money left from the Real Estate deal, she is still wear big rocks on her fingers.

One other thing, I was wondering the $300 scrap yard money and receipt Ida found, maybe that was the receipt/note Rob left for her that everything that he was planning went okay, he shows up at home at 2:50pm, 10mins to carry all of his stuff through the front door, not the garage door and leaves at 3pm and hear comes Ida at exactly 3:10 pm, I remember seeing on one of the websleuths or facebook, the neighbors camera has seen Ida's vehicle pulling in at 3:10pm which is on the left side of the garage and you can see the whole vehicle but the neighbors camera can only see the skimmimg top of the red car, makes no sense. Just my opinion..

Remember all the stories Ida said she had with Rob at 9am at work that morning about planning all kinds of stuff for the weekend, that seemed very Odd and funny all of her stories were different, first it was about Father's day party one story, another story to pick up oysters and crap?, than another story they were supposably talking about there trip? than another story they were talking about there sons concert and oysters, sounds like she was on the phone for 2 hours with him? I don't believe her conversation at all with him that morning and than the phone lost connection and she never heard from him again, except when she called him again at 2:15pm or around that time and his phone was off/// Sorry about all this guys..

If my husband went missing, I would know every single word was said...
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#167 Feb 21, 2014
Joan-----I never heard of a "black suitcase"--that is odd.

I agree that the family knows where he is--I think he has been in touch with all of them. There is no way his kids have not heard from their father. How could they function at all??

Where ever he is, he is able to survive. He has food and shelter.
Ida had mentioned more than a few times that she felt he was in the Preserve--I dont recall if she said his body or if she said Rob.

I wonder if anyone ever went to his jobsite--see what is going on there now.
Sue

Commack, NY

#168 Feb 21, 2014
Black suitcase?? Sounds like that was missing, if administrator wanted to be contacted immediately!! Thought nothing was missing except bike....
At this point after all the lies and changing of stories...we don't know if anything posted on FB was the truth....including the $300 in cash left in a drawer.
Again I think Rob left her and she was desperately trying to track him down.......Also, that was his brother on the video with the reporter at Arrow.
Why wasn't his brother at the house with Ida to be interviewed???? Yes, I think his children and family have heard from him!
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#169 Feb 21, 2014
So interesting... Wasn't it also stated they were on the phone for a long time that morning ? I totally agree, any family member of mine I'd be all over the place ... I'd be questioning everyone from every cab service to all the train conductors! She knows a lot more than she is saying IMO !

Unfortunately everyday on fb I see people who are missing! These pages are shared over and over again, they of 50,000+ likes. Not this page it's closed off from the public , that says a lot , I'm sorry but it does! I live in Long Island and nobody I know had heard a thing about this, not even the people who live in the same town as them! It's very bizarre if you ask me
Joan

Elmont, NY

#170 Feb 21, 2014
I feel like one of the kids will speak out, don't know why . I see the son telling friends or someone IF he knows anything.
Snoopy

Massapequa, NY

#171 Feb 22, 2014
Sue wrote:
Black suitcase?? Sounds like that was missing, if administrator wanted to be contacted immediately!! Thought nothing was missing except bike....
At this point after all the lies and changing of stories...we don't know if anything posted on FB was the truth....including the $300 in cash left in a drawer.
Again I think Rob left her and she was desperately trying to track him down.......Also, that was his brother on the video with the reporter at Arrow.
Why wasn't his brother at the house with Ida to be interviewed???? Yes, I think his children and family have heard from him!
That wasn't Robert's brother. The guy interviewed was an Arrow employee whose brother is also an Arrow employee.
Carter

Elmont, NY

#172 Feb 22, 2014
Interesting ! Watch ida first interview with commack patch ... Sorry don't know how to post link . Talk about crocodile tears and she refers to him saying "was a nice guy" ... Someone needs to be given a lie detector test
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#173 Feb 25, 2014
I can see that happening Joan--your post #170.

I cannot believe none of the neighbors have spoken out---the events transpired between 2:30 pm and 3:00 - 3:15 pm-on a Friday afternoon--kids are coming home school, getting met at the bus stop etc. I know it have never been discussed (to my satisfaction) where the Mayer children were at this time--the son is old enough to let himself in, but the daughter is a little young.
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#174 Feb 26, 2014
Okay who saw the interview with Roberts mom and sister!!! Seems Ida has been lying and hiding a lot of things!! Police need to step up there game!! This woman has lied soooo much and all these people, myself included trying to help!!! Very very interesting , a drug problem , a missing gun from the house !!!! My mind is blown at how much has been conveinantly left out! I for one am disgusted!!!!!
Observer

Los Angeles, CA

#175 Feb 26, 2014
Lisa wrote:
Okay who saw the interview with Roberts mom and sister!!! Seems Ida has been lying and hiding a lot of things!! Police need to step up there game!! This woman has lied soooo much and all these people, myself included trying to help!!! Very very interesting , a drug problem , a missing gun from the house !!!! My mind is blown at how much has been conveinantly left out! I for one am disgusted!!!!!
Good then stop trying to 'help'.
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#176 Feb 26, 2014
Hey observer... Defensive much? Defend a liar all you want , but when your own family goes on national tv and calls you a liar and so on , not much to defend is there? Hope his family goes on every news circuit and calls her out!!! She lied over and over again about his drug addiction , pretty important piece of info don't ya think for someone who would " do anything" to find her husband!!! His family made a mockery of her and ya know what it's deserved after she strung along kind hearted helping people! I especially enjoyed the part about the Christmas card, you?
Linda

Hopewell Junction, NY

#177 Feb 26, 2014
Lisa wrote:
Hey observer... Defensive much? Defend a liar all you want , but when your own family goes on national tv and calls you a liar and so on , not much to defend is there? Hope his family goes on every news circuit and calls her out!!! She lied over and over again about his drug addiction , pretty important piece of info don't ya think for someone who would " do anything" to find her husband!!! His family made a mockery of her and ya know what it's deserved after she strung along kind hearted helping people! I especially enjoyed the part about the Christmas card, you?
Observer is transparent. Pfft

New info from Mary Murphy.

http://pix11.com/2014/02/25/mother-and-sister...
Linda

Hopewell Junction, NY

#178 Feb 26, 2014
In case you missed it.

Mother and sister of missing electrician ask wife to tell what she knows

Read more: http://pix11.com/2014/02/25/mother-and-sister...
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#179 Feb 26, 2014
Thanks for posting Linda!
Snoopy

Massapequa, NY

#180 Feb 26, 2014
Lisa wrote:
Okay who saw the interview with Roberts mom and sister!!! Seems Ida has been lying and hiding a lot of things!! Police need to step up there game!! This woman has lied soooo much and all these people, myself included trying to help!!! Very very interesting , a drug problem , a missing gun from the house !!!! My mind is blown at how much has been conveinantly left out! I for one am disgusted!!!!!
Would knowing his personal business regarding drugs have kept you from trying to help? To post a flyer or share one online? Why does that make a difference?
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#181 Feb 26, 2014
Snoopy wrote:
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Would knowing his personal business regarding drugs have kept you from trying to help? To post a flyer or share one online? Why does that make a difference?
Absolutely not!!! However, I don't enjoy being misled. Donating time and money to someone who doesn't have the decency to tell the truth. She was asked numerous times if he had drug problems, anything else missing from the house, problem at work etc etc. Blatant lies! I understand not wanting your dirty laundry aired, but desperate times call for desperate measures. This new info changes ALOT! Not to mention the hurt she is causing his family! And for the record I did a lot more than post flyers!
Snoopy

Massapequa, NY

#182 Feb 26, 2014
She's also a mother protecting her children. What if revealing this information puts her husband in danger? There are 2 sides to every story. I don't think his dirty laundry is any of my business. As long as the police have all the answers, that's what matters. I don't agree with his mother and sister putting it all out there.

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