Happy w/ life = People hate on you for it
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#1 Feb 3, 2013
The older I get the more I shake my head and laugh when people throw shade at someone else for enjoying their life.
How can another person think they can determine what and who should be happy in life?
I notice specifically that women hate to see another woman have confidence. Some women can only seem to bond with each other if both are miserable. Let a woman start to feel and do better than the"she thinks she's all that" comments start.
Jesus be a bottle of self esteem.
#2 Feb 3, 2013
I guess some ppl take "blessed and highly favored" to a different level. Especially on today, Sunday. Cant explain but I'm just not a braggetory person. I know I'm blessed to have a job, car, food and such but I don't feel the need to talk or instagram/facebook about it for likes.
Ex: "Taking this flight to Miami (snaps pic of ticket, corridor, random foot, plane seat) truly blessed" 50 likes. Or "Getting gas, let us rejoice in the Lord for filling up my tank which is $60 (snaps pic of 3 20s, the gas pump number, the nozzle and so on)
Ppl tend to substitute "bless" for "impress". I find the ones who talk about being blessed on social network one minute talk about troubles and woes the next and how many fake ppl are in their lives.
#3 Feb 3, 2013
Misery loves company
#4 Feb 3, 2013
Very true! And if they can't find company, they hurt others to make them feel like they need company.
#5 Feb 3, 2013
I don't care for people who brag. Its tacky and untasteful. There are things I can brag about, but I don't. The satisfaction that I have is within. I don't need the validation from others because they don't matter. I will share with others how I faced obstacles and overcame them. I won't put my success in other people's face, but to show them that hey, you can do it too.
I have people like this in my family. My brother is humble, he doesn't brag nor is he flashy. Well he recently got married, received his bachelors and bought his house last year. His immediate family (my mother, younger brother and I) were thrilled and proud that he accomplished what he set out to do. My other family members weren't too happy about that (Didn't even attend his wedding).They have deep rooted envy for my brother and its sad. They are miserable people. People don't mind seeing you do good, they just hate to see you doing better than them.
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