how can u get someone to trust u?

how can u get someone to trust u?

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desperatelyneedt o know

United States

#1 Aug 16, 2012
My husband has been hurt badly from his mother, father, a serious gf, and his exwife. His mother n father betrayed him at a younger age and the women in his past cheated on him. He caught his exwife in bed with his best friend. Now im married to him n i love him so much. Im a lyal wife. I dnt cheat or lie to him. I try n try to make him happy. The prob is that he is certain in his mind that without a doubt that im gonna cheat on him. Sometimes he treats me like i hv already even tho i can honestly say ive not even talked to another man since i first started talkn to him. I love n respect him to much to betray him that way. Im a gd wife n i take alot of pride in our marriage. I just want to know hoe to help him let go of the past n gv me a chance to prove that im a good wife.
old

United States

#2 Aug 16, 2012
Time
babybaby
#3 Aug 16, 2012
stay show him u wont ever hurt him. also dont leave that window open for him to accuse u so much of cheating. meaning letting go of some things that belong and should stay n ur past. if u respect and love him then it would show n ur actions. its always hard to trust anyone when u've been the one cheated, and left broken. give it time. how long have u been married to this man?
Yup
#4 Aug 17, 2012
Try buying some freaking vowels!! That would be a good start!
babybaby

Corinth, MS

#5 Aug 17, 2012
No thats not at all it! U should treat the other with respect and if u love them so much u should show it! Their is a reason that person thinks the other is a cheater n the first place.
love and patients
#7 Aug 17, 2012
Show them every day how much you love them and remember its the little things that count. Anyone can buy flowers but only someone who cares will take the time to show them the attention they obviosly need.
desperatelyneedt o know

United States

#8 Aug 17, 2012
babybaby wrote:
No thats not at all it! U should treat the other with respect and if u love them so much u should show it! Their is a reason that person thinks the other is a cheater n the first place.
i dnt do anything that would make him think im cheating or would. Im very much in love with him. He is all i think about when were not together. He always knows exactly where i am at all times. I try to make sure not to gv him any reason to wonder. I tell him all the time how wonderful he is n how in love with him i am and i beg him to just gv me a lil trust to show him im not gonna do him like everybody else has. I have to much respect for him and our marriage to betray him but no matter how hard i try or what i say he is so sure in his thoughts that im gonna do the same as the rest. It hurts my feelings cuz i want him to feel like im different then the rest. I want him to feel like im his best friend like i do him cuz i think being best friends with ur spouse is just important as trust and love. I never give him any reason to make him think i would and after he keeps on about it we fuss n then he says deep down inside that i do love him unlike the rest and that i wouldnt do it but his mind just goes crazy when he isnt around me so it starts all over again. He is a wonderful husband and i feel like im a gd wife n i know we could have an amazing marriage if we could just fix this one problem.
knows

Corinth, MS

#9 Aug 19, 2012
Trust takes time..
trust you

Corinth, MS

#10 Aug 21, 2012
I trust you! I care so much about you and when we're apart I miss you like you wouldn't believe! Baby I Love You!!!!!!!!
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Corinth, MS

#11 Aug 21, 2012
trust you wrote:
I trust you! I care so much about you and when we're apart I miss you like you wouldn't believe! Baby I Love You!!!!!!!!
sweet
fact

United States

#12 Aug 21, 2012
desperatelyneedto know wrote:
My husband has been hurt badly from his mother, father, a serious gf, and his exwife. His mother n father betrayed him at a younger age and the women in his past cheated on him. He caught his exwife in bed with his best friend. Now im married to him n i love him so much. Im a lyal wife. I dnt cheat or lie to him. I try n try to make him happy. The prob is that he is certain in his mind that without a doubt that im gonna cheat on him. Sometimes he treats me like i hv already even tho i can honestly say ive not even talked to another man since i first started talkn to him. I love n respect him to much to betray him that way. Im a gd wife n i take alot of pride in our marriage. I just want to know hoe to help him let go of the past n gv me a chance to prove that im a good wife.
first of all go back to school and learn to spell 2nd stay off of topix asking for advise.this will lead down the road of trust before you know it or until he cheats on you.
haha

Corinth, MS

#13 Aug 21, 2012
fact wrote:
<quoted text>first of all go back to school and learn to spell 2nd stay off of topix asking for advise.this will lead down the road of trust before you know it or until he cheats on you.
screw u and your dumbass advice!!!shes very educated.
key

United States

#14 Aug 21, 2012
When a man is dragged down by baggage then cradle his balls. Maybe sex life dialed down since the good old times and since he's a bit paranoid justifiably he has this burning why? When people don't know the answer to any question they tend to fill it with what they cook up. His kitchen has a hellish past so he's likely somewhere around then who's ass is her tonuge in! Mailman looks to happy to be giving her mail. Plumber wearing too much cologne. Wuts going on you whore!

Thats it 99% of the time. If you want ultimate trust save someones life. You could wait for the chance to do it or arrange it to happen. Wrap a python around his neck while he is sleeping and show up just in time with a betty crocker 12" electric peeling blade to hack it off. Say you were so worried about losing, do anything, the children you have yet to have, blah blah. TRUST locked.

Seriously don't worry so much and the internet is not the place for answers to any real problems. Just porn and other fucking around.
desperatlyneedto know

United States

#15 Aug 23, 2012
fact wrote:
<quoted text>first of all go back to school and learn to spell 2nd stay off of topix asking for advise.this will lead down the road of trust before you know it or until he cheats on you.
i know how to spell. I text alot so i shorten my words. I spelled everything out for you since it's such a thing for you. Why does there always have to be at least one person that just wants to be rude and try to make someone feel worse about themselves? As for everyone else, thanks for the advice.:)
desperatlyneedto know

United States

#16 Aug 23, 2012
trust you wrote:
I trust you! I care so much about you and when we're apart I miss you like you wouldn't believe! Baby I Love You!!!!!!!!
I guess it wasnt to hard to figure out this was from me huh? I know you love me. I love you just as much if not more. You're my everything. We will work this out. Us against the world!:)
victorin

United States

#17 Aug 23, 2012
it's call a chasity belt put it on then give hime the key then get your jaws wired shut
desperatlyneedto know

United States

#18 Aug 23, 2012
victorin wrote:
it's call a chasity belt put it on then give hime the key then get your jaws wired shut
I have a chasity belt on.... Its called the vows I said when I got married.:)
Jefferson

New Albany, MS

#19 Aug 23, 2012
desperatelyneedto know wrote:
My husband has been hurt badly from his mother, father, a serious gf, and his exwife. His mother n father betrayed him at a younger age and the women in his past cheated on him. He caught his exwife in bed with his best friend. Now im married to him n i love him so much. Im a lyal wife. I dnt cheat or lie to him. I try n try to make him happy. The prob is that he is certain in his mind that without a doubt that im gonna cheat on him. Sometimes he treats me like i hv already even tho i can honestly say ive not even talked to another man since i first started talkn to him. I love n respect him to much to betray him that way. Im a gd wife n i take alot of pride in our marriage. I just want to know hoe to help him let go of the past n gv me a chance to prove that im a good wife.
Give him bj's every time you get a chance. You'll have him for life.
earl

Corinth, MS

#20 Aug 23, 2012
its hard to trust especially a dam woman they can keep a secret or their dam mouth shut look men if it wasn't fora freaking woman us men would still be in a garden of eden
thruth in words

United States

#21 Aug 23, 2012
earl wrote:
its hard to trust especially a dam woman they can keep a secret or their dam mouth shut look men if it wasn't fora freaking woman us men would still be in a garden of eden
AMEN!

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