What would you do if you found spouse...
Esta loco

Washington, DC

#200 Nov 2, 2012
Well by boyfriend brother is in this siutation, always said he wasnt happy, not in love and finds out his wife has been seeing a co worker of hers for over 5 years now. He always cheated on her, texting, talking , flirting with girls, never paid attention to her. Now he knows the truth and he wants to leave but doesnt, guess his Mexican machismo is taking control of him. She is a nice girl and very attractive, guess he cant accept that he lost her, she has never seemed happy to me. He is always drinking and cooking out with his brothers and friends. One of his brothers is already divorced and its just the way they are. He should let her go and let her be happy, she deserves too, every woman deserves too, I dont blame her, he was not and is not a good husband. Wish I could put him, or her here, but I know they read this and will know who we are talking about. This couple needs to move on, they will be happier, one child is already grown she just stays to save herself from hearing from her mom and family. Good luck to you girl, and he, well man up and let go and move on.
damn

United States

#201 Nov 2, 2012
I didnt think there were so many couples in this situation. I see alot of people with there partner but so many unhappy thats crazy. Why stay with the person or cheat why not leave and make each other happy. I dont understand why a man/woman even though they know are not happy want to one way or another stay with the partner no mattet what even if it means they are miserable.
Ummmm

United States

#202 Nov 2, 2012
damn wrote:
I didnt think there were so many couples in this situation. I see alot of people with there partner but so many unhappy thats crazy. Why stay with the person or cheat why not leave and make each other happy. I dont understand why a man/woman even though they know are not happy want to one way or another stay with the partner no mattet what even if it means they are miserable.
For the kids.
Brenda

Denver, CO

#203 Nov 2, 2012
Ummmm wrote:
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For the kids.
Kids adapt. It's the adults who fear the change and make excuses such as
, "for the kids". A happy home breeds happy children, even if the home is broken. As long as the kids see the parents happy and getting along, they'll be fine. Happens everyday.
Right on

Washington, DC

#204 Nov 2, 2012
Esta loco wrote:
Well by boyfriend brother is in this siutation, always said he wasnt happy, not in love and finds out his wife has been seeing a co worker of hers for over 5 years now. He always cheated on her, texting, talking , flirting with girls, never paid attention to her. Now he knows the truth and he wants to leave but doesnt, guess his Mexican machismo is taking control of him. She is a nice girl and very attractive, guess he cant accept that he lost her, she has never seemed happy to me. He is always drinking and cooking out with his brothers and friends. One of his brothers is already divorced and its just the way they are. He should let her go and let her be happy, she deserves too, every woman deserves too, I dont blame her, he was not and is not a good husband. Wish I could put him, or her here, but I know they read this and will know who we are talking about. This couple needs to move on, they will be happier, one child is already grown she just stays to save herself from hearing from her mom and family. Good luck to you girl, and he, well man up and let go and move on.
Right on!!! If this girl leaves or the couple divorces and she is happy as can be her child will be also, you see they willl see the love and caring and she will feed off that, staying together will more than likely have the child live the same way, and beleive that they too have to stick or stay in a relationship no mater what, I for one do not want my daughter to stay in one if she is ever not happy, everyone deserves happiness, yes, even children may receive it or see it once their parents go there own ways. Better they see you happy than sad, they will always have mom and dad, wouldnt you rather have them see mom and dad happy even if not together.
la da di la di doo

San Antonio, TX

#205 Nov 2, 2012
Right on!!! If this girl leaves or the couple divorces and she is happy as can be her child will be also, you see they willl see the love and caring and she will feed off that, staying together will more than likely have the child live the same way, and beleive that they too have to stick or stay in a relationship no mater what, I for one do not want my daughter to stay in one if she is ever not happy, everyone deserves happiness, yes, even children may receive it or see it once their parents go there own ways. Better they see you happy than sad, they will always have mom and dad, wouldnt you rather have them see mom and dad happy even if not together.

I guess you seem to forget that you made children in all that happiness. So you mean to say that you rather see your child feel insecure and unhappy because he comes from a broken home. Some people have no business having children like you! A child is happier within a marriage it is proven time over and over again.
Anonymous

United States

#206 Nov 2, 2012
Brenda wrote:
<quoted text>Kids adapt. It's the adults who fear the change and make excuses such as
, "for the kids". A happy home breeds happy children, even if the home is broken. As long as the kids see the parents happy and getting along, they'll be fine. Happens everyday.
kids that come from broken homes become broken themselves...look at stats
Anonymous

United States

#207 Nov 2, 2012
opps wrote:
just called the wife of the guy who was cheatin with my wife, it was so much funnnnn to get even
yeaaa yeea. Way to go brow...haha
Anonymous

United States

#208 Nov 2, 2012
blt wrote:
are ya worried yet, you should be im trying to call your wife at work right now!!!!!!
while u fruck her.sumone fruckin yurs.And if u end up with her.:-) how does his dick taste
damn

United States

#209 Nov 2, 2012
You mean a child would be happy to see his/her parents argueing about how unhappy they are? That sometimes may lead to more then just an arguement. It happens people can be better persons and parents when they have gone there own way. As long as the children know and understand its not there fault and they are loved in my opinion are better off. Alot of the times its one parent who cant let go and no matter what still want things there way or no way but as the children grow they see and understand things.
Anonymous

United States

#210 Nov 2, 2012
caught wrote:
i left my husband of 20 yrs for another man, wrecked my relationship with my family and my oldest son is still mad. several months after i moved in with my lover he left me fo another woman
relationsips built on lies, deciet, and sex in most cases dont last, now im the one lost!
hahahahahaha
Lencho

San Antonio, TX

#211 Nov 2, 2012
Come from a broken home and look at me now going to get locked up for life i guess. It is proven that under no circumstance children want their parents together. They really dont care about the arguements they have. To them it is just security and stability.
abcd

United States

#213 Nov 2, 2012
We can give our children all the live and attention they need even as a single parent. We can teach them right from wrong and be their like they deserve. We dont want our children in situations like what your in but all we can do is hope they make the right choices because eventually they do. You mean to tell me that an abusive father or mother is showing stability to the children. Neglecting a child or children is okay. I know several children who were raised without a father and have done very well. They had the love of there mother and family and have graduated from college or are attending college.
No Pride

Washington, DC

#219 Nov 19, 2012
If you accept it, then you like it, or he is doing it also. if a woman does this its because she is not happy....PERIOD!!!!!!!!
Possesive

Washington, DC

#220 Nov 19, 2012
.It means he's with you because he doesn't want you to be with anyone else...not cuz he loves you but because most guys are territorial that way. He doesn't love you anymore if he did at all in the first place. You need to address it with him and use your brain to make a decision. Realize how pathetic he's making you look when you know in your heart he doesn't love you anymore but you stay with him anyway. I can almost guarantee he has something on the side with another girl. He doesnt love you and doesnt want you, but he will not allow you to be happy with anyone else, even if they tell him or show him that you are seeing someone else. He is controlling you.
BRK

Del Rio, TX

#221 Nov 19, 2012
just sayin wrote:
I would ask to join ;) what better way to spice up a marriage!
....Ok, I'm I the only one who thinks this comment is pretty Gay?
Sandy

Washington, DC

#224 Dec 13, 2012
Well if this guy has all the facts on his plate and he still with you, he has issues, he cant or wont let go of you, no matter what, not a good relationship for you or him. He will always imagine or think of you too together and she too will always be thinking of him, especially during sex, if she is in love with her boyfriend, and not you. I would not , could not live like this. Good luck to you, you need to do what makes you happy. not what what makes everyone happy....
jaki

Houston, TX

#225 Dec 13, 2012
Just leave em/er... Just what I did and am so much happier now.. sometimes being alone is better then feeling lonely and having a spouse
the man

United States

#227 Dec 13, 2012
shut up ho3s your man cheats cause you dont satisfy nothin anymore you let go dont workout sit on your a55 all day not puttin out what the hell you think is gonna happen trust me i know cause i left my wife because her a55 just gave up on me she got to comfortable so just a word of advice you stop trying you get left
wow

Houston, TX

#228 Dec 13, 2012
the man wrote:
shut up ho3s your man cheats cause you dont satisfy nothin anymore you let go dont workout sit on your a55 all day not puttin out what the hell you think is gonna happen trust me i know cause i left my wife because her a55 just gave up on me she got to comfortable so just a word of advice you stop trying you get left
Omg you call urself a man? If ur not satisfied, leave and don't be a coward. Pathetic

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