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gimmi advice

Paris, TN

#1 Jan 31, 2010
Me and my 1st cousin have been having sex for the past 3 months. My boyfriend broke up with me right before thanksgiving. I was so depressed. during thanksgiving dinner my cousin started talking to me about it. and one thing lead to another and we had sex up in my grandmothers bed. Since then we've been having sex after school at home before our parents get home. we both graduate this year and we are planning on getting married. He makes me feel so special. no other guy has made me feel like this. I know it's probably wrong, but can't be that wrong, cause it's legal for us to get married. Am i wrong? Am i incest? thanks
well

Guangzhou, China

#2 Jan 31, 2010
gimmi advice wrote:
Me and my 1st cousin have been having sex for the past 3 months. My boyfriend broke up with me right before thanksgiving. I was so depressed. during thanksgiving dinner my cousin started talking to me about it. and one thing lead to another and we had sex up in my grandmothers bed. Since then we've been having sex after school at home before our parents get home. we both graduate this year and we are planning on getting married. He makes me feel so special. no other guy has made me feel like this. I know it's probably wrong, but can't be that wrong, cause it's legal for us to get married. Am i wrong? Am i incest? thanks
On a legal standpoint, no it isn't incest. Therefore you can't be charged with "Incest" if it is your 1st cousin. On a moral standpoint? It's sick.

Tenn. Code Ann. 39-15-302
well well

Cookeville, TN

#3 Jan 31, 2010
you already know sis why are you asking
Still Amused

Crossville, TN

#4 Jan 31, 2010
First of all, "incest" is not an adjective. Secondly, I'm not sure it IS legal for you to marry your 1st cousin in the state of Tennessee. Might want to look into that before you embarrass your whole family.
NO WAY

Crossville, TN

#5 Jan 31, 2010
MOST PEOPLE AROUYND HERE DO THIS SORT OF THING ALL THE TIME!.DONT WORRY ABOUT A THING.WHEN YOUR CHILDREN ARE BORN WITH OUT EYE LIDS OR 7 TOES AND HALF A FACE .IT WILL MAKE FOR A PRECIOUS FAMILY PORTRAIT !
Hilarious

Paris, TN

#6 Jan 31, 2010
LOL

This is completely normal. Just tell your mom and dad, they wont mind. you could even have a foursome!
what

United States

#7 Jan 31, 2010
it is not legal in tn to marry your first cousin but it is in ky if you wanna move there
Still Amused

Crossville, TN

#8 Jan 31, 2010
Don't mistake a "feel good" situation of convenience with actual romantic love. He was there for you during a difficult time. Fine, that's him being a good relative, but should not be justification for an intimate relationship.

If my mom was there for me when my dog died, that does not justify us engaging in a physical relationship. Besides the fact that you are still really young, choosing a relative out of the millions of OTHER choices in America should not be difficult, let alone impossible.

Stop the sex and see if that is the primary factor surrounding your "love." Hang out with kids outside of your family and you will eventually find a non-relative that will provide you with those same feelings, possibly even stronger ones. It sounds like your biggest problem is you're limiting your dating pool to convenience -- whoever is physically closest to you and will pay you some attention. That's, in my opinion, a big mistake.
still looking

Crossville, TN

#9 Jan 31, 2010
Still Amused wrote:
Don't mistake a "feel good" situation of convenience with actual romantic love. He was there for you during a difficult time. Fine, that's him being a good relative, but should not be justification for an intimate relationship.
If my mom was there for me when my dog died, that does not justify us engaging in a physical relationship. Besides the fact that you are still really young, choosing a relative out of the millions of OTHER choices in America should not be difficult, let alone impossible.
Stop the sex and see if that is the primary factor surrounding your "love." Hang out with kids outside of your family and you will eventually find a non-relative that will provide you with those same feelings, possibly even stronger ones. It sounds like your biggest problem is you're limiting your dating pool to convenience -- whoever is physically closest to you and will pay you some attention. That's, in my opinion, a big mistake.
are you running for best ansewer to yahoo ansewers or what?
well

Guangzhou, China

#10 Jan 31, 2010
Here, I posted the code, but I will post the definition for it. And YES it is legal to marry your 1st cousin. I wish people would stop talking nonsense when they don't have a clue (what).

39-15-302. Incest.





(a) A person commits incest who engages in sexual penetration as defined in 39-13-501, with a person, knowing the person to be, without regard to legitimacy:




(1) The person's natural parent, child, grandparent, grandchild, uncle, aunt, nephew, niece, stepparent, stepchild, adoptive parent, adoptive child; or




(2) The person's brother or sister of the whole or half-blood or by adoption.
weuns dont gives a crap

Crossville, TN

#11 Jan 31, 2010
weuns dont gives a crap shit bout no silly rules round heres you gets my point weuns cousins dont matur ur not if weuns luves um well marrun thum.youz thoughus wusn stupid pastun those states rgulashuns.i luvs her and werun getun hiched .go puck urself well.
WTFE

Manchester, TN

#12 Jan 31, 2010
gimmi advice wrote:
Me and my 1st cousin have been having sex for the past 3 months. My boyfriend broke up with me right before thanksgiving. I was so depressed. during thanksgiving dinner my cousin started talking to me about it. and one thing lead to another and we had sex up in my grandmothers bed. Since then we've been having sex after school at home before our parents get home. we both graduate this year and we are planning on getting married. He makes me feel so special. no other guy has made me feel like this. I know it's probably wrong, but can't be that wrong, cause it's legal for us to get married. Am i wrong? Am i incest? thanks
It is just wrong to be doing what you guys are doing period. if you get married and have children then I guarantee your kids are going to be stupid! I am not trying to sound mean I am just being honest with you. You asked for our opinion and I am giving it to you. And not to mention if you are still in high school and your boyfriend broke up with you and blah blah blah.... You are still a kid!! trust me you are going to have your heart broken and you are going to break someone else's heart live a little and enjoy life and stop screwing your cousin!!!! Ask your parents how they feel about it or even better your cousins parents. Life is too short to be screwing the family! And not to mention if you have kids what could possibly be wrong with them besides they will be stupid.
well

Beijing, China

#13 Jan 31, 2010
weuns dont gives a crap wrote:
weuns dont gives a crap shit bout no silly rules round heres you gets my point weuns cousins dont matur ur not if weuns luves um well marrun thum.youz thoughus wusn stupid pastun those states rgulashuns.i luvs her and werun getun hiched .go puck urself well.
Well considering the law doesn't prohibit cousins marrying/having sex, I guess your post is rather useless, huh?
whoknows

United States

#14 Jan 31, 2010
Odd that it is illegal for stepchild/stepparent but not blood related cousins!
OMG

Crossville, TN

#15 Jan 31, 2010
I cant even believe were having this disscussion!!
Dixon

Mcminnville, TN

#16 Jan 31, 2010
Its normal here in crossville. Hell everybody does it. they just dont talkabout it. Keep up the good work. We are all already inbred here in crossville so it really doesent matter.
FOO FOO

Mcminnville, TN

#17 Jan 31, 2010
I think you should be in love and say f**k the world. If you are both happy then you should feel blessed
listen to this

Crossville, TN

#18 Jan 31, 2010
only problem is, your kid's family tree ain't gonna have a fork in it........cousins make great lovers huh
joe camel

Knoxville, TN

#19 Jan 31, 2010
the more kin the deeper in

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#20 Jan 31, 2010
weuns dont gives a crap wrote:
weuns dont gives a crap shit bout no silly rules round heres you gets my point weuns cousins dont matur ur not if weuns luves um well marrun thum.youz thoughus wusn stupid pastun those states rgulashuns.i luvs her and werun getun hiched .go puck urself well.
Very good example of an "inbred poster" !!

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