This is for everyone out there arguing repeatedly over whether herve jeannot is innocent or guilty or whether marc orlando is innocent or guilty. Where I stand on the subject doesn't matter and neither does anyone elses thought on the matter. What I do know is that for one is that everyone plays a role that I know everyone will play. Its the family and friends of the Calabrese's to defend the honor of a close relative and friend who was viciously murdered, thats their role. It is the role of family and friends of herve jeannot to defend him and believe that he is innocent especially that when he says he is innocent as a true friend you must give him benefit of the doubt. I know for a pure fact if the roles were reversed we would be looking at same exact messages, because everyone would still play their role. Their role as family friends in a severe crisis. And I do also know that arguing won't bring Bobby back or will it prove herve's innocent. IT DOES NOT MATTER! All I know one day bobby calabrese's life was wrongfully taken and his mother and father had to open the door one day to find that out. I also do know the jeannot's had to hear the knock of the door of a police officer of their son's confession to the haneous crime of murder. Only 3 people out there know what really happened sadly the outcome that came out of it was 1 murder, 2 ended lives and 3 families that will never be the same. So for the Calabrese's and friends please i know you had a very great loss, i know i was in the marines and i lost a few guys in the war, and i know you feel justice has been served, good. Now please just end it you played your roles, use the same energy and talk and think about bobby i know thats hard to do but negative vibes are not good and remember how everything was and go out and have a drink for him or something he would probably want that, give Mr.and Mrs. Calabrese a call on holidays, mothers day and fathers day or just any day they need it. For the Jeannots and friends, let it be, don't forget that men will always lead their own lives,their are always options, Herve being found guilty is not the end and it is no ones fault that he is in their, he picked his own path, innocent or guilty he is still in their, but what you can do instead of bickering pick up the phone call his mother and father, on chistmas give a gift to his niece and nephew, because they also have a lost. Well i guess thats all i have to say. I know its long but i justed needed to type it. sorry for the inconvience. R.I.P. Bobby Calbrese and I truly dearly mean it this is coming from a friend of Herve Jeannot. And to him as long as you have a breath to take be glad.