Too early to have sex?

[Curious]

After you start talking to a guy, how long do you wait before you have sex with him?

[MammiLuv]

At least 2 months.

[pretty boy swag]

Coming from a guy , if u really like him don't give it up soon make him wait and prove himself to u at least 4-6 months cause if u give it up too early he won't want u anymore because he will have "conquered" u and he will move on to the next

[Curious]

pretty boy swag wrote:

Coming from a guy , if u really like him don't give it up soon make him wait and prove himself to u at least 4-6 months cause if u give it up too early he won't want u anymore because he will have "conquered" u and he will move on to the next

What about if you wait 1-2 months? Is that still too early?
Or what would u consider too early?

[pretty boy swag]

1-2 months in my opinion is too early because back in my hay day I left girls as soon as I got it in I just lost interest in them but if the guy is not attractive and has no other options he will probably stick with u

[Curious]

pretty boy swag wrote:

1-2 months in my opinion is too early because back in my hay day I left girls as soon as I got it in I just lost interest in them but if the guy is not attractive and has no other options he will probably stick with u

How old are you though?
Because I think things change over time..

[Make sure its love first]

That time never changes, no matter what decade the person's from. Guys won't hang if they don't love you, even if it's day 1 or year 1, they'll drop you if they don't love you.

[Curious]

pretty boy swag wrote:

1-2 months in my opinion is too early because back in my hay day I left girls as soon as I got it in I just lost interest in them but if the guy is not attractive and has no other options he will probably stick with u

Why would he loose interest?

[tramp]

Curious wrote:

After you start talking to a guy, how long do you wait before you have sex with him?

When you are married. Who wants a worn out snatch that everybodies had.

[youngster]

I'm a guy and for me personally I love a challenge, so girls don't give it up so easily give it at least 5+ months then if u feel like if he's really into you give it up, cause if I girl gives it up to me before that I move on to the next one because in my head if it took me that little to hit it, then it was Probly easy for the guy before me, I personally like to get to know a girl really well before I get into bed w/her, if i love her personality nd things are great its time for the next step, and if the sex is great then its a bonus!! So girls respect urselves nd wait nd it'll be worth it at the end, because if u don't respect Urself wat makes u think a guy will??

[pretty boy swag]

Curious wrote:

<quoted text>How old are you though?
Because I think things change over time..

since the dawn of time men were created to hunt we like a challenge if we conquer a girl we just get bored and lose interest

[DoesItMatter]

youngster wrote:

I'm a guy and for me personally I love a challenge, so girls don't give it up so easily give it at least 5+ months then if u feel like if he's really into you give it up, cause if I girl gives it up to me before that I move on to the next one because in my head if it took me that little to hit it, then it was Probly easy for the guy before me, I personally like to get to know a girl really well before I get into bed w/her, if i love her personality nd things are great its time for the next step, and if the sex is great then its a bonus!! So girls respect urselves nd wait nd it'll be worth it at the end, because if u don't respect Urself wat makes u think a guy will??

couldn't say it any better bro!!
That's exactly how i feel ha

[Lmao]

I say wait at least 3-4 months don't put out fast if you really like the guy just wait if he really cares about you he'll wait too

[Curious]

youngster wrote:

I'm a guy and for me personally I love a challenge, so girls don't give it up so easily give it at least 5+ months then if u feel like if he's really into you give it up, cause if I girl gives it up to me before that I move on to the next one because in my head if it took me that little to hit it, then it was Probly easy for the guy before me, I personally like to get to know a girl really well before I get into bed w/her, if i love her personality nd things are great its time for the next step, and if the sex is great then its a bonus!! So girls respect urselves nd wait nd it'll be worth it at the end, because if u don't respect Urself wat makes u think a guy will??

Thanks for the advice! So if he tries to do anything I shouldnt let him have it. And if he stops talking to me then I already know that was all he wanted.

[Dela Dawg]

I think 5am is too early but if I must I will. I like of about 9:30 in the morning that is just right.

[youngster]

Yup just give it time girl, if he leaves u just because u weren't putting out Thts all he wanted from u, if he really cares about you sex should be the last thing on his mind!!!