What would you do if you found spouse...

What would you do if you found spouse is having affair

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The Dude

Del Rio, TX

#2 Sep 2, 2012
You can't have a relationship without trust, so ask yourself if you can forgive him/her first and if that trust can be rebuilt. If not I say cut your losses and end it. I can tell you that it takes a lot to mend a broken marriage and even if you try there's no guarantee that it will work or that your spouse will change. You really have to look at how much you want to work and if it is even worth the effort.
duh

United States

#3 Sep 2, 2012
Have the facts and proof and then confront the bastard
No Way

San Antonio, TX

#4 Sep 2, 2012
I would never forgive a cheating husband especially if u all have kids that is a HUGE disrespect on his behalf for the family that he is supposed to Treasure.
lol69

United States

#6 Sep 2, 2012
Busted wrote:
What would you all do if your spouses lover told you about their affair? Give your thoughts.
so she or he busted your affair?
yes

Austin, TX

#7 Sep 3, 2012
i would not forgive him or her wives cheat too! they once cheat they will do it again, they dont think about the other lives destroyed
tell all

Austin, TX

#8 Sep 3, 2012
I would tell the wife or husband of the other party and let them also know, how low there cheating spouse is!!!!!!!!!!

Level 8

Since: Jun 12

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#9 Sep 3, 2012
Divorce their a$$ and leave her with nothing.
just sayin

United States

#11 Sep 3, 2012
I would ask to join ;) what better way to spice up a marriage!

Level 7

Since: Jul 12

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#12 Sep 3, 2012
What do you expect?
lets c

Del Rio, TX

#13 Sep 3, 2012
Then he will see the psycho B1tch in me:-) lol
mmmm

Austin, TX

#15 Sep 4, 2012
You can never trust them again, and the memory of another man touching the wife will never be forgotten. My suggestion get rid of her as fast as you can before it happens again and the lies start again
mmmm

Austin, TX

#16 Sep 4, 2012
They should be kicked out and left with nothing, because they have regard of the damage they are doing to the spouse and family,they are pieces of sh!!t
just sayin

United States

#17 Sep 4, 2012
Some one is still all butt hurt!!^^^
mmmm

Austin, TX

#18 Sep 4, 2012
not butt hurt, not a fool either a leopard never changes the spots
Move on

Washington, DC

#19 Sep 4, 2012
It is sad to think it, but so true. How can a man live knowing his wife gave herself to another man. Phycially, emotionally, it has to truly destroy the man if he cares, if not it wont, me for one if my wife cheated on me I could not live and imagine how she gave herself to him, places, times, where, when, how, just human nature, was it at my house, hotels, could not accept her again, I would consider her dirty used goods. Good luck to you.
just sayin

United States

#20 Sep 4, 2012
Well if guys get that hurt and territorial thats just a fraction of what girls go through and guys expect girls to forgive them...with excuses of "im a guy" and "se me hico facil" grow some balls and deal with it if you forgive the girl if not then move the fu ck on!!
Cheated On

Washington, DC

#21 Sep 4, 2012
Hey, I caught my wife cheating on me a few years ago. Yeah I was hurt and I could have kicked her a$$ out on the street and made a fool of her, but the people I would have really been hurting were our two kids. So I decided to suck it up, pay her back,(which I have done several times) and try to save, not our marriage but my kid's future. I survived it and whether she's done it again or not?? Don't really care. She is a beauty, she's hot and I do love her and I know she loves me. The point is, all is forgivable and all people do screw up to include me.
mmmm

Austin, TX

#22 Sep 4, 2012
If it wernt for the kids would you have sucked it up, you doing it is no better than her
Me Too

Austin, TX

#23 Sep 4, 2012
caught my wife cheating and had all the reasons int he world why it should have been okay, well it isnt ok, i will never truly trust her again, she cant understand why!! Once they reason its okay they will find areason to do it again, they will do it to the next partner, just plain and simple no morales always a sl@@t
Me Too

Austin, TX

#24 Sep 4, 2012
Caught my wife cheating, first she denied it and then finally admitted to the affair, they always have a reason why it was ok, well its not okay for any reason, and the next time im sure there will be a good reason, the bottom line is they have no morales, no will power, and excuse everything, well
see if that works with our maker. god be with them because in not!!!!!!

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