whats wrong with me?

United States

#1 Jan 28, 2013
I feel like I will never make a romantic connection with anyone because I'm so closed off & shy. I can't help it and I don't know how to fix it. I just wonder what is so wrong with me. Everyone says your a great person, you deserve better, you will find someone. Even my ex tells me you will find someone you're a great person but it seems like the guys I have dated have found their wife after breaking up with me. It really messes with my head. Is there a way that I don't have a romantic bone in my body & no one will ever want to date me? What can I do to change it? Sorry for the crying normally I'm positive & strong but it seems this has the best of me!

Mchenry, IL

#2 Jan 28, 2013
I will date you

Lexington, KY

#3 Jan 28, 2013
Be positive.

Kent, OH

#4 Jan 29, 2013
I felt like that too, once. I met my husband online at okcupid after being on dating sites for five years. It just takes some time sometimes. Never give up! There is always one person out there searching for you.

United States

#5 Jan 29, 2013
Thanks! I feel much better today! I hate feeling like this bc I have always been a positive, happy, strong person so I hate talking to my friends about this I don't want anyone to see me at my weak times! I know I'm a great person. I know someone will make me happy one day & I hope I will be able to make my man very happy one day.

Kent, OH

#6 Jan 29, 2013
Indeed! Glad you are feeling better today! Remember: you are awesome and no one can bring you down but yourself.
why comment

United States

#7 Jan 29, 2013
I fell like that to its been freaking 5 yrs and still nothing. And omg errr to the fact another. Vday alone! It gets lonely. I'm not thirsty so I wont settle but I do want someone. I'm attractive fun can cook clean smart, love trying new things don't drink smoke and only been with 4 pei and one of them was my children father. I'm 29 and still can't find anyone. I fell you your heart aches because you haven't found your soul mate. But let me tell you this God didn't put us on earth to be alone. Think of it the man that he has for you is so great he's spending extra time perfecting him just for you.
why he's in progress take time out to love you! Think about what needs to change about you like rebuild your hear ake out all the negative and put in positive. Start saying Im going to find my man! I'm a great woman! Do dates with your self girl. Shopping, nails. What ever you like so when he comes you already know what it fells like to be treated like a princesses! Sometimes as women when we haven't had something good for so long it kinda creeps us out if someone being to nice.
He will come you just haft to have faith the best things come when we don't know it.
That big heart you have is going to be shared but you truly haft to know that and put positive things in the air.
Go out or in on the net or church what ever your flavor. Because he's not going to just knock on your door un less he's the mail guy. Lol
Be happy with your self and hunny the rest will follow. My husband coming I wrote out everything I wanted in a man and told God I know he's. Not going to be perfect but hey he will be for me. Many blessing apon you love. If any miss spelling sorry you know the grammar police trolls this site lol.

Lexington, KY

#8 Jan 29, 2013
Never settle

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