Heckers officially split. Now, the mo...

Heckers officially split. Now, the money.

There are 32 comments on the TwinCities.com story from Dec 18, 2009, titled Heckers officially split. Now, the money.. In it, TwinCities.com reports that:

The marriage may be over, but Denny Hecker and his latest ex-wife still have plenty of battles ahead.

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JohnJ

Champlin, MN

#1 Dec 18, 2009
Hecker Hecker Hecker sooooooooooooo stupid/greedy! But he did have some fun!
Mitch Cumstein

Chatfield, MN

#6 Dec 19, 2009
where can I find a picture of Christi Rowen???
I hear she is H-O-T!!!!
Bah Humbug

Minneapolis, MN

#7 Dec 19, 2009
Denny could do commercials for batteries. This story keeps going and going and going-just like the Energizer Bunny.
Jerry Lundegaard

Inver Grove Heights, MN

#13 Dec 19, 2009
"Quam said in his order that he was taking the unusual step of dissolving the marriage before all issues are resolved so their two children, ages 8 and 14, can start the healing process."

BULL SIHT!

Since: May 09

Mounds Park, St Paul

#14 Dec 19, 2009
Jerry Lundegaard wrote:
"Quam said in his order that he was taking the unusual step of dissolving the marriage before all issues are resolved so their two children, ages 8 and 14, can start the healing process."
BULL SIHT!
Got that lot count done yet?

All joshin' aside, Jerr, this trial reeks. I thought children had to be legal adults, or emancipated, or all financial issues resolved before a divorce decree could take place. Is Quam setting precedence? What is going on?? On one of the other threads, all sorts of strange bloghead supporters of Denny and Tamitha are posting craziness.

Weirder and weirder ...
Jerry Lundegaard

Inver Grove Heights, MN

#15 Dec 19, 2009
Margie Gunderson wrote:
<quoted text>
Got that lot count done yet?
All joshin' aside, Jerr, this trial reeks. I thought children had to be legal adults, or emancipated, or all financial issues resolved before a divorce decree could take place. Is Quam setting precedence? What is going on?? On one of the other threads, all sorts of strange bloghead supporters of Denny and Tamitha are posting craziness.
Weirder and weirder ...
Yah, that's a good one.....(^_^)
JL
cheechee

Merrill, WI

#16 Dec 19, 2009
get the blow
Boo Hoo

Minneapolis, MN

#17 Dec 19, 2009
Cry me a river
GopherNational

Saint Paul, MN

#18 Dec 19, 2009
Money? What money? What's she going to do, assume half of Hecker's massive debt?
monroe

Minneapolis, MN

#19 Dec 19, 2009
Maybe she should get the metal detector out and start checking the back yards. Dennis is sneaky enough to have buried some cash.
Hecker fans

Crosslake, MN

#20 Dec 19, 2009
Lets hear it from the Hecker fans. There are fewer and fewer as time goes on. Once in a while denny himself will blog, we can tell because of the bad spelling and grammer. How can someone that sounds so stupid, or stoopid as denny would spell it, fool so many people for so long. Come on Hecker fans, lets hear it.

Denny, how about a few threats against your enemies. As denny would say, I am going to huff and puff and blow your house down.
barney

AOL

#21 Dec 19, 2009
oh shucks, business and personal, personal and business.
Love Birds part one

Asheboro, NC

#22 Dec 20, 2009
Here is a email from Chiste to Denny over a year ago when the crap hit the fan. Sounds like Christe the love of Hecker's life was trying to make the denster feel better
Little does she know he did not even bother reading the email. This email is public record as is other emails between the lovebirds during the time the denster was trying to convince his current wife to change the pre-nup. The denster was planning a whole nother life with Christe all the while he was deceiving wife number 4 concerning their financial status. Read the bottom where hecker says "Wow"

----Original Message----
From: [email protected]
Date. Tue, 25 Nov 2008 00:26:58
To: Dennis Hecker<[email protected] blackberrv.net>; Denny hecker aol<[email protected]>

A time comes in your life when you finally get it, when in the midst of all your fears and insanity, You will stop dead in
your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out. ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying and blaming
and struggling to hold on.
Then, like a child quieting down after a tantrum, you will blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through
new eyes. This is you awakening.
You realize it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change,. or for happiness, safety and security to
magically appear over the next horizon.
You realize that in the real world there aren't always fairy tale endings. and that any guarantee of happily ever after
must begin with you, and in the process a sense of peace and calm is born of acceptance.
You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who
or what you are and that's OK. They are entitled to their own views and you learn the importance of loving and
championing yourself and in the process a sense of new found confidence is born of self approval
You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you-or didn't do to you- and learn that the
only thing you can really count on is the unexpected.
You learn that people don't always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be
there for you and that everything isn't always about you,
So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself and in the process a sense of safety and security is
born of self reliance. You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to
overlook their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process a sense of peace and contentment are born of
forgiveness.
You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are
and what you reruly stand for.
You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you've
overgrown, or should never have bought 1nto to begin with.
You learn that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life as a
consumer looking for your next fix,
You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era, but the mortar that
holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.
You learn that you don't know everything, it's not your job to save the world and that you can't teach a PIG to sing.
You learn that the only cross to bear is one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake.
Love Birds part two

Asheboro, NC

#23 Dec 20, 2009
Then you learn about LOVE. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be.
You learn that alone does not mean lonely. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes. You learn to
distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO.
You also stop working hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs. You learn
that your body really is a temple. You begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin to eat a balanced diet,
drink more water, and take more time to exercise.
You learn that being tired fuels doubts, fear, and uncertainty and so you take more time to rest. And, just as food
fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and to play. You learn that, for most part, you
get in life what you believe you deserve, and that much oflife truly is self-fulfilling prophecy.
You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different
than working towards making it happen.
More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You
also learn that no one can do it all alone, and that it's OK to risk asking for help.
You learn the only thing you must truly fear is fear itself. You learn to step right into and throug,h your fears because
you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your
own terms.
You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes, bad things
happen to unsuspecting, good people and you learn not to always take it personally. You learn that nobody's pushing
you and everything isn't always somebody's fault. It's just life happening. You learn to admit when you are wrong
and to build bridges instead of walls.
You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will
suffocate the life out of you and poison the: universe that surrounds you. You learn to be thankful and to take care of
many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about.
Then you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and make yourself a promise to never betray yourSelf
and lo never, ever settle for less than your hearts desire, You make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to
stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally with courage in your heart, you take a stand; you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you
want to live as best as you can.
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBeny

From: "Dennis Heckert. < dennisheckerCQ1sprint.blackberrv.net >
Date: Tue, 25 Nov 2008 00:39:49
To: Cr 1 <[email protected] >
Subject: Re:

Wow!!!! I pkg call me 5

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Mike

Saint Cloud, MN

#24 Dec 20, 2009
What money? If the judge keeps an eye on Hecker, there is no money to divide up. He claimed 700 million dollars of bankruptcy. That's stiffing a lot of people. He should start from scratch. She should get a job. You lived the high-life, now go earn it.
TaxTaxTax

Portland, OR

#25 Dec 20, 2009
Maybe Denny has insurance with that outfit in Nermuda that is paying Petters legal fees.
FRAUD

Minneapolis, MN

#26 Dec 20, 2009
Cmon, Denny, give her most of the money! Where you're going, you'll just need a few bucks for KY. Then you can earn money working your quaint prison job.

“Love requires sacrifice”

Since: Jan 09

South Saint Paul

#27 Dec 21, 2009
what does she do that she can afford $5k per month rent?

“Love requires sacrifice”

Since: Jan 09

South Saint Paul

#28 Dec 21, 2009
I don't think Christi wrote that email - I think she copied and pasted it from some website..........BLAH
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B M Goldwater A F Range, AZ

#29 Dec 21, 2009
Wow if Christi thinks Denny will take that all to heart and live his live differently she drank all the cool aid. Another comment, Denny would never confide to a wife about "being all in".

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