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Starry

Crossville, TN

#1 Nov 10, 2012
I am sick of men whining about being single and unable to find what they call a "good woman" when there are plenty right in front of them.
Truth be known, they do not want a good woman. They want a cheating slut, with a million kids, on foodstamps, with a pain prescription she overdoses on and sells.
I am a good woman. Gainfully employed since age 14! I am now 41. I have no children, never been married, constantly told how beautiful I am, and yet not one single taker. I am asked constantly why I am single? WHyhaven't I married? I DON"T KNOW!! Ask the shitheads who dumped me!!
I gave sex anytime they wanted, cooked, cleaned, worked, paid MY OWN bills, never asked for a damn thing but their affection, respect, and to be taken out like they are PROUD to be seen with me.

If I sound bitter, I have a right to be. Angry? Damn straight. Disgusted? You have no idea.
just sayin

Asheboro, NC

#2 Nov 10, 2012
The truth is there are no "good men" left in Crossville. These men around here just want to use women and dump them.
Hilarious

Crossville, TN

#3 Nov 10, 2012
Starry wrote:
I am sick of men whining about being single and unable to find what they call a "good woman" when there are plenty right in front of them.
Truth be known, they do not want a good woman. They want a cheating slut, with a million kids, on foodstamps, with a pain prescription she overdoses on and sells.
I am a good woman. Gainfully employed since age 14! I am now 41. I have no children, never been married, constantly told how beautiful I am, and yet not one single taker. I am asked constantly why I am single? WHyhaven't I married? I DON"T KNOW!! Ask the shitheads who dumped me!!
I gave sex anytime they wanted, cooked, cleaned, worked, paid MY OWN bills, never asked for a damn thing but their affection, respect, and to be taken out like they are PROUD to be seen with me.
If I sound bitter, I have a right to be. Angry? Damn straight. Disgusted? You have no idea.
Do you have any idea how much you just contradicted yourself? lol You're tired of men complaining and bitching about being single and yet here you are....complaining and bitching about being single. Add to that you're negative outlook, your putting people you don't even know down and the fact that you seem quite full of yourself and there's no wonder there haven't been any "takers". lmao
Starry

Crossville, TN

#4 Nov 10, 2012
The point was to show that in as much as they deem themselves "good men", women can also deem themselves "good women".

But since we are talking quality characteristics. Let me describe myself to you. I am a giver, not a taker. I have to receive anything from any person I dated. Not a gift, not pleased in bed, not cooked for or taken out on a date of any kind, not shown affection in public, no offers of help of any kind. Yet they persued me. I am a giver, in hopes to receive a little bit back. I have ended all relationships after 3 mos time for that reason alone.
No leeches desired. So if that makes me full of myself, thank you. I will take the compliment.
single

Denver, NC

#5 Nov 10, 2012
What happens is men an women alike seem to meet an date people that doesn't workout. After a while you begin to wonder if your not better off alone. The older you get it seems harder to meet the right woman so you give up. They say you will find what your looking for when your not looking
Joe

Cookeville, TN

#6 Nov 10, 2012
Starry wrote:
I am sick of men whining about being single and unable to find what they call a "good woman" when there are plenty right in front of them.
Truth be known, they do not want a good woman. They want a cheating slut, with a million kids, on foodstamps, with a pain prescription she overdoses on and sells.
I am a good woman. Gainfully employed since age 14! I am now 41. I have no children, never been married, constantly told how beautiful I am, and yet not one single taker. I am asked constantly why I am single? WHyhaven't I married? I DON"T KNOW!! Ask the shitheads who dumped me!!
I gave sex anytime they wanted, cooked, cleaned, worked, paid MY OWN bills, never asked for a damn thing but their affection, respect, and to be taken out like they are PROUD to be seen with me.
If I sound bitter, I have a right to be. Angry? Damn straight. Disgusted? You have no idea.
I would Love to meet you. To prove some good single guys are still around!
ditto

Crossville, TN

#7 Nov 10, 2012
I am right there with ya! I have No kids, pay my own bills, And I am not hooked on drugs! Been here 3yrs. and have yet to met anyone! I sometimes concider myself lucky, and then there are days where i would like a lil companionship to watch a football game or go to dinner etc.., But like someone said it will happen when are not looking for it! I Am Hoping any way! I am not bitter, more content but lonley and with the holidays.I Just hope all works out for us good girls soon! maybe we should have a good girl club., and go out when we are feeling low or just want a girls night out? Who Knows we just might not be looking! LoL!

“Logic over sensationalism”

Since: Jul 12

Crossville, TN

#8 Nov 10, 2012
I can see where you are coming from there Starry. It is good to see a point of view from the other side (sorry that it has to come from such negativity). I stopped dating a couple years ago, due to similar reasons that you posted. I do have a question for you: What kind of men did you date? You say they never did anything for you, thus you ended it after 3 months. Have you not had any male friends over the course of your adult life that treated you well that you thought about pursuing yourself? I'm curious to hear your side of this.
Starry

Crossville, TN

#9 Nov 10, 2012
Sadly no. I have tried. I get the "you're sweet, thank you, but i dont like you that way."

My male friends are taken in one way or another. They are sweet, but otherwise occupied.
Starry

Crossville, TN

#10 Nov 10, 2012
I should add that I have never received flowers candy or a card of any kind, and would most likely not know how to react if any of these things were given to me.

Probably pass out from shock or think it was a cruel joke... that is how deprived I am.

All you men complaining about your women bleeding u dry, and here I am not knowing what it feels like to be given anything but grief by someone I grew to love in hopes they would deem me worthy of even a tiny little piece of gum.

To all you gold digging hussies: Thanks for ruining it for women like me!
Oh Lawd

Crossville, TN

#11 Nov 10, 2012
Starry wrote:
I should add that I have never received flowers candy or a card of any kind, and would most likely not know how to react if any of these things were given to me.
Probably pass out from shock or think it was a cruel joke... that is how deprived I am.
All you men complaining about your women bleeding u dry, and here I am not knowing what it feels like to be given anything but grief by someone I grew to love in hopes they would deem me worthy of even a tiny little piece of gum.
To all you gold digging hussies: Thanks for ruining it for women like me!
Honey I can tell you right now, "golddiggers" are not the problem, YOU are. "Hilarious" hit the nail on the head. You contradict yourself in almost everything you post. Here you are blaming "gold digging hussies" for your inability to find a man but your last post was nothing but you whining about how you've never been given this, never got that, never had a man to do anything for you, etc.

Come on now, admit it... You're just jealous and mad as hell that you can't seem to dig as well as others, right? LMAO Quit hatin and blaming other people for your own unhappiness. If you want a good man, get your lame ass off Topix, get out there and FIND ONE. Seriously girl, what do you expect? That some Prince Charming is going to come on here and sweep you off your feet??? LOL

Since: Oct 12

Crossville, TN

#12 Nov 10, 2012
I don't understand why these people that are looking for love spend so much of their time on here complaining that they're still single and unable to find Mr./Ms. Right. Would your time not be better spent (if making a connection is your real intention with these threads) on a dating site such as Zoosk, Match.com , Craigslist or something of the sort?
ditto

Crossville, TN

#13 Nov 10, 2012
Smoker Joe wrote:
I don't understand why these people that are looking for love spend so much of their time on here complaining that they're still single and unable to find Mr./Ms. Right. Would your time not be better spent (if making a connection is your real intention with these threads) on a dating site such as Zoosk, Match.com , Craigslist or something of the sort?
I think the best thing to do is go out have some good ole fun and you will meet someone! I go out there at least and just enjoy life! If a guy see's you all down in the dumps becouse you have never got a piece of gum, they can look at you and say wow dont want to go there becouse she would just be miserable! no one wants that! If you give up on your self no one else is gonna believe in you either!Pick your self up and just be happy! I have been single for 5 yrs now. sometimes it is lonley but i met new people and have fun! there i have made a new friend!! male or female!! Life is to short!
seetherfan

Crossville, TN

#14 Nov 10, 2012
ditto wrote:
<quoted text> I think the best thing to do is go out have some good ole fun and you will meet someone! I go out there at least and just enjoy life! If a guy see's you all down in the dumps becouse you have never got a piece of gum, they can look at you and say wow dont want to go there becouse she would just be miserable! no one wants that! If you give up on your self no one else is gonna believe in you either!Pick your self up and just be happy! I have been single for 5 yrs now. sometimes it is lonley but i met new people and have fun! there i have made a new friend!! male or female!! Life is to short!
I agree with you, life is to short to be miserable. I feel along the same lines as you do that companionship would be nice because it does get lonely from time to time. Being single is not the worst thing in life though. Their are things to do and people to meet and who wants to meet a miserable person. I have learned that the hard way because we women came make a man just as miserable as he can us and I'm saying that to be fair. Something good can be sabotaged just holding onto past experiences. I don't expect and won't ask any guy to give me anything. I want it to be of his own will and from the heart just like it is from me or I don't want it at all. I agree it can be hard to find a good guy but I have met a few just like I have met some bad ones. You can never give up on yourself or the possibility of what may come into your life. Like the saying goes, when one door closes another one opens.

Since: Oct 12

Crossville, TN

#15 Nov 10, 2012
ditto wrote:
<quoted text> I think the best thing to do is go out have some good ole fun and you will meet someone! I go out there at least and just enjoy life! If a guy see's you all down in the dumps becouse you have never got a piece of gum, they can look at you and say wow dont want to go there becouse she would just be miserable! no one wants that! If you give up on your self no one else is gonna believe in you either!Pick your self up and just be happy! I have been single for 5 yrs now. sometimes it is lonley but i met new people and have fun! there i have made a new friend!! male or female!! Life is to short!
Agreed and well said by the way.
Irving

Pulaski, TN

#16 Nov 10, 2012
Starry wrote:
I have no children, never been married, constantly told how beautiful I am, and yet not one single taker.
Obsessive devotion to the fast food industry took it's toll, babe?
Starry

Crossville, TN

#18 Nov 11, 2012
Meh. I'm not going to defend my choice of locale for venting. I don't need to.
I am not a topix addict. I am out every weekend and some week nights as I love live bands and dancing. Not a heavy drinker but I do enjoy my share of imbibing.
But as I said, I do have a FULL TIME 40+ hour a week job. It's called responsibility. If I choose to spend my BREAKS surfing internet, THAT'S MY CHOICE.
Not one soul who commented here can point fingers about time spent on this site. After all, YOU READ THIS THREAD didn't you???
Now who's the topix junkie/hermit/whiner/etc.? Hmmm???
ohwow

Crossville, TN

#19 Nov 11, 2012
Lady you're single because of your negative attitude and bitterness. I'll bet men RUN to get away from you. You have no one to blame but yourself.
hmmm

Crossville, TN

#20 Nov 11, 2012
There are no good men in Crossville, just liars, cheaters and woman abusers. Never met one here yet that wasn't looking for a woman to take care of his sorry @ss.
Joe

Cookeville, TN

#21 Nov 11, 2012
hmmm wrote:
There are no good men in Crossville, just liars, cheaters and woman abusers. Never met one here yet that wasn't looking for a woman to take care of his sorry @ss.
Not true, I can promise we are here, drug free hard working women pleasers just looking for Love!

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