kash

Evansville, IN

#42 Apr 27, 2013
Really wrote:
No, it's not black men it's the n**g*s who are so pityful that they can't do for theirselves, let alone a child. They have no desire to do anything other than what they have always done. Which is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. A man is going to do what a man was made to do. Which is provide and protect!!! If you can't do that then you are not a man!! So that leaves them to be n**g*s, slugs, anything other than useful. It is very sad I will say.
“As you grow older, you'll see white men cheat black men every day of your life, but let me tell you something and don't you forget it - whenever a white man does that to a black man, no matter who he is, how rich he is, or how fine a family he comes from, he is trash.”
― Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

Since: Oct 10

Evansville, IN

#43 Apr 27, 2013
Ashbash wrote:
I think its because they just don't want to, They meaning ALL MEN OF ALL RACES, lets not forget there are white men, asian men, indian men, middle eastern men who are NOT active in their children's lives. Stop trying to throw BLACK men under the bus. Its not just black men.
I'm glad there's some intelligence on this thread.
Amber

Indianapolis, IN

#44 Apr 27, 2013
I think there's a lack of unity when you compare it to back in the day.

During those times, blacks had to stick together to fight the racism/drawbacks and look out for one another. The community as whole was working to strengthen themselves and their families.

I mean today we still have these issues but it's not as "open" as it was in the past and people don't work together anymore.

People I know are getting pregnant or have kids and they're not married or even with the person anymore and I do question why is this happening?

It kills me to see the women dog the men out and for the men to disrespect the women.

In my opinion, I think we as women have a lot of power and we need to uplift our standards and the men will follow suit.
so true

Evansville, IN

#45 Apr 27, 2013
Licensed_2Carry wrote:
What a dumbass thread by a dumbass person. There's deadbeat fathers in all races. I personally know black losers who aren't there for their kids and I know white losers who are absent fathers as well. It's not about race, it's about mentality. You only posted this because you are the type of loser that gets a kick out of pissing people off. You must have such a miserable existence. I feel so sorry for you. I hope your life gets better soon.
You said it !!
Not at all

Duluth, GA

#46 Apr 27, 2013
Sorry to all the haters.. My husband is a great black man with one child, our son. He provides very well for us and is an amazing dad who is involved in my sons school, sports, and life. Dead beats come in all races. My husband is not one of them. He is there for his family 100 percent of the time.
Really

Evansville, IN

#47 Apr 27, 2013
truthbtold wrote:
<quoted text>spoken like a true inbred redneck racist...stay classy bigot
First and foremost I am a mixed raced female. Who has been with my father, mother, sisters and brother all my life. Who they all four ( sisters and brother) bi-racial with the same parents as well. I have lived in the "Hood" my entire life. Been through my wild me, my low me, and the mother me. So I can first and foremost tell you what I do know about what I say. Thank you very kindly for your bumbass input!! Have a beautiful day!!!!
ghost

Evansville, IN

#48 Apr 27, 2013
Blacks in general are parasites and need to be eradicated the world would be a better place.

Since: Oct 10

Evansville, IN

#49 Apr 27, 2013
ghost wrote:
Blacks in general are parasites and need to be eradicated the world would be a better place.
You're even worse than the parasites you speak of. People like you plague our society with ignorance and stupidity. You're a perfect example of why some people should not reproduce.
straight up

Evansville, IN

#50 Apr 28, 2013
Biracialbutterfly wrote:
<quoted text>
I think this would be less of an issue if the women these men are procreating with made better and smarter choices in men. Lets not put all the blame on the men, he women are partly to blame and should held accountable as well, after all it takes two to tango.
I agree.If you are with a man or woman and they dont take care of children they already have and no job!Then why in the hell would you allow that person to get pregnant.Like u said takes two to tangle,dont talk shit about the person after the fact.
Hazel eyes

Indianapolis, IN

#52 Jul 23, 2013
This title is crazy.
Patriot

Evansville, IN

#53 Jul 23, 2013
Bill O'Reilly nailed it the other night.

BILL O'REILLY: President Obama and the race problem, that is the subject of this evening's "Talking Points Memo."

On Friday, the president delivered surprise remarks to the press about the Trayvon Martin case and race in general. His main point? A plea for understanding.

BARACK OBAMA: There are very few African American men in this country who have not had the experience of being followed when they were shopping in a department store. That includes me.[video cut] I don't want to exaggerate this but those sets of experiences inform how the African American community interprets what happened one night in Florida.

O'REILLY: And that's true. Many black Americans harbor at least some resentment for past injuries. But what President Obama surely knows is that you cannot reach a fair criminal verdict or design effective public policy that solves present problems by dwelling on the sins of the past.

"Talking Points" believes the president was correct in addressing the race issue and framing it with the Martin case. He's the leader of America and the country's talking about this.

By the way, when you hear a pundit or a politician say we should have a quote conversation about race, that means you're in for a sea of bloviating that will likely lead nowhere.

The sad truth is that, from the president on down, our leadership has no clue, no clue at all, about how to solve problems within the black community. And many are frightened to even broach the issue. That's because race hustlers and the grievance industry have intimidated the so-called conversation, turning any valid criticism of African-American culture into charges of racial bias.
Patriot

Evansville, IN

#54 Jul 23, 2013
So many in power simply walk away leaving millions of law-abiding African Americans to pretty much fend for themselves in violent neighborhoods. You want racism? That's racism!

Thus it is time for some straight talk and I hope the president is listening tonight because we need him to lead on this issue.

Trayvon Martin was killed because circumstances got out of control. He was scrutinized by neighborhood watchman George Zimmerman because of the way he looked, not necessarily his skin color, there's no evidence of that, but because he was a stranger to Zimmerman and was dressed in clothing sometimes by street criminals.

It was wrong for Zimmerman to confront Martin based on his appearance. But the culture that we have in this country does lead to criminal profiling because young black American men are so often involved in crime. The statistics, overwhelming!

But here's the headline: Young black men commit homicides at a rate 10 times greater than whites and Hispanics combined. Presented with damning evidence like that, and like the many Holocausts in Chicago, where hundreds of African Americans are murdered each year, the civil rights industry looks the other way or makes excuses.

They blame guns, poor education, lack of jobs. Rarely do they define the problem accurately. So here it is: The reason there is so much violence and chaos in the black precincts is the disintegration of the African American family. Right now, about 73% of all black babies are born out of wedlock. That drives poverty and the lack of involved fathers leads to young boys crowing up resentful and unsupervised. When was the last time you saw a public service ad telling young black girls to avoid becoming pregnant? Has President Obama done such an ad? How about Jackson or Sharpton? Has the Congressional Black Caucus demanded an ad like that? How about the PC pundits who work for NBC News?

White people don't force black people to have babies out of wedlock. That's a personal decision. A decision that has devastated millions of children and led to disaster both socially and economically.

So, raised without much structure, young black men often reject education and gravitate towards the street culture, drugs, hustling, gangs. Nobody forces them to do that. Again, it is a personal decision. But the entertainment industry encourages the irresponsibility by marketing a gangsta culture: hip-hop moves, trashy TV shows to impressionable children. In fact, President Obama has welcomed some of the worst offenders in that cesspool to the White House when he should be condemning what these weasels are doing. These so-called entertainers get rich while the kids who emulate their lyrics and attitude destroy themselves.
Patriot

Evansville, IN

#55 Jul 23, 2013
And then there's the drug situation. Go to Detroit and ask any living on the south side of the 8 Mile Road what destroyed their city. They will tell you narcotics. They know addiction leads to crime and debasement. What do the race hustlers and limousine liberals yell about? The number of black men in prison for selling drugs.'Oh, it's so unfair! It's a non-violent crime. And blacks are targeted!' That is one of the biggest lies in the history of this country!

The thugs who sell drugs, no matter what color they are, deserve to be put away for long periods of time. They sell poison, they sell a product that enslaves and kills. They are scum. When was the last time you heard the Congressional Black Caucus say that? How about Jackson and Sharpton? How about President Obama?

The solution to the epidemic of violent crime in poor, black neighborhoods is to actively discourage pregnancies out of marriage, to impose strict discipline in the public schools, including mandatory student uniforms, and to create a zero tolerance policy for gun and drug crimes imposing harsh mandatory prison time on the offenders. And finally, challenging the entertainment industry to stop peddling garbage. Hey listen up you greed-heads: if a kid can't speak proper English, uses the f-word in every sentence, is disrespectful in his or her manner, that child will never, never, be able to compete in the marketplace of America, never. And it has nothing to do with slavery. It has everything to do with you Hollywood people and you derelict parents. You're the ones hurting these vulnerable children.

You want a conversation? You got it. You want a better situation for blacks? Give them a chance to revive their neighborhoods and culture. Work with the good people to stop the bad people. Pumping money into the chaos does little. You can't legislate good parenting or responsible entertainment but you can fight against the madness with discipline, a firm message, and little tolerance for excuse-making.

It is now time for the African American leadership, including President Obama, to stop the nonsense. Walk away from the world of victimization and grievance. And lead the way out of this mess.
Fshultz

United States

#57 Jul 23, 2013
I was thrown into fatherhood at the age of 21. Being a careless young man. I made bad decisions and liked to party. But as soon as I held my baby girl in my arms my life changed for the better. I made the conscience choice to put aside my partying ways and focus on a career and stable life for my family. Now I make fantastic money and have a great career and stable home for my child whom will be 8. I could have made the choice to keep doing what I was doing. I mean It was very fun. I know plenty of boys in my same situation who didn't take the correct path. Some just don't want to grow up, I know I didn't. The moral of the story is, it doesn't matter where you come from or how you were raised or the color of your skin, it's you as an individual and how you accept the responsibility of being a parent. There is no way in hell I could live with myself knowing I had a child out there not knowing if it was safe of properly cared for. Men just need to grow up and be a real man. It takes two to raise a child. And there is NOTHING more important than caring for your child.
ddp

United States

#58 Jul 23, 2013
For shizzle
laaaame

Evansville, IN

#59 Jul 23, 2013
Im mixed and my dad is black. He has three kids and has always been a horrible father..
Black

Indianapolis, IN

#60 Jul 23, 2013
I know many of white males that don't wanta be fathers to they kids. Dont pay them child support or nutin.
lol

United States

#61 Jul 23, 2013
Michael Jordan should make condoms that will fix the epidemic...
patriotisabigot

Evansville, IN

#62 Jul 23, 2013
Patriot wrote:
Bill O'Reilly nailed it the other night.
BILL O'REILLY: President Obama and the race problem, that is the subject of this evening's "Talking Points Memo."
On Friday, the president delivered surprise remarks to the press about the Trayvon Martin case and race in general. His main point? A plea for understanding.
BARACK OBAMA: There are very few African American men in this country who have not had the experience of being followed when they were shopping in a department store. That includes me.[video cut] I don't want to exaggerate this but those sets of experiences inform how the African American community interprets what happened one night in Florida.
O'REILLY: And that's true. Many black Americans harbor at least some resentment for past injuries. But what President Obama surely knows is that you cannot reach a fair criminal verdict or design effective public policy that solves present problems by dwelling on the sins of the past.
"Talking Points" believes the president was correct in addressing the race issue and framing it with the Martin case. He's the leader of America and the country's talking about this.
By the way, when you hear a pundit or a politician say we should have a quote conversation about race, that means you're in for a sea of bloviating that will likely lead nowhere.
The sad truth is that, from the president on down, our leadership has no clue, no clue at all, about how to solve problems within the black community. And many are frightened to even broach the issue. That's because race hustlers and the grievance industry have intimidated the so-called conversation, turning any valid criticism of African-American culture into charges of racial bias.
this just validates your racism
Patriot

Evansville, IN

#63 Jul 23, 2013
patriotisabigot wrote:
<quoted text>this just validates your racism
What is racist about it?

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