my friend was mad at me

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sadness

Evansville, IN

#1 May 1, 2013
They called me a stalker but now they are talking to me again a little weird considering what they called me but we have been friends for too long for it to have ended there lol what do I do now we were real close then I want us to be close again what can I do that with head us in that direction
Reply

Evansville, IN

#2 May 1, 2013
There's a root issue here. Be it jealousy, a trust issue maybe, or you've done something very wrong to this person and you are in a real life game of "befriend you again and by ur own willingness to repair your friendship it could turn on you and uglier than "stalker" but befriending them again without a full out announcement to all they told your a stalker AND RECANT you are not.

Doubtful they'll take the time to explain to others that your great and not a stalker at all. But seeds already there .... Lets say they told everyone.
You buddy up and walk around with your "friends".
Can we say tag a long-3rd wheel-stalker.........? Cause everyone they told that to now sees u with them.

And they have no clue but see u as pathetic by no fault of your own.

Friends don't say malicious things about your person.
Everyone has issues, its how u get through them.

I'd say if a issue caused them to be so loosely lipped on throwing names like "stalker"
DROP THEM
AND NEVER LOOK BACK

I would not give them the time of day if they thought or said such a thing to me.
sadness wrote:
They called me a stalker but now they are talking to me again a little weird considering what they called me but we have been friends for too long for it to have ended there lol what do I do now we were real close then I want us to be close again what can I do that with head us in that direction
candid

Owensboro, KY

#3 May 1, 2013
somethings up just dump em
sadness

Evansville, IN

#4 May 2, 2013
The big problem about this that I left out is that I love them fully in love with them and they know it cause I told them I know they feel the same cause they told me out of random that is I quote " I don't know how much longer I can go without you" ending with oh well a chuckle but the last part he said I can tell by the look on his face he didn't me. I think that the reason he is talking to me is because he feels sad when I'm upset I don't think he likes seeing me upset. He yelled at me one time and hurt my feeling really bad and I cried it really hurt after it happened but he apologized for it. I care so much about I love seeing him. But I don't go over board to the point it is stalking he said that cause he saw me one day out of the week more that 3 times that day and I'm a stalker oh wow he has seen me more than that in a the weeks passed so I'm lost you like me on minute and then pissed at me the next man he always sends me on a roller coster ride every time
sadness

Evansville, IN

#5 May 2, 2013
Reply wrote:
<quoted text>There's a root issue here. Be it jealousy, a trust issue maybe, or you've done something very wrong to this person and you are in a real life game of "befriend you again and by ur own willingness to repair your friendship it could turn on you and uglier than "stalker" but befriending them again without a full out announcement to all they told your a stalker AND RECANT you are not.

Doubtful they'll take the time to explain to others that your great and not a stalker at all. But seeds already there .... Lets say they told everyone.
You buddy up and walk around with your "friends".
Can we say tag a long-3rd wheel-stalker.........? Cause everyone they told that to now sees u with them.

And they have no clue but see u as pathetic by no fault of your own.

Friends don't say malicious things about your person.
Everyone has issues, its how u get through them.

I'd say if a issue caused them to be so loosely lipped on throwing names like "stalker"
DROP THEM
AND NEVER LOOK BACK

I would not give them the time of day if they thought or said such a thing to me.
What I am trying to get is y he is trying to hide how he really feels about me
purdy

United States

#6 May 2, 2013
Sorry to say it, but I don't think he's hiding anything. He may have a marginal concern for your feelings, but it's more that he doesn't want to feel guilty for being the one who hurt your feelings as opposed to not wanting you to be sad. You'd be better off forgetting about him and moving on. He's really not worth your time at all.
sadness

Evansville, IN

#7 May 2, 2013
He cares I know and it is me the one he wants there is a way I love him enough to try
purdy

United States

#8 May 3, 2013
Ok. Well, good luck.
muah

Princeton, IN

#9 May 3, 2013
It sounds like you have the problem sadness. You just need to move on and find other friends.
Loser

Terre Haute, IN

#10 May 3, 2013
To head in good direction you would just have to give him a good head.
sadness

United States

#11 May 17, 2013
He is fine now we talk and everything now so it I guess just took a week
sadness

United States

#12 May 17, 2013
He apologized too he said he was having a bad day that day so I guess but that was weird we are to close for it to end that way anyway I hand wrote home a poem nod I guess it worked

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