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help! need sex advice serious answers only

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willow

Mcfarland, CA

#1 May 10, 2012
I've been in a relationship for less than a year. I love my boyfriend and he loves me but I'm not happy with our sex life at all. He gets off in about 4 minutes. I haven't had an orgasm in as long as I can remember. I try to get him to try new things, new positions but he says we will but when it comes down to it he seems to."forget". Ive just become so frustrated I don't know what to do. I feel like calling up my ex sometimes. But I.know its not the right thing to do.
MammiLuv

Delano, CA

#2 May 10, 2012
willow wrote:
I've been in a relationship for less than a year. I love my boyfriend and he loves me but I'm not happy with our sex life at all. He gets off in about 4 minutes. I haven't had an orgasm in as long as I can remember. I try to get him to try new things, new positions but he says we will but when it comes down to it he seems to."forget". Ive just become so frustrated I don't know what to do. I feel like calling up my ex sometimes. But I.know its not the right thing to do.
you need to tell him straight forward that your not satisfy because if you don't then you'll end up cheating. Guys just think about themselves n how there going to get it. My man is lazy sometimes that he just wants a quickie. 4 minutes girl? That's a quickie all the time. You need to take control because if not it'll be the same sh*t every time.
willow

Mcfarland, CA

#3 May 10, 2012
MammiLuv wrote:
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you need to tell him straight forward that your not satisfy because if you don't then you'll end up cheating. Guys just think about themselves n how there going to get it. My man is lazy sometimes that he just wants a quickie. 4 minutes girl? That's a quickie all the time. You need to take control because if not it'll be the same sh*t every time.
I've tried giving him hints but how can I tell him without hurting his feelings. Apparently he thinks he's some sex God he's bragged about how no girl has ever complained about his performance in bed. I'm seriously fed up with going to bed every night feeling unsatisfied.
tru

United States

#4 May 10, 2012
Try givin him good head till he comes in ur mouth .. then just kis or something for about 12 mins or soo then have sex nd its gona take him a whileeee to cumm the second time u should b good.. have him drink a soda or sum sugar b4 sex. Wrks for me me n my girl last up to 2 hrs
guy

Delano, CA

#5 May 10, 2012
Well it won't hurt his feelings if ur straight forward wit him n gotta stand ur ground n Idk if u listen to 94.9 fm sumtimes dey talk about stuff like dat from like 815 to 915 not everyday n ull get sum advice by listening or if u message dem wit ur question dey will make it Der topic look dem up b95forlife.com
willow

Mcfarland, CA

#6 May 10, 2012
tru wrote:
Try givin him good head till he comes in ur mouth .. then just kis or something for about 12 mins or soo then have sex nd its gona take him a whileeee to cumm the second time u should b good.. have him drink a soda or sum sugar b4 sex. Wrks for me me n my girl last up to 2 hrs
I do give him head and I know its bomb he even moans, but once he nuts he won't want to have sex after. Hell go to sleep or just lay there like a dead corpse. I.never thought I could have this problem. My sex life has always been awesome in the past.
peanut

Mcfarland, CA

#8 May 11, 2012
Maybe he should take viagra?
tru

United States

#9 May 11, 2012
Well hmu wats ur email ill show u was supp;)

The Gloop
Level 8

Since: Sep 08

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#10 May 11, 2012
tru wrote:
Try givin him good head till he comes in ur mouth .. then just kis or something for about 12 mins or soo then have sex nd its gona take him a whileeee to cumm the second time u should b good.. have him drink a soda or sum sugar b4 sex. Wrks for me me n my girl last up to 2 hrs
Gloop?
paco

Bakersfield, CA

#12 May 17, 2012
willow wrote:
I've been in a relationship for less than a year. I love my boyfriend and he loves me but I'm not happy with our sex life at all. He gets off in about 4 minutes. I haven't had an orgasm in as long as I can remember. I try to get him to try new things, new positions but he says we will but when it comes down to it he seems to."forget". Ive just become so frustrated I don't know what to do. I feel like calling up my ex sometimes. But I.know its not the right thing to do.
how old are u

Level 4

Since: Mar 12

Location hidden

#13 May 17, 2012
it sounds like the sex is a bigger part of the relationship than it should be but if he isnt willing to keep you happy then he must be bored with you. you have the right to be happy so dump his ass and find someone who can make you happy
yup

Alhambra, CA

#14 May 17, 2012
Thats nothing girl, my man finishes like in one minute! Haha
tyrone

Alhambra, CA

#15 May 17, 2012
If u need some someone to lay it down let me know :)

Level 4

Since: Mar 12

Location hidden

#16 May 17, 2012
yup wrote:
Thats nothing girl, my man finishes like in one minute! Haha
you must be insanely hot
Lol

Los Gatos, CA

#17 May 18, 2012
Let him fu ck yuu in the butt hole guys like to seem to like that alot bcaz it sooo tight and i know its just a guy thing wen they comes there finsh already -_- but after some mins take him to the room give him a lap dance and start takeing off ur things and go on top of him and make-out with him while your playing with his di ck it really works lol:) TRY IT
love it or hate it

United States

#18 May 18, 2012
Wiill Girl u need to take control bt let him take charge too... U kan start by having some fore play like making out giveing him some head but dont make him cum do it for atlest 10 mins of foreply nd den Do it believe it workz and You kan play wit him and make him come wait for kouple mins and den do some fore play nd den do it dha main thing is foreplay
St Michael

La Mesa, CA

#19 Sep 22, 2012
willow wrote:
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I do give him head and I know its bomb he even moans, but once he nuts he won't want to have sex after. Hell go to sleep or just lay there like a dead corpse. I.never thought I could have this problem. My sex life has always been awesome in the past.
well then you should already know what to do.
Dunnit

Delano, CA

#20 Sep 23, 2012
Hes selfish always will be maybe he should go down on you or is he to manly... Try this during a routine blow stop in the middle and tell him this is feel after sex like its getting real good for me then you stop. If he cant then hd wont... Ever!!! Until you leave his ass and hes all but baby ill change

3 card drag

“Sweet Home Alabama”

Level 3

Since: Sep 12

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#21 Sep 23, 2012
Perverted advice...
alpha

United States

#23 Sep 23, 2012
willow wrote:
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I've tried giving him hints but how can I tell him without hurting his feelings. Apparently he thinks he's some sex God he's bragged about how no girl has ever complained about his performance in bed. I'm seriously fed up with going to bed every night feeling unsatisfied.
tie a rubber band around his nut sack. And use a lot of floor play.if that doesn't work holla at me

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