if your husband/man was in prison, wo...
Oh Yeah

United States

#42 Nov 5, 2012
So what about a man that's in the military? He's gone, he can't be here physically, should he be cheated on as well?

Bowling Green, KY

#43 Nov 5, 2012
Oh Yeah wrote:
So what about a man that's in the military? He's gone, he can't be here physically, should he be cheated on as well?
I understand where some people are coming from, but if you are married, those vows say for better or for worse not only if you are here. I think that people shouldn't cheat unless they end their relationship. It just causes less bad feelings and karma.

Kolkata, India

#44 Nov 5, 2012
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Since: Oct 12

Evansville, IN

#45 Nov 5, 2012
So you are wanting to cheat because you are lonely but plan to get back with him after he gets out?


#46 Feb 5, 2013
My husband has been in for 9 months and has at least another 4 years to go. We talked about it and agreed I could cheat as long as I told him everything. I'm standing by him which is more than most people would. My husband knows the man I have been with, he is a good friend of ours that I have always had a thing for. I thought I would feel guilty but I don't. If my husband was at home I would never be in this position. Honesty is always we have left so as long as we tell each other everything our marriage vows are on hold until 2017.

Indianapolis, IN

#47 Feb 5, 2013
All you hoes cheat on there man as soon they get locked up and spend the money too lol
I can help

Evansville, IN

#48 Feb 5, 2013
beenthere wrote:
if he is ur husband- u said "for better" or worse..right???so this is ur husband..u love him?? i know2 it is rough times are tough and loneliness when ur mans gone....sucks!!!but always remember...anything u do (if you cross that line) there is no coming back. also..would u want him to do that to u?? marriage is based on trust and respect..once that is broken...it may not be able to be fixed.if you were going to leave him u should have done it when he was out- not leaving him hanging when he needs you the most. u need to keep it 100 with ur man at all times.it is a difficult situation but if u are married and cant keep one of the most important promises and commitments of your life....then ur word means nothing nor clearly does ur marriage.prison is a lonely place,make sure if u r commited that u write and visit every chance u get..let him know ur promise and commitment u made is real...if u cant do that just be real and let him go
he should have thought about that before he commited his crime!

United States

#49 Feb 5, 2013
You shouldn't get married if you can't be faithful. You people make me sick.

United States

#50 Feb 5, 2013
First of all, I would never marry a criminal!! I won't even date someone who doesn't have at least a Master's degree. Second, if someone I was involved with committed a crime I would dump them so fast their head would spin. I don't associate with lowlife scum.

Evansville, IN

#51 Feb 6, 2013
i love to hit da chicks dat man is in prison. my best friend went ot jail copule times. i hit his biatch errie time he be locked up. wen he get out she go back to him.

Newburgh, IN

#52 Feb 6, 2013
My husband is in prison luckily he gets out in a few months but I took a vow when I got married for better or for worse. I will not cheat on him, I don't want something like that hanging over my head!! I love my husband
Patty Herst

Indianapolis, IN

#53 Feb 14, 2013
My man is in jail and I have had proems w it!
What do u do? The way it was explained to me is .... When men go to jail they expect.... The men that we mess with have a name JODY.....
If u can do it and not feel bad which I can't, gt ya a Jody.
been there

Evansville, IN

#54 Feb 14, 2013
do wha you feel is right. sounslike youcare about him so dont tell him. not il he gets out any way. trust me he's having a rough time already. and he's go nothing but time to sit and dwell on it

Mankato, MN

#55 Feb 14, 2013
That Jodi shiy started in the military
rick grimmes

Evansville, IN

#57 Feb 17, 2013
My girlfriend was in jail forabout 2 mo. And I stayed faithful to her but a little after she got out she cheated on me. Go figure. I had a chance to do something but I'm just not that kind of guy. But now I think a little differently after that rude awakening.

Dover, OH

#58 Feb 17, 2013
I stayed faithful to my now ex husband through all his bs when he was in trouble. He was in and out of jail. That Mf had the balls to get out of prison after everything I did for him. I visited him every visit, put money on his books, wrote him letters, and brought money to the visits so he could have something good. He went and cheated on me several times. I loved him and I bent over backwards for him. I will never be with someone who is trouble again. That shit ruined my marriage and we have a child together. I am so heartbroken. Y'all go do what you do. I know I'm never going back to that. I should've cheated when I had the opportunity. And fir those of you that think your best friend wont try to f uck your man/woman while the other is gone. Think again.

Kent, OH

#59 Feb 18, 2013
Mr tester

Evansville, IN

#60 Feb 18, 2013
Newbie wrote:
. Youuuuzzz a lie, men lie, women lie... HOEz dnt tell.. Datz why me da homies lust all u hoezzzz.. Smashed

United States

#61 Feb 18, 2013
Yeah cheat and make sure it's with another thug so when he gets locked up they can both f**k each other in jail. Loser!!!

Denver, CO

#62 Jun 21, 2013
It's an unspoken thing, you are there for him, that's what makes his time more bearable. Wright letters and give him love. Do your own thing and don't bring it up. Ever!

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