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ConfusedHeart

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Mar 12, 2013
 
So my recent ex and I had been together for 2 1/2 years, I recently found out that she cheated on me. We have been through so much in the past and we made it through it. She stepped up and helped me take care of my kids, when we were good we were great! I just have no idea what to do. She has cheated on me in the past and i moved on from it, but I'm having such a hard time deciding what I really want now because I'm so scared to be hurt again. Should I forgive her and take her back, or say Eff you B and tell her to kick rocks??!!
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Mar 12, 2013
 
ConfusedHeart wrote:
So my recent ex and I had been together for 2 1/2 years, I recently found out that she cheated on me. We have been through so much in the past and we made it through it. She stepped up and helped me take care of my kids, when we were good we were great! I just have no idea what to do. She has cheated on me in the past and i moved on from it, but I'm having such a hard time deciding what I really want now because I'm so scared to be hurt again. Should I forgive her and take her back, or say Eff you B and tell her to kick rocks??!!
once a cheater always a cheater don't let her play mind games with you trust me your only going hurt yourself by getting back with her trust me on this if she actually loved you and cared about your kids she wouldn't have cheated move on fast and don't let her talk get to your mind that's her game to play you if you give her another chance she knows she got you by the balls dump her find someone who loves you. You seem you could find alot better
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Mar 12, 2013
 
ConfusedHeart wrote:
So my recent ex and I had been together for 2 1/2 years, I recently found out that she cheated on me. We have been through so much in the past and we made it through it. She stepped up and helped me take care of my kids, when we were good we were great! I just have no idea what to do. She has cheated on me in the past and i moved on from it, but I'm having such a hard time deciding what I really want now because I'm so scared to be hurt again. Should I forgive her and take her back, or say Eff you B and tell her to kick rocks??!!
Seriously, try some couples counseling. Communication is so important so both of u get needs met. If u love her then its more than worth the effort and whatever lengths... Trust me I know personally how it feels to be in this situation, but as a female, and we love attention and flattery, to feel desirable and wanted and needed. Make sure u meet her needs but communicate yours to her as well. Does she realize yet what it's like to not have u n her life? She may realize if u two seperate that u r the one for her and she can come back and make it work. Absence makes heart grow fond
cheat no more

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Mar 13, 2013
 
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Relationship Advice: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
By Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. on May 4, 2009 - 1:29pm
So you've been cheated on. It was devastating--like being kicked in the gut and thrown into the gutter. You couldn't eat or function at work. Or maybe you were up all night watching old movies, crying and eating pints of Ben & Jerry's. The affair creates such heartache and pain that you do not want to be in a relationship again. Definitely never again.
The questions loom large. Is the cheater going to cheat again? Should you trust again or not? Is it true, "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? You may feel torn, like you want to take your cheating partner back but feel like it is a point of pride not to. You think, maybe you should just dive into that online dating pool, start looking for some great profiles and forget all about it. Or maybe not.
Well, I have some critical relationship advice for you: Research studies show that even among married couples, cheating is relatively common: about 22% of men and 13% of women cheat. According to recent studies, even spouses who describe themselves as "happy" with their marriage have affairs.
But the good news is this: Many people who are in committed relationships that have decent chemistry and benefits for both partners can actually work through the crisis of affairs. Not only that, their relationship can become more intimate and they can put an end to cheating once and for all. This means that, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is just not true. There are people who learn and grow from the painful emotional hurricane and the loss of closeness in the relationship that are the aftermaths of cheating.
Of course there are players or sex addicts that will cheat and cheat and cheat again. These are the ones your truly have to watch out for. How do you tell if you are dealing with a chronic cheater? Here are five signs of relationship advice that indicate your cheater is not a chronic case and that the couple still has hope:
1. Your partner is truly remorseful and regrets having cheated. Look for heartfelt apologies that ring true when you hear them.
2. Your partner cuts off contact with his or her lover.
3. The cheater shows a renewed appreciation and devotion towards you.
4. You wind up having deep, open and honest conversations with each other about your relationship, what was missing in it and where you'd like to take it in the future.
5. Your partner wants to enter psychotherapy or counseling either individually or with you to understand his/her own dynamics and to make your relationship better and more intimate.

If the cheater shows these signs and the relationship is good for you in many ways, consider taking your partner back. One caveat: If your partner continues the affair or starts a new one, in spite of showing the above signs, you may be dealing with a player or a sex addict.
And just how do you know if the cheating is going on again? Here are some common signs:

• he/she's working late a lot
• he/she's's suddenly taking trips you can't go on
• he/she's got new hobbies that don't include you
• mysterious phone calls with hang-ups
• credit card bills for unexplained hotel stays or gift-type items
• less sex
• he/she's more distant, angry or picky

If you find out your partner is cheating again, it's time to protect yourself from any further heartbreak by breaking up with this person. There are wonderful new matches waiting to date right there on your computer screen!
In sum, if your partner strays, it doesn't absolutely mean he or she will do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater isn't necessarily true. Forgiveness and a new coming together are possible. If you have been betrayed but want to see if it can work, just stay heads up for a while and see which way the train is heading!



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Mar 13, 2013
 
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Relationship Advice: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
By Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. on May 4, 2009 - 1:29pm
So you've been cheated on. It was devastating--like being kicked in the gut and thrown into the gutter. You couldn't eat or function at work. Or maybe you were up all night watching old movies, crying and eating pints of Ben & Jerry's. The affair creates such heartache and pain that you do not want to be in a relationship again. Definitely never again.
The questions loom large. Is the cheater going to cheat again? Should you trust again or not? Is it true, "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? You may feel torn, like you want to take your cheating partner back but feel like it is a point of pride not to. You think, maybe you should just dive into that online dating pool, start looking for some great profiles and forget all about it. Or maybe not.
Well, I have some critical relationship advice for you: Research studies show that even among married couples, cheating is relatively common: about 22% of men and 13% of women cheat. According to recent studies, even spouses who describe themselves as "happy" with their marriage have affairs.
But the good news is this: Many people who are in committed relationships that have decent chemistry and benefits for both partners can actually work through the crisis of affairs. Not only that, their relationship can become more intimate and they can put an end to cheating once and for all. This means that, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is just not true. There are people who learn and grow from the painful emotional hurricane and the loss of closeness in the relationship that are the aftermaths of cheating.
Of course there are players or sex addicts that will cheat and cheat and cheat again. These are the ones your truly have to watch out for. How do you tell if you are dealing with a chronic cheater? Here are five signs of relationship advice that indicate your cheater is not a chronic case and that the couple still has hope:
1. Your partner is truly remorseful and regrets having cheated. Look for heartfelt apologies that ring true when you hear them.
2. Your partner cuts off contact with his or her lover.
3. The cheater shows a renewed appreciation and devotion towards you.
4. You wind up having deep, open and honest conversations with each other about your relationship, what was missing in it and where you'd like to take it in the future.
5. Your partner wants to enter psychotherapy or counseling either individually or with you to understand his/her own dynamics and to make your relationship better and more intimate.

If the cheater shows these signs and the relationship is good for you in many ways, consider taking your partner back. One caveat: If your partner continues the affair or starts a new one, in spite of showing the above signs, you may be dealing with a player or a sex addict.
And just how do you know if the cheating is going on again? Here are some common signs:

• he/she's working late a lot
• he/she's's suddenly taking trips you can't go on
• he/she's got new hobbies that don't include you
• mysterious phone calls with hang-ups
• credit card bills for unexplained hotel stays or gift-type items
• less sex
• he/she's more distant, angry or picky

If you find out your partner is cheating again, it's time to protect yourself from any further heartbreak by breaking up with this person. There are wonderful new matches waiting to date right there on your computer screen!
In sum, if your partner strays, it doesn't absolutely mean he or she will do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater isn't necessarily true. Forgiveness and a new coming together are possible. If you have been betrayed but want to see if it can work, just stay heads up for a while and see which way the train is heading!

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The Ex

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Mar 13, 2013
 
Yes i know what its like to have her not in my life. Why you would post a topix about pur relationship is beyond me Rachel but either way, yeah i fucked up and yeah i love her, i have offered to do anything and everything to fix this. Guess its your call love.
ConfusedHeart

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Mar 13, 2013
 
Because I have NO idea what to do! I'm so lost and hurt! I just needed advice from some outside sources!
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Because I have NO idea what to do! I'm so lost and hurt! I just needed advice from some outside sources!
I'm telling you let her go if you get back with her shes going to just use you until she finds a guy that she thinks is better than you when you leave a cheater they know they can't take control over you
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Apr 12, 2013
 
u guys need to grow up! give me a break
Ollie

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Apr 12, 2013
 
cheat no more wrote:
Find:
TopicsRelationships
Relationship Advice: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
By Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. on May 4, 2009 - 1:29pm
So you've been cheated on. It was devastating--like being kicked in the gut and thrown into the gutter. You couldn't eat or function at work. Or maybe you were up all night watching old movies, crying and eating pints of Ben & Jerry's. The affair creates such heartache and pain that you do not want to be in a relationship again. Definitely never again.
The questions loom large. Is the cheater going to cheat again? Should you trust again or not? Is it true, "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? You may feel torn, like you want to take your cheating partner back but feel like it is a point of pride not to. You think, maybe you should just dive into that online dating pool, start looking for some great profiles and forget all about it. Or maybe not.
Well, I have some critical relationship advice for you: Research studies show that even among married couples, cheating is relatively common: about 22% of men and 13% of women cheat. According to recent studies, even spouses who describe themselves as "happy" with their marriage have affairs.
But the good news is this: Many people who are in committed relationships that have decent chemistry and benefits for both partners can actually work through the crisis of affairs. Not only that, their relationship can become more intimate and they can put an end to cheating once and for all. This means that, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is just not true. There are people who learn and grow from the painful emotional hurricane and the loss of closeness in the relationship that are the aftermaths of cheating.
Of course there are players or sex addicts that will cheat and cheat and cheat again. These are the ones your truly have to watch out for. How do you tell if you are dealing with a chronic cheater? Here are five signs of relationship advice that indicate your cheater is not a chronic case and that the couple still has hope:
1. Your partner is truly remorseful and regrets having cheated. Look for heartfelt apologies that ring true when you hear them.
2. Your partner cuts off contact with his or her lover.
3. The cheater shows a renewed appreciation and devotion towards you.
4. You wind up having deep, open and honest conversations with each other about your relationship, what was missing in it and where you'd like to take it in the future.
5. Your partner wants to enter psychotherapy or counseling either individually or with you to understand his/her own dynamics and to make your relationship better and more intimate.
If the cheater shows these signs and the relationship is good for you in many ways, consider taking your partner back. One caveat: If your partner continues the affair or starts a new one, in spite of showing the above signs, you may be dealing with a player or a sex addict.
And just how do you know if the cheating is going on again? Here are some common signs:
• he/she's working late a lot
• he/she's's suddenly taking trips you can't go on
• he/she's got new hobbies that don't include you
• mysterious phone calls with hang-ups
• credit card bills for unexplained hotel stays or gift-type items
• less sex
• he/she's more distant, angry or picky
If you find out your partner is cheating again, it's time to protect yourself from any further heartbreak by breaking up with this person. There are wonderful new matches waiting to date right there on your computer screen!
In sum, if your partner strays, it doesn't absolutely mean he or she will do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater isn't necessarily true. Forgiveness and a new coming together are possible. If you have been betrayed but want to see if it can work, just stay heads up for a while and see which way the train is heading!
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Trying to sell a book? Get out of here moron.
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Apr 12, 2013
 
Cheat on her back duh
anni

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A big thanks to DR.samoda, who brought back my ex girlfriend. My name is Harry Phillips, from Canada. Last year, August 26th 2012, I proposed to my ex girlfriend and she agreed to marry me then we both planned for the wedding. Our wedding was to hold September 30th. We had a little misunderstanding and she left me for another guy. I almost committed suicide; I never knew there was hope for me, a friend of mine would always advise me to be hopeful and that one day she will come back to me, Some times I will go to her house to beg her to come back to me because she really means a lot to me and I love her so much and she will ask me to leave her alone and I should never come to her house again. I found it really hard to fall in love with another girl, months passes by and I was waiting patiently for her to come back to me but in my heart I was still going through hell, there was a big hole in my heart.
One morning I received a call from my friend and he told me to come to his house immediately, I quickly put on my clothes and ran to his house because I felt he was in trouble, when I got to hes house, I met him on his computer system and I ask him what the problem was, he said when he was browsing through the internet, he came across some testimonies on how a spell caster brought someones ex husband back. I was angry with him because he frightened me and now hes telling about spell caster. I told him to forget about the matter because I never believed in spell casters, he asked me if I really want my ex girlfriend to come back to me and I said yes so he said I should give it a try because if you really need something that is very important to your life, then you go for it. I agreed to what he said and I took the spell casters email address and I emailed him, few minutes later he replied me and asked what can he do for me so I told him what I wanted and he asked me to do what ever he asked of me which I did. He told me not to worry that my ex girlfriend will come back crawling on her kneels asking for forgiveness as soon as he cast the spell so he cast the spell and the following day my ex girlfriend came back to me, right now I and my girlfriend are happy. This is the reason I decided to put it in writing so that anybody that is hopeless will find the reason to be hopeful. If you are in the same situation, DR.samoda is the right spell caster that will solve your problem, hes not a scammer. You can email him on: samodaspellhome@gmail.COM try and see what he can do!
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Apr 23, 2013
 
How many times has she cheated? How long did it go on? Your leaving out a lot of info.
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Apr 23, 2013
 
anni wrote:
A big thanks to DR.samoda, who brought back my ex girlfriend. My name is Harry Phillips, from Canada. Last year, August 26th 2012, I proposed to my ex girlfriend and she agreed to marry me then we both planned for the wedding. Our wedding was to hold September 30th. We had a little misunderstanding and she left me for another guy. I almost committed suicide; I never knew there was hope for me, a friend of mine would always advise me to be hopeful and that one day she will come back to me, Some times I will go to her house to beg her to come back to me because she really means a lot to me and I love her so much and she will ask me to leave her alone and I should never come to her house again. I found it really hard to fall in love with another girl, months passes by and I was waiting patiently for her to come back to me but in my heart I was still going through hell, there was a big hole in my heart.
One morning I received a call from my friend and he told me to come to his house immediately, I quickly put on my clothes and ran to his house because I felt he was in trouble, when I got to he’s house, I met him on his computer system and I ask him what the problem was, he said when he was browsing through the internet, he came across some testimonies on how a spell caster brought someone’s ex husband back. I was angry with him because he frightened me and now he’s telling about spell caster. I told him to forget about the matter because I never believed in spell casters, he asked me if I really want my ex girlfriend to come back to me and I said yes so he said I should give it a try because if you really need something that is very important to your life, then you go for it. I agreed to what he said and I took the spell casters email address and I emailed him, few minutes later he replied me and asked what can he do for me so I told him what I wanted and he asked me to do what ever he asked of me which I did. He told me not to worry that my ex girlfriend will come back crawling on her kneels asking for forgiveness as soon as he cast the spell so he cast the spell and the following day my ex girlfriend came back to me, right now I and my girlfriend are happy. This is the reason I decided to put it in writing so that anybody that is hopeless will find the reason to be hopeful. If you are in the same situation, DR.samoda is the right spell caster that will solve your problem, he’s not a scammer. You can email him on: samodaspellhome@gmail.COM try and see what he can do!
What a crock of shyt
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May 1, 2013
 
Well I've liked this guy for awhile. But when we first met we were at the talking stage. This is 7 months later and he told me that we are just friends. Recently I went on his instgram and saw that he was messaging a girl. I conforted him about it. And he told thst I do the most all the time and that's why me and him are just friends. But recently we hung out and he was kissin me and laying with me. Like cuddling. I'm confused. Friends don't do that. I just want to make things right. But I don't know how. My friends tell me not to text him and wait for him to contact me. But it's hard. Coukd I get some advice please?

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