Women who Don't know who their baby d...

Women who Don't know who their baby daddy is

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Question

Indianapolis, IN

#1 Feb 2, 2013
What do you think of the?
Or those not telling the dude they got pregnant but still having the child?

I think that sad, because even if the father isn't in the child's life I think they should know their government name a least.
Mina

Indianapolis, IN

#2 Feb 2, 2013
Trashy af. How many men are these women sleeping with in such a short period of time?(Sperm only lives for like 3 to 7 days.)

It's also sad for the kid not to know where they come from. They should if only to avoid a fked up situation. For example, I listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show and like hearing the Strawberry Letter. One day this woman wrote in distraught because it turned out that the man she was in love with and had been seeing for a year IS HER DAMN DADDY! She didn't find out 'til she took him to the family barbeque to meet everybody. He and her mama had sex once, and he wasn't even contacted to be told he had a daughter. smh

The guy ran away and got in therapy (completely understandable). I was horrified when the woman wrote in again a few weeks later to give an update saying that they'd continued seeing each other because they hadn't had a DNA test and weren't sure of paternity. Bitch please! When the test was done, it turned out that he was her dad. Duh! Wtf were they thinking continuing to have sex just cuz they weren't sure? That's some strong denial right there. If there was even a small chance that was her dad, she should've put that on pause 'til they found out.
4romOhio

Indianapolis, IN

#3 Feb 2, 2013
Damn i know somebody like this and shes such a sweet girl. Probably one of the nicest ppl i have ever met, but she is on the uncareful promiscuous side and too naive and unassuming, but a good person none the less. Her daughter is a genius and its sad that she will never know her father.... She actually told the baby her grandpa was her dad... I know.
witness

Princeton, KY

#4 Feb 2, 2013
Question wrote:
What do you think of the?
Or those not telling the dude they got pregnant but still having the child?

I think that sad, because even if the father isn't in the child's life I think they should know their government name a least.
Well if you don't know she had a child then what's there to worry about, you don't know there's a child.
Now if you are claiming to not know that's a different story. Stop being a deadbeat and call the baby momma, step up to the plate and find out the name.
Sounds to me like you are trying to brush off your responsibilities by blaming the baby momma.
You're not asking because your thinking, "don't ask don't tell". If she decides to take your a$$ to court, you will owe from the day the child was born. So keep playing and adding up the rears!
witness

Princeton, KY

#5 Feb 2, 2013
And just for the reacts the title of this topic and your comment don't match. You know that baby's yours.
witness

Princeton, KY

#6 Feb 2, 2013
witness wrote:
<quoted text>Well if you don't know she had a child then what's there to worry about, you don't know there's a child.
Now if you are claiming to not know that's a different story. Stop being a deadbeat and call the baby momma, step up to the plate and find out the name.
Sounds to me like you are trying to brush off your responsibilities by blaming the baby momma.
You're not asking because your thinking, "don't ask don't tell". If she decides to take your a$$ to court, you will owe from the day the child was born. So keep playing and adding up the rears!
* you're
the truth

Evansville, IN

#7 Feb 2, 2013
aurora horne aka dede she has no clue who her mix breed child is
Insensitive

Indianapolis, IN

#8 Feb 2, 2013
Wh@@es who deserve to struggle.
Yellagirl

Indianapolis, IN

#9 Feb 2, 2013
Same thing I think about dudes who have babies all over the world...whres (misspelled on purpose).
My exceptions are with dudes who were tricked, or were never told of the child, and women who were raped, tricked, or very young.
Sarai T

Indianapolis, IN

#10 Feb 2, 2013
I grew up without my dad because my mom never told him that she was pregnant They were both in the army and she got orders to leave the country when she was 2 months preggers. They (Army) found out and shipped her arse back to the states, but she requested to go to another duty station instead of where she came from. She didn't want to deal with the guy she'd gotten pregnant by

I've only recently found my dad. I'm an adult!! He has missed all of the good sh*t and really had no clue my mom had a baby by him.

There's part of me that wants to be pissed at my mother, but I know that she was only 20 yrs old and no one is perfect. She told me that the guy had been trying to get with her for awhile and they got drunk 1 night and just... "did it." My "dad" was also engaged back then. Smh. I don't believe my mom was a slut. Out of all the years I stayed with her, she only brought 1 boyfriend around me. She made a horrible judgment call on that 1 though. It's better to man up and have a guy say something disrespectful like, "It's not mine", "Better get rid of it", or "I'm not marrying you" than to not give the guy the option of even KNOWING he has fathered a child. My mom's biological father has never even said 1 word to her, even to this day, and has told HER mom that she's not his child. At least give the man a chance to be a piece of sh*t like my grandma gave her dad lol.
Disgusting

Indianapolis, IN

#11 Feb 2, 2013
Deserves whatever hell they have to experience. They are one of the reasons why people HATE single mothers.
Yuck

Indianapolis, IN

#12 Feb 2, 2013
Mina wrote:
Trashy af. How many men are these women sleeping with in such a short period of time?(Sperm only lives for like 3 to 7 days.)
It's also sad for the kid not to know where they come from. They should if only to avoid a fked up situation. For example, I listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show and like hearing the Strawberry Letter. One day this woman wrote in distraught because it turned out that the man she was in love with and had been seeing for a year IS HER DAMN DADDY! She didn't find out 'til she took him to the family barbeque to meet everybody. He and her mama had sex once, and he wasn't even contacted to be told he had a daughter. smh
The guy ran away and got in therapy (completely understandable). I was horrified when the woman wrote in again a few weeks later to give an update saying that they'd continued seeing each other because they hadn't had a DNA test and weren't sure of paternity. Bitch please! When the test was done, it turned out that he was her dad. Duh! Wtf were they thinking continuing to have sex just cuz they weren't sure? That's some strong denial right there. If there was even a small chance that was her dad, she should've put that on pause 'til they found out.
That is so damn pitiful and disgusting!!! Boy, people today have no damn sense!!! Just the fact that there was a possibility that he could be my daddy would have had by vagina withering away. I would have felt disgusted and embarrassed with myself, and angry with my mother.

And I bet she never heard from the guy again after it was revealed that he was the father, or they continued that nasty, incestuous relationship. I just can't.
jus_me

Evansville, IN

#13 Feb 2, 2013
Leah young is prego and she is telling one of her exes hat he us the daddy bc she sees that he is trying to be a good dad to this other chicks kid that he is the father of. Dna proven father that is. But the doesnt really know who the daddy is. I know of at least 3 other dudes she was screwing the same time she was screwing this one dude. She is a foul bizitch
woman

United States

#14 Feb 3, 2013
Disgusting wrote:
Deserves whatever hell they have to experience. They are one of the reasons why people HATE single mothers.
Nobody ever said they hate single mothers. Your a complete & total dumbass. Guess what I'm a single mother. I know who my baby daddy is. Sometimes woman know who there baby daddy is its just nobodys business and this post is stupid too. Trying to call people out. For what? Stay in your own business. That's why there's so much violence these days people are so damn nosey. Who are you to call anyone out? Your not god. People make mistakes its not your right to tell them. & guess what I'm a single mother of a tiny baby, have a car, house, job & degree. So hate on me! Most woman arnt saying who there baby daddy is cause there ashamed of there dead beat ass.
MakesNoSense

Indianapolis, IN

#15 Feb 3, 2013
Unless you were raped or a prostitute how can you not know or at least have an idea of who the father is? I don't get it.
Sllluuuttsss

Indianapolis, IN

#16 Feb 3, 2013
Horrible parents. Horrible human beings.
Vicki S

United States

#17 Feb 3, 2013
Sad

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