Have ya ever Cheated?
First Prev
of 3
Next Last
Thoughts and advice

Crossville, TN

#44 Mar 23, 2013
Heartbroken wrote:
I usually dont get on this site but I have to say I HAD the best GF a man could ever ask for. We were together for about 7 months and it was great for a while until we started fussing some and I started flirting around. I thought i wanted something different but lost this girl. I dated another girl for a while and talked to my x some and she didt date anyone for a while and I guess she gave up on us and moved on. I broke it off with the other girl because i cant get the other one off my mind. I do live her but noe she has another BF. I talked to her and wanted to hug her so bad but didnt cause shes with the other guy. She has been with him for awhile now. What can I do to get her back. ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRICATED
First question is when did you decide you wanted what you had before? Was she single at the time or did this new found interest in her come only after you realized she had moved on and was seeing someone else? If it was after the fact, chances are, what you're feeling is more of a "I don't want her but don't want anyone else to have her" sort of thing, rather than real love. If that is the case, you don't need her back. Even moreso, she don't need you. I'll tell you why. Because if what you're feeling is based on jealousy of her being with another man, soon as you realize you can have her back and expecially after you get her back....you'll lose interest and only end up hurting her again.

If you started feeling this way, like you wanted her back before the new guy came around, it *might* be a different story. But considering you wanted something else when you had her in the palm of your hand, I'm not convinced that you care much about her at all and almost certain she shares the same opinion. Either way, you need to think long and hard to be sure of what you're feeling and what you want out of life BEFORE you talk to her about anything. Then and only then, after a lot of soul searching, if you still feel the same, tell her the truth. Tell her how you feel. Explain the reasons why. Make your intentions clear and don't make promises you don't intend to keep. Be straight foward, be honest and be ready to prove yourself.

Dayton, TN

#45 Mar 23, 2013
Cardiff wrote:
Does goats count?
Buddy i've been around several goats and i've never seen one yet that could count.(hope this helps)

Crossville, TN

#46 Mar 23, 2013
Thank you "Thoughts and Advice"I was stupid to let her go. She was gone a lot in college and I just went for the flirting from the other girl. I knew after I lost the her I messed up. She didt date anyone for the first 3 or 4 months but she is with a guy now and seems happy. I do love her and miss her. I was hoping after I broke up with the one girl she would brake up with her BF and come back to me but she hasn't yet. I have texted her some and talked some not near as mush as I would Like to. All I can say she is one of a kind beautiful, classy, smart, honest everything any man would want. I don't expect the other Bf will let her go but I will be waiting if I can every get the chance again. Its been a year now and I still love her.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker
First Prev
of 3
Next Last

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Crossville Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
Do 60 and 70 year old people engage in oral s_... 2 min nasssty 41
Jeffery Steerman 2 min curious 1
Fight at r place in tansi last night 13 min yepa 30
It's confirmed. There are more MGTOW in Crossvi... 4 hr Bubba big dick 5
Looking to make a home made broke back mountin ... 4 hr Bubba big dick 3
People running NOT qualified 5 hr winner 28
No 2 Foster 6 hr Good Grief 43

Crossville Jobs

Personal Finance

Crossville Mortgages