Wives/girlfriends of Oilfield Men Share Your Fears And Concerns

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May 17, 2012
 
How do you feel about your husband/boyfriend working in this desolate town full of skanky women and drugs? We should band together and create a support system for each other and if they are cheating we should be one step ahead of them and catch their asses!!
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May 17, 2012
 

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Look, I understand that you don't trust your husband, but cotulla isn't the only place with "skanky" women and drugs. I'm sure where your from you have your ratchet ass women who sleep around and you have your drug dealers selling their crap. Get over it! If he slept with a woman from here then he's obviously a crappy ass husband don't you think??! Don't compare her to ALL of the other women who are faithful to their men. Remember with love comes trust. And if he did it then so be it....time for you to move on and get a life instead of posting things about how much you hate "cheating men" and the "skanky women" of cotulla.
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May 17, 2012
 
Justme251986 wrote:
How do you feel about your husband/boyfriend working in this desolate town full of skanky women and drugs? We should band together and create a support system for each other and if they are cheating we should be one step ahead of them and catch their asses!!
You really sound pathetic.......... Don't blame all cotulla women for your man cheating on you. There are alot of faithful women in Cotulla and hard working women. It's nobodys fault that men come to work over here and cheat on their wives and I know for a fact every town, city have their share of cheaters and drugs. And you do know that theres surronding towns that these men go work at maybe your man is dating somebody from another town. Why don't you go through his phone bill; you can even check the phone bill online. Or just come to where he is staying and surprise him.
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May 17, 2012
 

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another dumb ass trying to make it sound like its the towns womens fault. if your husband strays thats his choice and your issue dont blame others that you stay with the dog you love so much!
your pathetic to think that your men dont go looking have you been to your local grocery store? women cant even walk in because they have jerks staring at them right off the bat! and then you have the perverts who yell shit to them at the pumps. than you get the dumbasses who go out to eat and leave phone numbers in there left over food! check your man not the towns women!

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May 18, 2012
 
Justme251986 wrote:
How do you feel about your husband/boyfriend working in this desolate town full of skanky women and drugs? We should band together and create a support system for each other and if they are cheating we should be one step ahead of them and catch their asses!!
welcome to the world of cotulla where the Mexican culture runs deep.yes there's lots of drugs here and women who will do anything to increase their welfare benefits. there's brown children with blonde afro from a previous oil boom, if you know what I mean.

What makes you think your husband or boyfriend is a cheater? is it the 8 ball of cocaine and heavy drinking he enjoys every weekend thats got your attention einstein.
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May 22, 2012
 
true it's not all the women of the town but it's alot of them and the ones that aren't acting like hoes turn their face as if they don't see anything instead of stopping it by calling these hoes and whore dogs out. If you don't want your town to be known as a the place to go get laid then start posting them and watch how quick things stop or start being very discreet instead of looking like an huge orgy
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May 23, 2012
 
I seem to see from reading things on this website that the oil field men are hated..my husband and i travel with the gas refineries and are possibly going to a job near cotulla. I was just wondering if it is really as bad as everyone says. like they say the drug wars r moving into cotulla(like in parts of mexico)and the mexican mofia are killing white ppl for no reason. is this true?? or just a bunch of talk?
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May 24, 2012
 
Why do men cheat on their wives is a mystery that many wives would be happy to get an answer to. There has been no definite answer to explain why do men cheat on their wives, but there are some reasons which may help you understand their psychology.
"Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife," a virtue of monogamy, is a commandment extolled from the early days of the Bible. Men cheating on their wives is not a new thing and it is evident from the history of mankind. Men cheat even if they are aware that cheating is wrong.
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May 24, 2012
 
Surely the men in cotulla don't cheat on their wives! Why would they? They all seem sooo HAPPY.
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May 27, 2012
 

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shouldibeworried wrote:
I seem to see from reading things on this website that the oil field men are hated..my husband and i travel with the gas refineries and are possibly going to a job near cotulla. I was just wondering if it is really as bad as everyone says. like they say the drug wars r moving into cotulla(like in parts of mexico)and the mexican mofia are killing white ppl for no reason. is this true?? or just a bunch of talk?
. Not true. Cotulla is a good town if you live your life and try to ignore all the negatism. There is lots of envy and hatred towards one another for dumb reasons. People seem to think there better than others cause they think they have more but in reality that doesn't matter. What matter's is keeping family's together and just work hard to have. Many like to gossip and kiss butt, and around here that comes from many but just keep going and don't let anyone get in your way. Oil workers aren't that bad, many are nice people just here to work and support there families.
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May 27, 2012
 
I grew up in Cotulla, moved away for over 15 yrs and moved back with my family. My spouse works in the oilfield, and we have a perfectly happy life here. Cotulla has declined, but as long as you work towards something better change can happen. We attend church, and take part in our community as much as possible. If you are afraid to shine a light in all the dark corners, than you will always be afraid of the unknown. There are a lot of good hearted honest people here in Cotulla, but most people don't see that as they are quietly living their lives, and raising their families. Not everyone deserves to be labeled bad, just because of the acts of a few. Yes, there is a trash mentality a lot of people have, but those are people who will never aspire to have or do more than what they have going on right at the moment. As for the Mexican Mafia, and drug wars, yes stuff like that is going on, but perhaps you should just read up before you assume they are just killing white people.
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#12
May 31, 2012
 
What's up at the Charro? The new restaurant.
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Jun 1, 2012
 
So idk if any of you women are married to a "ricky rodriguez" if so just letting you know we've been sleeping together. Funny thing is we didn't meet at a bar, we met at super s. He's not all that great in bed, but he tells me he's not married? Idk I'm just putting it out there because if he is I want nothing to do with a taken man. I won't have any part in breaking a family apart.
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Jun 3, 2012
 
Don Alberto Einstein wrote:
Why do men cheat on their wives is a mystery that many wives would be happy to get an answer to. There has been no definite answer to explain why do men cheat on their wives, but there are some reasons which may help you understand their psychology.
"Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife," a virtue of monogamy, is a commandment extolled from the early days of the Bible. Men cheating on their wives is not a new thing and it is evident from the history of mankind. Men cheat even if they are aware that cheating is wrong.
men cheat on their wives because they like nasty girls that like it up the a$$ hard
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Jun 3, 2012
 
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So idk if any of you women are married to a "ricky rodriguez" if so just letting you know we've been sleeping together. Funny thing is we didn't meet at a bar, we met at super s. He's not all that great in bed, but he tells me he's not married? Idk I'm just putting it out there because if he is I want nothing to do with a taken man. I won't have any part in breaking a family apart.
well is was married and u already broke up a family apart he has 4 beautiful girls the youngest being 5mths and not only that i wouldnt be with him anyway cause he is a user and abuser and just spits game and says whatever u want to hear. hes left his family and kids plenty of times just to go fuck as much girls as possible and go back to his family. and yes i know ur gna say im stupidfor staying but u know he is the father of my kids. if he can make empty promises to me and his own girls i could just imagine what hes saying to u its all lies.and dnt think ur the only one hes sleeping with cause friday night he was out in the valley trying to get girls to meet up with him read all his text messages desprate to get laid that night and pretty sure he did. and if hes not that great in bed y sleep with him ur just being used like the rest of them. he will tell u anyhing just to get what he wants y u think we r still together. a word from the wise i would just leave him alone before u end up with something u cant get rid of. he fooled all my family my nephews loved also but all of it was just and act and he is very good at it.i dnt know if this really clair cause i recentlytalked to a diierent girl he was sleeping with so im pretty sure u r her.told u how he is so do what u want with it its ur life snd with him it wont be a good one. hesprobably nice and everything now but he is so disrepectful and has no reguard to anyones feelings but his own just look what hes doing to his family. his girls are devastated.
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Jun 4, 2012
 

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just to let u know wrote:
<quoted text>well is was married and u already broke up a family apart he has 4 beautiful girls the youngest being 5mths and not only that i wouldnt be with him anyway cause he is a user and abuser and just spits game and says whatever u want to hear. hes left his family and kids plenty of times just to go fuck as much girls as possible and go back to his family. and yes i know ur gna say im stupidfor staying but u know he is the father of my kids. if he can make empty promises to me and his own girls i could just imagine what hes saying to u its all lies.and dnt think ur the only one hes sleeping with cause friday night he was out in the valley trying to get girls to meet up with him read all his text messages desprate to get laid that night and pretty sure he did. and if hes not that great in bed y sleep with him ur just being used like the rest of them. he will tell u anyhing just to get what he wants y u think we r still together. a word from the wise i would just leave him alone before u end up with something u cant get rid of. he fooled all my family my nephews loved also but all of it was just and act and he is very good at it.i dnt know if this really clair cause i recentlytalked to a diierent girl he was sleeping with so im pretty sure u r her.told u how he is so do what u want with it its ur life snd with him it wont be a good one. hesprobably nice and everything now but he is so disrepectful and has no reguard to anyones feelings but his own just look what hes doing to his family. his girls are devastated.
Well I only used him to get some. What? A woman can't use a man?! Besides I don't see him anymore, I haven't for the past 2 weeks...and belive me when I say I could care less if he sees other women. He's not MY husband nor is he my boyfriend which means he's not MY problem. That's ship sailed along time ago, and sorry for "breaking" your family apart, but like you said he's done it before so you should be used to it no? Oh and word from the "wise" once a cheater always a cheater! Come on hunny I thought you knew that!! Lol ;)
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i was just trying to give u a heads up about him but i guess its true about what the say about cotulla women they just want to hop on every new dick tat comes into town. my husband hasnt been in cotulla for only about a month in a half and u already had him several times so what does that tell us. i know that saying once a cheater always a cheater but i tried to keep ourfamily together so our girls can have thier dad around but obviously u dnt understand that u think the women are just stupid making smiley faces and shit of course u wont understand u just wanted one thing like the bitch u are just saying caus thats the way u are putting urself out there.not getting on here again its time for me to move on so just do the same oh im sure u aready have to the next riggers dick thinking they have money but they dnt they support thier wives and children and all yall get is maybe a beer or burger. so word from the wise use protection cause all those riggers go town to town and u might catch something. now u have a nice life;)
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Jun 4, 2012
 
just to let u know wrote:
i was just trying to give u a heads up about him but i guess its true about what the say about cotulla women they just want to hop on every new dick tat comes into town. my husband hasnt been in cotulla for only about a month in a half and u already had him several times so what does that tell us. i know that saying once a cheater always a cheater but i tried to keep ourfamily together so our girls can have thier dad around but obviously u dnt understand that u think the women are just stupid making smiley faces and shit of course u wont understand u just wanted one thing like the bitch u are just saying caus thats the way u are putting urself out there.not getting on here again its time for me to move on so just do the same oh im sure u aready have to the next riggers dick thinking they have money but they dnt they support thier wives and children and all yall get is maybe a beer or burger. so word from the wise use protection cause all those riggers go town to town and u might catch something. now u have a nice life;)
Arguing with me won't get rid of the fact that he cheated on you with me and other women as well...
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im a good women and just wanted to find out so i wont have to be used anymore the best thing i got from him are my 4 beautiful intelligent loving outgoing girls. didnt mean to argue or talk shit but u were sounding like its a joke us women are not stupid we r strong to take it but nomore cause like i said i just wanted to find out now u just becareful with urself thats all im saying. i dont want to know anything else cause im just over it already cause a man that is willing to lose is family just like that is not worth it.
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Jun 5, 2012
 
clair wrote:
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Arguing with me won't get rid of the fact that he cheated on you with me and other women as well...
Clair you know thats not your real name. Come on and post your name.

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