Mother of Three

Crossville, TN

#1 Oct 26, 2012
I have seen threads on here before where a mother has had a baby with a man and he ditches them then goes and gets with another woman. The new woman not only acts like it's ok and stays with him knowing he has abandoned his own child but she ends up letting him get her pregnant also. When I read those threads, I thought to myself surely a grown woman would know better than to condone such horrible behavior and especially to not get pregnant by the dead beat herself. Wrong wrong wrong because it has happened to me. My husband and I just had our last baby not even three months ago. I recently found out he had been having an affair for over a year. He left me, moved in with her and since the day he left I haven't heard one word from him nor has he managed to send a [email protected] dollar to help take care of our three children. I work and if need be I can support them without his help. What really gets me is that he won't even call to check on them or answer the phone when our two oldest calls to talk to him. He has completely ignored not only me, but them as well ever since he left and she knows this because I confronted her a month and a half in and told her what I thought of both of them. I just found out yesterday that she is effin pregnant with (supposedly) his child.

I won't put there names on here but I need to vent this out before I blow my effin top! I just don't understand how a man could up and walk away from his family, from his children and seem to have no guilt or concern for them at all. I really don't get how a grown woman could purposely bust up a marriage, know that a man has abandoned the children he already had but somehow think it's a good idea to let him get her pregnant to top it off. Do these women not realize that if the man had no problem doing his wife that way and doing his own children like that, then he'll have no problem doing the same to her and whatever children they bring into this world? Not only is it wrong of both of them, but it's just plain stupid. I'm angry as all get out with both of them but the bigger issue and what bothers me the most is the children. And yes, I mean all of them, not just the three I have with this man. I have no doubt, in time he'll do her the same way he's done me and there will be yet another child crying, hurting and wanting his or her daddy and he'll be nowhere to be found. It's sickening!

Cookeville, TN

#2 Oct 26, 2012
That "other" woman probably got pregnant ON PURPOSE, and certainly planned to get your man from the get go & did not give a flip about your precious children. He will come to his senses one of these days and realize what he is missing out on. Pitiful. Keep Strong and enjoy every minute with your family. You be the Example they need, not an immature,selfish coward.
The Original Counselor

Pulaski, TN

#3 Oct 26, 2012
You sure can pick 'em, lady.

And extra points for airing your dirty laundry on Booger Wonderland (assuming that this is legit to begin with).

Crossville, TN

#4 Oct 26, 2012
Why don't you just do what any other single mom around here that's in your shoes would do. Just dump the kids off at your parents or your ex husband's parents house and head to the bar for an all nighter. Then be like, now this is living.

Sparta, TN

#5 Oct 27, 2012
Good luck. And if you can prove he committed aduldtery you can sue him for divorce and he'll have to pay for it. Get a good attorney. My guess is you'd take him back in a heartbeat if not out of love than atleast out of spite towards the other woman. Don't play the games. Move on and try to find the best solution for you and your children.

Crossville, TN

#6 Oct 27, 2012
As a friend of mine said when her hubby left her and their 3 kids for an 18 y/o (he was 38) "Trash is trash, no matter how much glitter you put on it"
Cut your losses, sue the sh!te out of him for child support, alimony, palimony, and any other "mony" plus everything he owns...
Some of the best divorce attorneys in crossville are Brett York, Kevin Bryant, and Randal & Teresa Boston
Good Luck and Happy Hunting!

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