men and unhappy marriage.

men and unhappy marriage.

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Nabucco

Lincolnton, NC

#1 Jan 1, 2013
I am a single guy. I have heard so many complains of married guys about marriage that I wonder if getting married is worth it. Guys mustly complaining about wife not willing to have sex with them. Is this a common situation in marriage? Thanks for your comments and advice.
yep

Spruce Pine, NC

#2 Jan 1, 2013
Nabucco wrote:
I am a single guy. I have heard so many complains of married guys about marriage that I wonder if getting married is worth it. Guys mustly complaining about wife not willing to have sex with them. Is this a common situation in marriage? Thanks for your comments and advice.
Common yes. There must be something in wedding cake that destroys a woman's sex drive.
Slimy

Monroe, NC

#3 Jan 1, 2013
Nabucco wrote:
I am a single guy. I have heard so many complains of married guys about marriage that I wonder if getting married is worth it. Guys mustly complaining about wife not willing to have sex with them. Is this a common situation in marriage? Thanks for your comments and advice.
Many guys return to being pigs after the wedding. If you live your vows you will find marriage a blessing.
answer

Smithfield, NC

#4 Jan 1, 2013
Slimy wrote:
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Many guys return to being pigs after the wedding. If you live your vows you will find marriage a blessing.
The Ball bounces both ways pal .

I know a ton of Woman who get married and ten years later you wouldn't recognize them .

In General , Woman are the fat pigs of the relationship . Of course the ball does bounce both ways , im speaking in generality and stat wise.

Most woman have this fantasy in their head about what marriage is and when it isnt what they thought , life and reality slap them in the face and REAL LIFE starts to sit in . That they are not a princess , their husband is in fact a normal guy who burps and farts like all guys have been since birth .

When all this hits the Majority woman in the face , they turn to food and blow up like cows .

That is the Whole picture as far as America goes . im sorry but thats the truth .

Sad state of affairs i tell ya what .
My Conclusion

Hickory, NC

#5 Jan 2, 2013
Dating is like buying a new car, Marriage is driving the car you bought and wondering if you made the right choice.
Think about it!

It looked good when it was new setting in the show room. It felt good on the test drive. Maybe I should have waited for a newer model. Now that I’ve had it for a while it’s not really what I needed. Wow I wish I had seen that Car before I made my purchase.

Or my situation

I love this car and no matter how many miles I put on it I’m going to keep her. It fits me perfectly and with a little TLC it will last a lifetime.
i know

Hickory, NC

#6 Jan 3, 2013
know how to solve this.... marry the person who's right for you not because your lonely. Ikow plenty of wives (and husbands) who have not lost their sex drive. Marriage is whaT YOU MAKE of it. Sounds to me like your friends are in marriages were they are just existing. That my friend is sad. It's all in your attitude.
dont be intimidated

Greer, SC

#7 Jan 3, 2013
Read the online drama about the Sheriffs Dept and the married men who swing and cheat. I think it is more common in this county than anywhere.
I know

Hickory, NC

#8 Jan 3, 2013
I know it is commn....but not the norm. Serial cheaters are a whole different ballgame...
I know

Hickory, NC

#9 Jan 3, 2013
common (sorry)
Mickey

Hickory, NC

#10 Jan 3, 2013
Slimy wrote:
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Many guys return to being pigs after the wedding. If you live your vows you will find marriage a blessing.
do like this one couple in Longview.Have him lock up ,separate, and then go back together after a month.This is dumb and wasting our tax dollar
Tish

Simpsonville, SC

#11 Jan 3, 2013
I think it depends on the couple, really.

Women want to keep the guy satisfied and feels the need to give sex constantly.
Men also tend to be more attentive and romantic before marriage.

When you get married, there's a sense of being comfortable. You don't need to have sex constantly.

There can be a lot of issues on why sex stops, though. But if you really love someone, sex shouldn't make or break it.
Nooo

Smithfield, NC

#12 Jan 4, 2013
Tish wrote:
I think it depends on the couple, really.
Women want to keep the guy satisfied and feels the need to give sex constantly.
Men also tend to be more attentive and romantic before marriage.
When you get married, there's a sense of being comfortable. You don't need to have sex constantly.
There can be a lot of issues on why sex stops, though. But if you really love someone, sex shouldn't make or break it.
You're sitting here telling all of us that as long as you love someone and the sex stops , that should be Ok ?

Life with No Sex? are you freakin kidding .

S3x is the most Natural instinct of all mankind . Trust me honey , when the sex stops people go different directions as they damn well should .
No matter how much you and i " love " someone we all have to be sexual satisfied on a regular basis . That's Human Nature .
Ithink

Hickory, NC

#13 Jan 4, 2013
Nooo wrote:
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You're sitting here telling all of us that as long as you love someone and the sex stops , that should be Ok ?
Life with No Sex? are you freakin kidding .
S3x is the most Natural instinct of all mankind . Trust me honey , when the sex stops people go different directions as they damn well should .
No matter how much you and i " love " someone we all have to be sexual satisfied on a regular basis . That's Human Nature .
agreed....you should go in different directions.
My Conclusion

Hickory, NC

#14 Jan 4, 2013
Nooo wrote:
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You're sitting here telling all of us that as long as you love someone and the sex stops , that should be Ok ?
Life with No Sex? are you freakin kidding .
S3x is the most Natural instinct of all mankind . Trust me honey , when the sex stops people go different directions as they damn well should .
No matter how much you and i " love " someone we all have to be sexual satisfied on a regular basis . That's Human Nature .
It depends on why the sex stopped!
When you turn ?? and the menopause starts and the hot flashes, and the noodle shrinks and you need viagra..... You don't go different directions nor should you.

If your spouse is injured and can't perform I suppose you think that is grounds for divorce too.

shut up

United States

#15 Jan 4, 2013
Mickey wrote:
<quoted text>do like this one couple in Longview.Have him lock up ,separate, and then go back together after a month.This is dumb and wasting our tax dollar
the marriage would be a lot happier if his EX. girlfriend would shut her piehole and the only tax dollars that are wasted are the ones you get every month!
Tish

Simpsonville, SC

#16 Jan 4, 2013
Never said as long as there is love it's okay for it to stop. I said that should NOT be the ultimate deciding factor when it comes to marriage.

People have medical reasons why they cannot have sex. A REAL man/woman wouldn't leave their spouse because they don't get laid everyday.

That's where the real relationship comes into factor - you can have sex with just anyone. If you marry someone, hopefully there is a reason there.
nadena

Lenoir, NC

#17 Jan 4, 2013
Nooo wrote:
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You're sitting here telling all of us that as long as you love someone and the sex stops , that should be Ok ?
Life with No Sex? are you freakin kidding .
S3x is the most Natural instinct of all mankind . Trust me honey , when the sex stops people go different directions as they damn well should .
No matter how much you and i " love " someone we all have to be sexual satisfied on a regular basis . That's Human Nature .
so when my spouse wasn't able to perform the last year of life, I should have left? doesn't matter that we were more intimate that last year than we had ever been since our marriage...

sex is just exercise if there is no love and commitment involved.

if there is love and commitment involved, the lack of sex will not tear the marriage apart.

there are other ways to show love.

There's only so many hours that people can spend in the bedroom.
Nooo

Smithfield, NC

#18 Jan 5, 2013
nadena wrote:
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so when my spouse wasn't able to perform the last year of life, I should have left? doesn't matter that we were more intimate that last year than we had ever been since our marriage...
sex is just exercise if there is no love and commitment involved.
if there is love and commitment involved, the lack of sex will not tear the marriage apart.
there are other ways to show love.
There's only so many hours that people can spend in the bedroom.
their will always be exceptions for everything .

It sounds like you made the right choice in staying with him/her .

i was speaking about people who have nothing medically wrong with them . They walk and talk just like you and i but dont wanna put out .

How is that love? How can you " Love " someone so much , spend half your life with this person and with nothing being wrong Suddenly deny the spouse what is probably the Biggest & Strongest human instinct , s3xual satisfaction . And Some people keep this up for weeks months Or Even Centuries . im nearing 40 years old and i feel 18 in the bedroom , i need S3x .

im long and strong i came to get the friction on ~!
Stinky

Monroe, NC

#19 Jan 5, 2013
There's a reason women need rulers:

All their life they've been told 3" is 12".
shut up

United States

#20 Jan 5, 2013
Stinky wrote:
There's a reason women need rulers:
All their life they've been told 3" is 12".
there's s reason they call you stinky too

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