if your husband/man was in prison, would yo cheat?

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thinkingofcheati n

Bowling Green, KY

#1 Sep 3, 2012
I was wondering how long would you wait to cheat?? Or would it be cheating cause he's locked up and can't fullfil needs. Financial, sexual, emotional. I tried, but I felt guilty. So be real here, how long could you wait?? He still has atleast 5 yrs and been gone almost 8
marriedman

Owensboro, KY

#2 Sep 3, 2012
Hi i would eat your pusy maam email me billybob0075@yahoo.com
DUDE

Evansville, IN

#3 Sep 3, 2012
yep cheat but tell him how u feel!
thinkingofcheati n

Bowling Green, KY

#4 Sep 3, 2012
marriedman wrote:
Hi i would eat your pusy maam email me billybob0075@yahoo.com
No thanks, but thank you. Have a nice day.
thinkingofcheati n

Bowling Green, KY

#5 Sep 3, 2012
DUDE wrote:
yep cheat but tell him how u feel!
Do you think that when a man goes to jail or prison he expects faithfullness?? Even if it is for a long time? I personally think that if it is his own fault, whatever happens happens. Guess I just haven't found the right man to cheat with or I can't do it.
For real

Louisville, KY

#6 Sep 3, 2012
He has more than likely got a man in there if he has been in there that long he is either giving dick or takin it...... so you may as well get one too....
thinkingofcheati n

Bowling Green, KY

#7 Sep 3, 2012
For real, he is in fed prison. That doesn't happen in there as often as it does in state prison. A little more strict. But thanks for the insight. I know a lot of men come out and are on the down low. I believe it's the reason some go back. I haven't decided yet, but I do have someone in mind, if only they knew. Have a good day. Any input is appreciated.
lol

Evansville, IN

#8 Sep 3, 2012
For real wrote:
He has more than likely got a man in there if he has been in there that long he is either giving dick or takin it...... so you may as well get one too....
True
lol

Evansville, IN

#9 Sep 3, 2012
Ask yourself would he wait for you?!?
real

Newburgh, IN

#10 Sep 3, 2012
lol wrote:
Ask yourself would he wait for you?!?
I would assume with him being a male we all know the answer already sad to say it like that but....
Maybe

Evansville, IN

#11 Sep 3, 2012
thinkingofcheatin wrote:
I was wondering how long would you wait to cheat?? Or would it be cheating cause he's locked up and can't fullfil needs. Financial, sexual, emotional. I tried, but I felt guilty. So be real here, how long could you wait?? He still has atleast 5 yrs and been gone almost 8
Girl mad props to you for already waiting that long!! My mans only been gone 7 mos & has 5 more left it seems like forever...but Imma keep holdin him down! Idk what I would do if i was in your shoes? I prolly would have jus told him when he got that long a$$ bid that I couldn't put my life on hold for that long!! Maybe talk to him, tell him how you feel? Maybe he'd be ok with you having you needs fulfilled while he was away? As long as you still hold him down on all other tips it might work out?
Ihaveoneintheret oo

Evansville, IN

#12 Sep 3, 2012
I told my boyfriend when he was initially looking at 3 years I refused to wait. I won't do it, I would visit and still maintain a relationship with him and could try to be a family when he got back. HE ended up just doing a year and I was ok with waiting for that. Girl you have so much more will power than most women! Maybe just talk to him and tell him your feelings, but also tell him that you still love him and want to be there for him! Hope things work out for you
thinkingofcheati ng

Bowling Green, KY

#13 Sep 4, 2012
Thanks everyone. Maybe I won't feel so bad if I do it.
my dude said

Evansville, IN

#14 Sep 4, 2012
Babe I got u if it was u but I can't say I would have sex but plz don't have a dude think he's ur guy when I come home ur guy couldn't ask u for more than just that
FiredUpFreak

Morganfield, KY

#15 Sep 4, 2012
Its not making love its just F'ing anyone can do it. Its not like he is seeing you with come on your face. Let happen what happens, life is too short to go without what makes you happy and keeps you stress free.
sexy

United States

#16 Nov 2, 2012
My man in jail also and I was thinking that I should try an wait for him to. Come home but at the end of the day I need to keep me happy also
beenthere

Chardon, OH

#17 Nov 2, 2012
if he is ur husband- u said "for better" or worse..right???so this is ur husband..u love him?? i know2 it is rough times are tough and loneliness when ur mans gone....sucks!!!but always remember...anything u do (if you cross that line) there is no coming back. also..would u want him to do that to u?? marriage is based on trust and respect..once that is broken...it may not be able to be fixed.if you were going to leave him u should have done it when he was out- not leaving him hanging when he needs you the most. u need to keep it 100 with ur man at all times.it is a difficult situation but if u are married and cant keep one of the most important promises and commitments of your life....then ur word means nothing nor clearly does ur marriage.prison is a lonely place,make sure if u r commited that u write and visit every chance u get..let him know ur promise and commitment u made is real...if u cant do that just be real and let him go
new

Evansville, IN

#18 Nov 3, 2012
thinkingofcheatin wrote:
For real, he is in fed prison. That doesn't happen in there as often as it does in state prison. A little more strict. But thanks for the insight. I know a lot of men come out and are on the down low. I believe it's the reason some go back. I haven't decided yet, but I do have someone in mind, if only they knew. Have a good day. Any input is appreciated.
Fed prison is where it happens most stupid. State prison isn't as long of terms as fed.
puhleese

Bowling Green, KY

#19 Nov 3, 2012
new wrote:
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Fed prison is where it happens most stupid. State prison isn't as long of terms as fed.
Please, it happens everywhere. Jail, state, fed.
haventyet

Bowling Green, KY

#20 Nov 3, 2012
I haven't cheated yet. I do believe in for better or for worse, but it's getting much harder every day. I thank everyone for their comments. I may create another thread if I do decide to cheat.

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