Not sure how this has a single thing to do with what we are talking about.<quoted text>
don't try to live in a house like the biltmore estates, working as a cashier or ditch digger.
Living within your means has nothing to do with sympathy or empathy. If you fail to meet your obligations first then you deserve to have bad shit happen to you. And that includes placing necessities, over wants or desires, first. No one made those single moms and dads have kids. Time for them to pony up and tough it out.
I am pretty sure no one making minimum wage is living in a Biltmore sized home.
The conversation is, if you are making minimum wage and working forty hours a week, can you live on it? Are you saying one can but is just blowing his cash?
I know it is very hard for you to articulate.