Man shoots wife.

Jun 10, 2007 | Posted by: ms j

A Nottoway County man apparently killed his wife Thursday night and then died in a car wreck as he fled.

Nottoway deputies found Mary Alice Arrington fatally shot outside her home on Turkey Island Road, according to a statement from the sheriff's office. She was 51.

Deputies soon discovered that her husband, Cecil Warner Arrington, 52, was involved in a fatal crash with another vehicle less than a mile away. Turns out the driver of the vehicle Mr. Arrington hit was his own nephew, who had to be flown by med-flight to VCU Hospital.
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unknown

Charlotte Court House, VA

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Jun 20, 2007
 
i knew her too, saw her 4 hrs before it happened. she was like a mom to me, as is her sons james and leland are like brothers to me
JAMES R I P MOM

Annville, PA

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Aug 29, 2007
 
unknown wrote:
i knew her too, saw her 4 hrs before it happened. she was like a mom to me, as is her sons james and leland are like brothers to me
I WAS SERVING OVERSEAS IN IRAQ WHEN I GOT THE NEWS THAT MOTHER HAS BEEN SHOT AND KILLED. I HAD IT PLACED IN MY HEAD TO COME HOME AND SEE THAT JUSTICE WAS SERVED. THEN I GOT NEWS THAT WARNER WAS ALSO DEAD. MY WHOLE WORLD RIPPED AWAY FROM ME IN A MATTER OF SECONDS. IM BARELY MAKING IT BY NOW, AND YES I FEEL FOR JUSTIN(WARNERS NEPHEW) BUT HE WONT TALK TO ME NOW BECAUSE OF THIS. WHAT DID I DO WRONG. I BET IF I WAS HOME THIS WOULD HAVE NEVER HAPPENED. IM MARRIED NOW AND I HAVE A BABY GIRL ON THE WAY. MOM ALWAYS WWANTED GRANDCHILDREN, NOW SHE WONT BE HERE TO SHE HER GRANDDAUGHTER BORN. EVERYDAY I THINK THAT WOULD IT BE ANY DIFFERENT IF I WAS HOME THAT NIGHT. I NEED MOM, I NEVER GOT TO SAY GOOD BYE. I HAVE A VEHICLE THATS NOT MINE, FATHER-IN-LAWS...I NEED ONE FOR MY WIFE AND CHILDREN AND BY GOAD A PLACE TO CARE FOR MY FAMILY. IF MOM WAS HERE I COULD GET ADVICE FROM HER. SHE ALWAYS KNEW THE RIGHT ANSWERS. R.I.P MOM. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE, AND REMEMBER YOU. 1956-2007
stephanie smith

Chesterfield, VA

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Jul 15, 2008
 
when i heard about trhis situation which was on
my graduationjune 8 2007 i wanted to holed her in my arms i just dont understand why he did what he did uncle kenneth should have stopped his drunk ass but ma i look up to the sky when im sad yes i do cry but i know you'll always be looking down on me well i love you mommy R.I.P

hi i am staples a friend of stephanie's she loved her mom very much and talks about her often...
Just-cURIOUS

Martinsville, VA

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Jul 15, 2008
 

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The entire case was very sad and I hope by now that her grandaughter knows about her grandmother.
stephanie smith

Chesterfield, VA

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Jul 16, 2008
 
Just-cURIOUS wrote:
The entire case was very sad and I hope by now that her grandaughter knows about her grandmother.
yes iam mary's daughter and i cuold posiblly be pregnant here's my e-mail www.smith23838@yahoo.com
stephanie smith

Chesterfield, VA

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Jul 16, 2008
 
hi once again mom i just would like you to know and the rest of the nation as your 19 and about to be 20 year old daughter you (could)be having a grandchild soon if you was alive we would need to talk and for those who know me here's my address
11901 reedy branch road chesterfeild,va,23838
Just-cURIOUS

Martinsville, VA

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Jul 17, 2008
 
I know what you mean and I will add you to my list. My own mother passed away in 2001 from malignant brain tumor. I miss her every day and truly I miss my mother-in-law. Sometimes it does not seem real that they are gone. I can't imagine what it must be like for you.
james

Shoemakersville, PA

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Mar 3, 2009
 
Just-cURIOUS wrote:
I know what you mean and I will add you to my list. My own mother passed away in 2001 from malignant brain tumor. I miss her every day and truly I miss my mother-in-law. Sometimes it does not seem real that they are gone. I can't imagine what it must be like for you.
Its been a while since my mother passed away and we all keep her memory alive in our hearts and the way we live. I have two little girls now and one more on the way, my oldest doesnt really understand what happend but i show her pictures of mom and she wants to hear about her grandmother. So i leave with this comment from mom..."Its better to be hated for who you are then to be loved for who you are not" We should all live by that.
Cancer-Survivor

Crewe, VA

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Mar 4, 2009
 
I agree James and we have not forgotten.
Amy Driggs

Mechanicsburg, PA

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Mar 21, 2009
 
james wrote:
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Its been a while since my mother passed away and we all keep her memory alive in our hearts and the way we live. I have two little girls now and one more on the way, my oldest doesnt really understand what happend but i show her pictures of mom and she wants to hear about her grandmother. So i leave with this comment from mom..."Its better to be hated for who you are then to be loved for who you are not" We should all live by that.
James I loved your mom alot. she thought of alex like her grandchild. she was a good person and loved for me n jr to ocme and visited you all. I still to this day cant belive she isnt here. i kno its hard for you and leland. At least you still have leland and steph they are a big part of your mom. Love you james as a brother always will. we have known each other alot and been there for one another and your mom always wanted us to do that. Jr was like a son to her. i kno its got to be hard for you everyday. even if you dont talk about it or say anything i kno you got to be hurting. bc i think of jamie everyday just bout all day. i dont let everyone kno i dont say a word. but i kno. its hurts to loose someone you cared bout. just remember james she was so proud of you and always will be.
Justin

Newtown, VA

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Apr 1, 2009
 
I just found this site, i know that no one probably reads it anymore but just incase... I miss Mary too, I am still mad at my uncle warner for what he did. I don't no what he was thinking but after all he has put marys family, my family and me through I am ashamed to say he is my uncle. this shit isn't supposed to happen to normal people! right?
JCLIL Amy

Mechanicsburg, PA

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Apr 26, 2009
 
Justin wrote:
I just found this site, i know that no one probably reads it anymore but just incase... I miss Mary too, I am still mad at my uncle warner for what he did. I don't no what he was thinking but after all he has put marys family, my family and me through I am ashamed to say he is my uncle. this shit isn't supposed to happen to normal people! right?
Now days justin thangs happen that you wldnt think wld ever happen to you or your family in my meaning my cousin jamie. I wldnt think anything happen like that. I am sorry for the lose of your family and james and lelands. Just live your life the best way you can justin. Also thank god himself you are still here. For a reason you still are. Take care J. Also don't be ashame bc it wasnt your fault.
stephanie smith

Ashburn, VA

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Aug 14, 2010
 
hey justin its me mary's daughter i hope your all good tell grandma arrington i said hello as well as everyone else i love u cuz
Leland

Port Byron, NY

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Aug 22, 2010
 
there is nothing you could had done to stop it

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