How tacky! How tacky can you get to call someone out over money on Topix in this economy. I know times are tough but do you not have any dignity?
People make mistakes. People get in tight places in life and maybe she does not have the money to repay you. You should have thought about that before you made the loan.
I have lost a lot of money through loans and have had to forgive them but I make it a point to NEVER loan what I need and that way if the don't pay it back, I can make do with what I have.
If you don't have money to give, you don't have money to loan. It's your mistake, not hers. Go on and forget about it.