$500,000 bond set in Fairfield death

[friend of ryans]

unknown wrote:

I would like to say I have seen the best and the worst of Ryan A. Weartz. I have known him for years and I consider myself to know him better than anyone else even his parents. I know his heart inside and out. I have loved Ryan for years and will always stand beside him until the day I myself die. I feel horrible about this situation and like everyone else have no clue exactly what happened or who did this to Amity. We don't know if Ryan has done this yet...innocent until proven guilty. Like I said, and if he were reading this he'd know exactly who I am, I am the closest thing Ryan has ever known and has loved. I have seen a lot of his bad side and through it all, I TRUELY believe that he couldn't have done this. Ryan sometimes lets his emotions take over and if he did this it had to have been in a moment he couldn't control. I feel so sorry for Amity and her family. THIS IS HORRIBLE but I love and will always love Ryan with all of my heart. I hope the best for him regardless if he did or did not do this. If he did do it he needs help. Ryan I support you till the end guilty or innocent and you know that I love you! Sorry for letting you down!!! This would never be happening. I should have stayed by your side and never left you. You needed to know that someone, no matter what, wouldn't give up on you! Just because of circumstances that caused us to lose touch, I NEVER GAVE UP ON YOU and I will think of you and pray for you. LOVE YOU!

I've been a friend/ coworker of ryans for a long time now. And i to have seen different sides of him. I've seen his usual goofy self smiling and laughing.. I;ve seen him get angry.. but i can say truthfully i've never seen him completely lose control. All of Amity's friends and family.. god bless you and i can understand why you would say such harsh things if you believe them. But Ryan has been an older brother to me every day that i have worked with him and i honestly in my heart cant come to believe that he would do such a thing but if in some out of control way it did happen i hope he gets the help he needs because i know for a fact he is not a bad person. hes loving and fun. and im very sure amity was as well. but he isnt guilty yet.

And the unknown above- i hope you are okay and i hope everything is going well for you because im almost possitive i know who you are... and i hope your dealing with everything okay. i havent seen you in sometime but i really hope your alright! and i'm sure hes thought about you every day.. and he knows your hearts out to him... if you're who i think you are.. then i know he loves you more then anything in this world.

[unknown]

To AMITY GRAY"S FAMLIY and friends I am truely sorry about all of this. Our prayers go out to you.


To all that have supported Ryan please continue to do so. Ryan is innocent until proven guilty and until he goes to court and they say hes guilty hes not guilty. Just because a prosecutor says he has "rock solid evidence" doesnt mean they do. They might from his stand point.

To all the people who have written and supported him THANK YOU!!!!!

to his girlfriend who had his baby please call his parents you know who u are

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[unknown]

To Ryans friends write him need his address call his parents. Leave a message on his phone. They have his phone and can receive his messages. He needs all the support he can get right now.

[unknown]

I think i know who you are and if this is you maybe things would have been different. I know three little girls who ask about you sometimes.Call his mom and maybe she can hook us up.

unknown wrote:

I would like to say I have seen the best and the worst of Ryan A. Weartz. I have known him for years and I consider myself to know him better than anyone else even his parents. I know his heart inside and out. I have loved Ryan for years and will always stand beside him until the day I myself die. I feel horrible about this situation and like everyone else have no clue exactly what happened or who did this to Amity. We don't know if Ryan has done this yet...innocent until proven guilty. Like I said, and if he were reading this he'd know exactly who I am, I am the closest thing Ryan has ever known and has loved. I have seen a lot of his bad side and through it all, I TRUELY believe that he couldn't have done this. Ryan sometimes lets his emotions take over and if he did this it had to have been in a moment he couldn't control. I feel so sorry for Amity and her family. THIS IS HORRIBLE but I love and will always love Ryan with all of my heart. I hope the best for him regardless if he did or did not do this. If he did do it he needs help. Ryan I support you till the end guilty or innocent and you know that I love you! Sorry for letting you down!!! This would never be happening. I should have stayed by your side and never left you. You needed to know that someone, no matter what, wouldn't give up on you! Just because of circumstances that caused us to lose touch, I NEVER GAVE UP ON YOU and I will think of you and pray for you. LOVE YOU!

[unknown]

Whoever you are you need to get your facts straight considering he hasn't even been proven guilty. If he in fact did do this then yes he deserves a punishment, but you do not know if he did it or not so seriously you need to think before you say something like what you just wrote, you probably don't even know Ryan so it gives you no right what-so-ever to say something like that. And if your a family member or friend of Amity's then yes, you have your reasons to be angry with this situation, but you should consider the fact that Ryan hasn't even been proven guilty of doing such a horrible crime.
Best wishes to both Amity and Ryan's family and friends.

[anonymous]

J.-goodluck and my prayers go out to you every day. i havent seen you in awhile but i hope you're doing okay.
Ryan's Mother- i see you alot. i dont have your number. but if you see this..please let ryan know he has support from alot of friends and coworkers..and we miss him and i wish him the best.
Amity's Friends/Family- i am so sorry for what happened.. and i understand why youd be upset. i never got the chance to meet her but i'm sure she was an amazing girl.
i hope you all can just pray for her and remember her instead of going off about someone who hasnt been proven guilty yet. it isnt the way to handle it, no matter how upset you are...
i hope ryan gets the help he needs. if he is honestly found guilty, then he needs help, not all this cursing and hatred. he's in such a hard place right now he needs all the prayers possible.

[Unkown]

anonymous wrote:

J.-goodluck and my prayers go out to you every day. i havent seen you in awhile but i hope you're doing okay.
Ryan's Mother- i see you alot. i dont have your number. but if you see this..please let ryan know he has support from alot of friends and coworkers..and we miss him and i wish him the best.
Amity's Friends/Family- i am so sorry for what happened.. and i understand why youd be upset. i never got the chance to meet her but i'm sure she was an amazing girl.
i hope you all can just pray for her and remember her instead of going off about someone who hasnt been proven guilty yet. it isnt the way to handle it, no matter how upset you are...
i hope ryan gets the help he needs. if he is honestly found guilty, then he needs help, not all this cursing and hatred. he's in such a hard place right now he needs all the prayers possible.

I have known Amity since I was 7 years old, she was my best friend growing up; and no matter what her relationship was with ryan she did NOT deserve to die. Seeing her at the visitation haunted me for months. I am glad they finally found the person that they think did this to her. I did not know ryan and do not know if he was capable of such a horrible thing. I just want justice for Amity and her family. She meant so much to her friends and family and I am sure that right now she is smiling down on them, protecting them from the evil in this world. She was such a beautiful and kind person, it eases my mind to know that she is safe and at peace, no one else can hurt her again.

[karrie]

Thank you to everybody who has supported Amity's famly. Please don't ever forget the the wonderful, caring, loving person she grew up to be. She was also funny, goofy, and loved to laugh. She also loved to make others laugh. I'm sure everyone who knew her, has heard the Christmas/Walmart story and laughed just as hard as she did. But you know what, she will never tell that story again. I've memorized that story, so I can think of it every year, as my own personal memorial to her. It absolutley makes me sick to think of her grusome, unnecessary murder. It is horrific to know that someone could do this to another human being. I don't care if he was on drugs or not. None the less, Mimi is gone and we can only remember the past. I hate that we will never know what what her bright future had in store. We will miss her wedding, first home, children, etc. All that has been taken away from Amity, her family and friends. Pray for justice, and the evil demon that started all of this will, go to jail. I don't care to tell you, I hope he burns in eternal hell.

[karrie]

for anyone interested, there is a wonderful web site www.amityheritageroses.com . I thought was roses would also be a loving memorial, for gardeners. Mimi also liked flowers.

[The Truth]

Amity was not as innocent as you all think. Why would she be in the company of drug users and sellers? Fact is.. she was somewhat nasty and slept around quite a bit. I knew both she and Ryan well, and they were made for eachother. They often smoked crack and had sex in groups. Let the courts decide his fate and get a life folks. Even if he did in fact send her off to a better place, why ruin his life over it? It was probably an accident while they were high. Back off !!

[Jodi]

Guilty is Guilty and Murder is Murder. People are responsible for their actions and you must lack education to not understand this fundamental truth. Ryan ruined his own life when he took Amity’s life. Not only did he take Amity’s life but in the process has taken parts of her family and friends as well. And do we need to mention that Ryan in an act of complete selfishness ruined his family’s life as well. They now have to go thru their entire lives knowing that their son took the life of a beautiful young woman. It was no accident. Waiting until Amity stopped breathing by his own hands is very personal in nature – that is pure evil not some “party oops” that you some how have contrived in your world to be okay. In your world is it alright if a girl at party gets raped because she is wearing a shirt that is too low cut? Just curious...when do these things become not okay? Does it have to be your mother, sister or daughter before it matters to you?
Be careful about your accusations and judgments.– you never know what you may have to face in the future. God forbid you end up facing the same pain and horror that these two sets of parents have had to face. And given your opinions, my guess is your children may be the "pure evil" kind.

[JENNIFER]

The Truth wrote:

Amity was not as innocent as you all think. Why would she be in the company of drug users and sellers? Fact is.. she was somewhat nasty and slept around quite a bit. I knew both she and Ryan well, and they were made for eachother. They often smoked crack and had sex in groups. Let the courts decide his fate and get a life folks. Even if he did in fact send her off to a better place, why ruin his life over it? It was probably an accident while they were high. Back off !!

You need some mental help to walk around and say something so voulger.I was best friends with Amity and she never did crack nor did she have sex groups.I have never in my life wanted to knock someones teeth down there throat until know and until you.Clearly you just wnat to run around and hurt people more that what we have already gone threw.Amity may have done somethings people may have not approved of all the time, but that makes her no less of a person and gives no right for her to be murdered.Why don't you get your facts straight before you run your mouth.They did a tested Am for drugs and guess what dumbass it was negative.By the way no one is sitting here saying Amity was a saint, but she was an angel to her friends and family, stood by our side no matter what.was a shoulder to cry on through all the bad times and a best friend to laugh with throught the good, but thanks to someone with a very bad temper, not drugs but someone who has been abusive before and has no control we have lost Amity, a best friend, a sister, a daughter,a grand daughter, someone very special .So next time you want to spreads such hateful lies think of all those people.She has younger siblings who never need to hear something like that about there sister.

[Carrie_ Cincinnati]

Give me a break you nutcase. Quit defending a killer. You are a pyscho over there in Boise Idaho. Must take a lot of balls to talk such trash from a thousand miles away.

[MANDY]

To tell You THE TRUTH... sounds like Boise overheard some trashy locker room gossip. We all know how boys like to brag and tell lies. No one believes those lies about Amity.
But lets turn the tables Boise, What if Amity murdered Ryan and it was an "accident" because they were high. Oh yeah, and Ryan was a manwhore and idiots were spreading vicious lies about him trying to defend Amity. Oh wait, one more thing Ryan's body was beaten, stangled and tortured. Would you blow if off and or would you encourage the justice system to "ruin her life." Would you still say they were made for each other? I DON'T THINK SO!! Why don't you step back jack.

[erica_cincinnati oh]

What really distresses me about the people who are in the bizarre defense of an obviously, callous killer such as ryan is the consistent reminder that so many are being reduced to living in a comatose reality where they simply have no regard for human life. It is miserable that so many can live in such a desperate and life-less state; entertaining the idea that they could pass a judgment, deciding that another should deserve to die because of a, "lack of innocence."

"The Truth" is, by the measure you choose to judge another (i.e., whether one deserves to live or die), it will be dealt back to you in full sum. The very accusation, must doom one's soul to a despondent, eternal obscurity of confusion and bleakness.

[confused in idaho]

erica_cincinnati oh wrote:

What really distresses me about the people who are in the bizarre defense of an obviously, callous killer such as ryan is the consistent reminder that so many are being reduced to living in a comatose reality where they simply have no regard for human life. It is miserable that so many can live in such a desperate and life-less state; entertaining the idea that they could pass a judgment, deciding that another should deserve to die because of a, "lack of innocence."
"The Truth" is, by the measure you choose to judge another (i.e., whether one deserves to live or die), it will be dealt back to you in full sum. The very accusation, must doom one's soul to a despondent, eternal obscurity of confusion and bleakness.

this makes no sense whatsoever

[erica_cincinnati oh]

confused in idaho wrote:

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this makes no sense whatsoever

Maybe because it was written with the intent of someone with a higher I.Q. level to read it.

[npk]

I can't believe there is this many positive post about a dirtbag like Ryan. The guy is complete scum and i am glad to see he's behind bars again.

[worm]

I have know ryan probably longer than most on this website. I knew him before he was a drug addict and as some say pshyco. He always had his problems. But to argue about his innocents right now is pointless. Time will tell if he is innocent or not. What we should be doing is praying for Amitys family who lost daughter and to ryans family who might well have lost thier second son.

[kev_cincinnati]

i dated amity for the previous 10 months prior to her dating ryan. for anyone who doesent already know she was not the kind of person the idaho kid is speaking of. it hurts me so bad that someone would say that about her. its hard enough not to have her here anymore, but to have someone dragging her precious name through the mud is insane. we all miss mimi terribly. we will see you soon Am....