What happened to RObert MAyer?
Bill

Bronx, NY

#223 Mar 6, 2014
I read she called the sister in law first and it was the sister in law ( robs sister) that called the police. And then the was info that the mom was out with them the weekend before he went missing. Yet Ida says they were " not close".
Dan

Newark, NJ

#224 Mar 6, 2014
As the story was initially told:
The sister in law is married to a cop. They were called first. Friends found the car at the station. The BIL went to check it out. Only then was local PD called.

So where is the car? Still in pound?
At this point nothing can be believed. Sad situation.
Lisa

Philadelphia, PA

#225 Mar 6, 2014
What about all the pics she posted of his mom in the beginning ? And how he would never miss her birthday? She is lying to discredit them, I think!
joe

Hoboken, NJ

#226 Mar 6, 2014
Look at her fb page. no family is helping her, not hers, not his... they clearly know something we dont. they prob. can talk about it.
Dan

Newark, NJ

#227 Mar 6, 2014
joe wrote:
Look at her fb page. no family is helping her, not hers, not his... they clearly know something we dont. they prob. can talk about it.
Bingo!
No family. No friends. Just strangers.
Her FB family.
Glad his family finally spoke up.
Lisa Watson

Miller Place, NY

#228 Mar 6, 2014
I just looked at the News 12 interview with Ida on June 17th

Ida said he should have been home by 3pm, but that afternoon passed without a sign of him? How would she know if she was not home?

The wallet still bothers me, how would Ida had seen his wallet that morning in the garage, like why would she go in the garage?
The interview on pix11, she shows the wallet with the cabinet open and wallet on 2nd shelf.

Very first interview wallet was found in the morning????

She at the end was sitting with Rob's sister, NO TEARS from Ida and that was 2 days after he went missing.
Lisa Watson

Miller Place, NY

#229 Mar 6, 2014
Why would someone leave there wallet in a cabinet on the 2nd shelf, cabinet door open if you are in a rush.

Ida told me personally that he left his wallet on his dresser at night, so when a normal guy gets up for work he gets dress and puts his wallet in his pants, back pocket?

Just seems odd on that story.

Again, Ida says on all of her interviews that he left his wallet IN THE MORNING, in the garage???

Plus she did talk to Rob at 9am that morning, and he never asked her if he left his wallet?????
Lisa

Valley Stream, NY

#230 Mar 6, 2014
Dan wrote:
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Bingo!
No family. No friends. Just strangers.
Her FB family.
Glad his family finally spoke up.
So interesting right? All the people who support her she never met! Only through missing groups on the internet! Hope she is not taking all these volunteers ( her new best friends) away from somebody who is bein honest and really NEEDS their help!
Something really off with this woman and truth always reveals itself , as it seems to be happening now. I think her story is unraveling.... It's lie after lie with her and that's the little we see! Imagine what the family must think and know ? I'd say pretty heavy stuff to go on national tv and set the record straight and cut her out of their lives during such a tragic time
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#231 Mar 6, 2014
Yes--- "the garage" sticks with me----it seemed (as per Ida) to be the place Rob kept things-kind of like his man-cave of sorts----I have always felt that Ida said this to keep the whole house from being searched--

and I agree with you Lisa-- Ida has told a ridiculous story that had holes and not alot of truth to it-she even quoted song lyrics when she spoke of him-unconsciously perhaps. Her story is unravelling I agree.
Perhaps it was all a ploy to make money--get a reality show, write a book etc.
Ian

Bronx, NY

#232 Mar 6, 2014
Reading her crimanal back ground it sounded like she was involved with organized crime. Maybe she had a connection make him "disapear"
Dawn

Ardsley, NY

#233 Mar 7, 2014
I found out about this case from someone who posted a flyer on fb and that was about 3 months after he vanished. Up until then, I never heard anything about it. Friends who live in Dix Hills didn't know anything either. I take the LIRR 5 days a week and go through either Penn Station or Atlantic Terminal. Not once did I ever see a flyer about him. If it was thought he hopped on a train wouldn't you want people who go through the the stations to see it? Tried joining the fb page but it went private and couldn't. I would think you want that as public as possible. If something is posted and you don't like it, delete it and move on. Everyone is going to have a theory or opinion on what might have happened. As I read more and more about his disappearance, there are too many things that don't add up. There are quite a few pages dedicated to missing people on fb and opened to all. You need to use every resource available to you, and now with social media, his picture and story could have been spread around not just this country, but around the world. I hope that "his" family gets the answers they need and deserve.
Lisa Watson

Miller Place, NY

#234 Mar 7, 2014
PRIVATE SEARCH ON FACEBOOK IS RIDICULOUS, THIS IS TO YOU IDA OR YOUR SPIES, I AM IN MY OPINION ASHAMED OF YOU....TO THE MAN YOU LOVE AND LOOK FOR HIM PRIVATELY ON FACEBOOK....
We all helped this woman and than shuts people out who try to help her.

You are lucky to have Pix11 doing some work for you!!!

Why doesn't she have large posters, bigger than 8 x 10 in front of the house, Rob could be right down the road, unless it will not look good in front of the house.
terry

Bronx, NY

#235 Mar 7, 2014
Wow. I cant believe this
Lisa

Valley Stream, NY

#236 Mar 7, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
PRIVATE SEARCH ON FACEBOOK IS RIDICULOUS, THIS IS TO YOU IDA OR YOUR SPIES, I AM IN MY OPINION ASHAMED OF YOU....TO THE MAN YOU LOVE AND LOOK FOR HIM PRIVATELY ON FACEBOOK....
We all helped this woman and than shuts people out who try to help her.
You are lucky to have Pix11 doing some work for you!!!
Why doesn't she have large posters, bigger than 8 x 10 in front of the house, Rob could be right down the road, unless it will not look good in front of the house.
AGREED!!
She is a very smart woman, it's been said time and time again she has PI in her family who were former secret service, do you think she is even using them! I wonder if she hired any private investigator at all! If this was my husband I would be all over the place on fb!!! I would sell my house and everything I owned if it meant answers and getting him back! She is too worried about her reputation! And god knows for my children sake i would be keeping his family close. They could be all they have left of their father ! It's THEIR brother and THEIR son also, she has no respect!
Lisa

Valley Stream, NY

#237 Mar 9, 2014
Just when I think she can't disgust me much more, she posts things like she did tonight ! All of the sudden she is being forthcoming about "leads" for the first time in how many months ! Sad attempt at making people feel sorry for her . If I didn't think it before I def think it now , she knows exactly what happened to him and is manipulating every situation any which way she can. I think maybe she is starting to feel walls cave In on her! I really hope truth comes out soon ! His poor poor children and family !
Sue

Commack, NY

#238 Mar 9, 2014
Lisa wrote:
Just when I think she can't disgust me much more, she posts things like she did tonight ! All of the sudden she is being forthcoming about "leads" for the first time in how many months ! Sad attempt at making people feel sorry for her . If I didn't think it before I def think it now , she knows exactly what happened to him and is manipulating every situation any which way she can. I think maybe she is starting to feel walls cave In on her! I really hope truth comes out soon ! His poor poor children and family !
Some of us are not on their private FB page.....What kind of leads?
Lisa

Valley Stream, NY

#239 Mar 9, 2014
@ sue, I'm sorry about that!
First on Friday she wrote that her dtr was sick and going for testing to please pray for her but it is prob just from stress related to her dads disappearance.
Tonight she posted that she got a call on Friday that investigators got a tip that Rob was alive in PA. But after the Police investigated , they quickly realized it was another Robert Mayer.( that's just a quick rundown of her posts!)
Observer

Los Angeles, CA

#240 Mar 9, 2014
Lisa wrote:
Just when I think she can't disgust me much more, she posts things like she did tonight ! All of the sudden she is being forthcoming about "leads" for the first time in how many months ! Sad attempt at making people feel sorry for her . If I didn't think it before I def think it now , she knows exactly what happened to him and is manipulating every situation any which way she can. I think maybe she is starting to feel walls cave In on her! I really hope truth comes out soon ! His poor poor children and family !
Um that's because there hasn't been leads in many months.
Lisa

Valley Stream, NY

#241 Mar 10, 2014
Observer wrote:
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Um that's because there hasn't been leads in many months.
Really? Hmmmm.... This she feels the need to express right after his family opens up. However didn't feel the need to express a missing gun?
No leads in months? Go back and watch interviews and read fb page again
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#242 Mar 10, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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Really? Hmmmm.... This she feels the need to express right after his family opens up. However didn't feel the need to express a missing gun?
No leads in months? Go back and watch interviews and read fb page again
What leads did you see on interviews or the FB page? I don't recall any actual leads as to where he is.

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