Gilmer woman lured my husband

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I am writing this because I feel a need to speak out.Maybe I can tell you that you are not alone. Maybe, you can tell me I am not alone.
Due to where my husband works I can not say names. I apologize. I do think that many of you who read this will already have an idea of who I am referring to.
To start I want to make it clear that this has been admitted by the woman, therefore it is not defamation of character.These are facts.
My husband started a job awhile back. Within a very short time, a co-worker started to pursue him for intimate reasons. He made it clear he was married and not interested. Now, for other reasons, I can assume it would be her reputation, or appearance...not many men give up the oppurtunity for free, no strings attached, lip sealed affairs.
After her consistent contact and inappropiate behavior (not considered inappropiate by her), my husband and I directed this to the correct people in the work place. For obvious reasons. This was being initated at work, during work hours. We have 3 children to feed and my husband can not be run off for concern about this person. So, we did what we thought would be best and see if there could be modifications for contact. There were. However, she did receive recgonition for her services at work.(I choose not to make a smart remark here)
There are more men then my husband. How far it went, if they were also co-workers, is not my concern. I do feel sorry for any broken homes due to this woman, and if you are going through what I am, I think as a woman you should know how easy she makes it and how aggressive I am told she is.
This person is not young. She has many children, been married many years. She has grown up in the Gilmer area. She has many friends, or so they think. But she portrays the wonderful mother, and loving wife very well. I am sure if you are local you have shared a recipe, talked on Facebook (probably even on her friend list), been at the same school games, or are even old Gilmer High schoolmates. I can tell you first hand, this woman looked me straight in the face and tried to befriend me.
I will leave the judgement up to God. We live in a small town, majority of people have known eachother forever or are related. So, it puts me in a hard situation. I know I am entitled to tell my story.
I do not know how many people have had it done to them by this person. If you are one, you are not alone..just as I said in the begining.
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Jan 16, 2013
 
Has he thought about claiming sexual harassment ?
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GApeachy wrote:
I am writing this because I feel a need to speak out.Maybe I can tell you that you are not alone. Maybe, you can tell me I am not alone.
Due to where my husband works I can not say names. I apologize. I do think that many of you who read this will already have an idea of who I am referring to.
To start I want to make it clear that this has been admitted by the woman, therefore it is not defamation of character.These are facts.
My husband started a job awhile back. Within a very short time, a co-worker started to pursue him for intimate reasons. He made it clear he was married and not interested. Now, for other reasons, I can assume it would be her reputation, or appearance...not many men give up the oppurtunity for free, no strings attached, lip sealed affairs.
After her consistent contact and inappropiate behavior (not considered inappropiate by her), my husband and I directed this to the correct people in the work place. For obvious reasons. This was being initated at work, during work hours. We have 3 children to feed and my husband can not be run off for concern about this person. So, we did what we thought would be best and see if there could be modifications for contact. There were. However, she did receive recgonition for her services at work.(I choose not to make a smart remark here)
There are more men then my husband. How far it went, if they were also co-workers, is not my concern. I do feel sorry for any broken homes due to this woman, and if you are going through what I am, I think as a woman you should know how easy she makes it and how aggressive I am told she is.
This person is not young. She has many children, been married many years. She has grown up in the Gilmer area. She has many friends, or so they think. But she portrays the wonderful mother, and loving wife very well. I am sure if you are local you have shared a recipe, talked on Facebook (probably even on her friend list), been at the same school games, or are even old Gilmer High schoolmates. I can tell you first hand, this woman looked me straight in the face and tried to befriend me.
I will leave the judgement up to God. We live in a small town, majority of people have known eachother forever or are related. So, it puts me in a hard situation. I know I am entitled to tell my story.
I do not know how many people have had it done to them by this person. If you are one, you are not alone..just as I said in the begining.
Can you be any more vague? Why in the world would you waste your time posting something with no more information than that?
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Read between the line a little more. Got good idea on who she is. Does she work in local law enforcement?

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gimmer wrote:
Read between the line a little more. Got good idea on who she is. Does she work in local law enforcement?
NOt a law enforcement officer...but yes she does work in the area. I had an idea it would not be hard to figure out. Not from everything I have heard about her. The way it is said is mostly..."thats the way she is..and we all know it".

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Can you be any more vague? Why in the world would you waste your time posting something with no more information than that?
I am sorry if you think I am being vague, that was my point. To express myself without being malicious against an idvidual. If you have no idea what i am talking about ...why I would not be able to say names...then you must not know who I am referring to. Sorry to have upset you.

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Little ole me wrote:
Has he thought about claiming sexual harassment ?
Not tht simple...wish it were. Thank you though.
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if she's sexually harassing him, she can be sued just like a man. women wanted equal rights and they got them. simple as that.

i do pity your husband that has now been embarrassed to hel and back on this forum. in front of god, his friends and family, this being a small town and all.
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Ladies, if you give the guys what they need & want at home then you will never what anything to worry about.No man in his right mind will go after "hamburger" if he has a "filet" waiting for him at home.

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gimmer wrote:
Read between the line a little more. Got good idea on who she is. Does she work in local law enforcement?
Did you figure it out? Like I said I didnt think it would be hard.Thanks for saying what you did to the other responder.

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Can you be any more vague? Why in the world would you waste your time posting something with no more information than that?
I was thinking about what you said about being so vague...I have a question..do you need more information because you are curious or because you are concerned? Do you think youmay know this person? Did you consider the reprecussions for posting a name? I feel that I want to get it out and most people who know her ...know who I am talking about. So, how am I so vague? the situation is detailed...the names are missing..if you have a reason for wanting to know the names, would you mind telling me why?

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if she's sexually harassing him, she can be sued just like a man. women wanted equal rights and they got them. simple as that.
i do pity your husband that has now been embarrassed to hel and back on this forum. in front of god, his friends and family, this being a small town and all.
That is one of the many reason I do not want to expose his name. Charging her with anything would be useless. He would probably loose his job immediatly and she might gain another award!
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I believe I know who she is. And she is also partially responsible for someone I know and his wife's break up. But instead of going after him, she befriended them both, acted like their best friends (mainly to him), and then proceeded to drive his wife into the arms of another man. And it worked! I don't want to hear crap or comments about how HE may have been responsible for her leaving him....because he was merely a victim of a very long marriage to an obvious woman who was just after him for what he can do for her. When times got tough and money got tight, this woman you are speaking of, introduced her to the guy she is with now. And the big bucks a year the other guy makes, i'm SURE had something to do with it too....but reguardless, this woman is an unfortunate excuse for a human being and has no heart or remorse once so ever. But like I always say, what goes around, comes around. She will get hers one day by means that are out of our power.....God.

By the way, maybe it is best for your husband to file harrassment charges against her. If someone needs to expose her, that's the best evidence right there.

Good luck to you and your husband dear.

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I believe I know who she is. And she is also partially responsible for someone I know and his wife's break up. But instead of going after him, she befriended them both, acted like their best friends (mainly to him), and then proceeded to drive his wife into the arms of another man. And it worked! I don't want to hear crap or comments about how HE may have been responsible for her leaving him....because he was merely a victim of a very long marriage to an obvious woman who was just after him for what he can do for her. When times got tough and money got tight, this woman you are speaking of, introduced her to the guy she is with now. And the big bucks a year the other guy makes, i'm SURE had something to do with it too....but reguardless, this woman is an unfortunate excuse for a human being and has no heart or remorse once so ever. But like I always say, what goes around, comes around. She will get hers one day by means that are out of our power.....God.
By the way, maybe it is best for your husband to file harrassment charges against her. If someone needs to expose her, that's the best evidence right there.
Good luck to you and your husband dear.
I am sure we are talking about the same person. I found out when this happened to me that she was responsible for destroying other marriages. I heard she was also into the swinger scene. I can not imagine how she gets away with it, how she sleeps at night, or especially how people act like they like her! Thank you for your kind words and wishes. I do apprecite it. I am going to discuss the other options with my husband. This woman has issues that I dont think anybody will be able to stop. But If he wouldnt be in jeopardy I would be more then happy to expose her.
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This thread has verified the old adage: Never try to understand wimmins.

Only women understand women.
And they invariably hate each other.

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This thread has verified the old adage: Never try to understand wimmins.
Only women understand women.
And they invariably hate each other.
you got that right.
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You already exposed your husband. Does he know what you've done on here? You have humiliated your husband and exposed his wife as a jealous and insecure nut, for all the town to see.
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You already exposed your husband. Does he know what you've done on here? You have humiliated your husband and exposed his wife as a jealous and insecure nut, for all the town to see.
I don't think this shows her as a jealous and insecure nut. If that was the case, then her post would be based on assumption and not a fact that she is stating.

And to the concerned wife, I see what you are doing here. You're reaching out for help on a rather difficult situation. My advice to you would be to contact an attorney and talk to them about what you should do. By law they are required to stay confidental (which will not exposed anyone while you are seeking your help)

Even just posting this, might help bring the woman to a hault. You never know. Someone else may come forward now that this is out in the open.
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Actually there is a warrant that you can obtain against someone who is trying to wreck your marriage, it's never used but if your hubby looks it up in the code book, it's there, I promise you, I have seen it. She might be interested to know this tadbit of info herself. And I don't think you are doing wrong by warning ppl of her. Although a lot of ppl already know and those that can do something just choose to look the other way, and we wonder why... LOL. Sorry this has happened to you.
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libra wrote:
You already exposed your husband. Does he know what you've done on here? You have humiliated your husband and exposed his wife as a jealous and insecure nut, for all the town to see.
What Planet are YOU from???? I read this twice and for the life of me can not figure out where you are coming from! "nut" suits you well Libra!

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