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angry mother

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Feb 8, 2013
 
My child's father has been court ordered to pay me $125.00 a month. He has paid it 7 x in 10 years. He hasn't paid anything in 7 years until a few days ago. Child support told him to pay what he could. He sends me $20. I was so pissed. If he were a daddy to my son I wouldn't even care but he dose t call or come see him. He hasn't seen him in 7 years. He can afford to go to methadone clinic everyday,drink,smoke and he takes care of his girlfriends 2 children. I have his only child. We were together 5 years before having our son. He hit me for the first time when my son was two so I left him and never looked back. My question is how can he get by without paying his child support? He's been in jail and prison and they never say anything to him about it. He works for cash so they can't garnish his check. I know of someone who was only a few months behind and the judge told him he had till the end of the week to pay it or go to jail but men like my sons father gets off free. I'm extremely upset that he sent my son $20. The bad thing is for some reason the child support card said I owed them $12.90 so after they took they're part my son got a whole $7. That's not even a dollar a year
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Feb 8, 2013
 
Get a lawyer. Most will make HIM pay the lawyer fee and the lawyer will make sure you gets what's coming to your son (and him)!! Judges don't mess with men like this anymore. They'll throw the book at him in a heartbeat!!
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Feb 8, 2013
 
angry mother wrote:
My child's father has been court ordered to pay me $125.00 a month. He has paid it 7 x in 10 years. He hasn't paid anything in 7 years until a few days ago. Child support told him to pay what he could. He sends me $20. I was so pissed. If he were a daddy to my son I wouldn't even care but he dose t call or come see him. He hasn't seen him in 7 years. He can afford to go to methadone clinic everyday,drink,smoke and he takes care of his girlfriends 2 children. I have his only child. We were together 5 years before having our son. He hit me for the first time when my son was two so I left him and never looked back. My question is how can he get by without paying his child support? He's been in jail and prison and they never say anything to him about it. He works for cash so they can't garnish his check. I know of someone who was only a few months behind and the judge told him he had till the end of the week to pay it or go to jail but men like my sons father gets off free. I'm extremely upset that he sent my son $20. The bad thing is for some reason the child support card said I owed them $12.90 so after they took they're part my son got a whole $7. That's not even a dollar a year
Stop crying! You can't make him be a parent if he doesn't want to. The child will realize that when it gets older . So until then stop crying put your big girl panties on and shut up! Your the one that spread your legs for the piece of crap to begin with.
angry mother

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Feb 8, 2013
 
ExWife wrote:
Get a lawyer. Most will make HIM pay the lawyer fee and the lawyer will make sure you gets what's coming to your son (and him)!! Judges don't mess with men like this anymore. They'll throw the book at him in a heartbeat!!
thank you. I really might look into this. It's bad enough that he's not around but to send $20. If I were him I'd be embarrassed. I guess it's better than nothin but my goodness I was mad. I'm not one of these mothers who ask him for anything. He only paid it bc he had too. Do you know of a good lawyer around here?
angry mother

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Feb 8, 2013
 
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<quoted text>Stop crying! You can't make him be a parent if he doesn't want to. The child will realize that when it gets older . So until then stop crying put your big girl panties on and shut up! Your the one that spread your legs for the piece of crap to begin with.
believe me. I'm not crying. My husband and I raise my son. Your right though, my son will figure it all out. I don't bad mouth his father to him bc I just feel like that wouldn't be good parenting but as of right now he doesn't wanna see him anyway. He says if his daddy loved him he would come see him on his birthday. I don't have to try and ruin his sperm donor. He's doing it himself.
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Feb 8, 2013
 
same goes for us Dads who have custody and the "mother" doesn't pay.
i went to DHS,signed child up on TANF and got a monthly check to replace the support which wasn't paid. it was put on a debit card.
soon as you do THAT, the state REALLY goes after them to re-coup funds.they keep the paid support $$
as long as you keep getting TANF check.but,its guarenteed there every month at least.AND state suspends Drivers license till paid up.
angry mother

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Feb 8, 2013
 
Stressed wrote:
same goes for us Dads who have custody and the "mother" doesn't pay.
i went to DHS,signed child up on TANF and got a monthly check to replace the support which wasn't paid. it was put on a debit card.
soon as you do THAT, the state REALLY goes after them to re-coup funds.they keep the paid support $$
as long as you keep getting TANF check.but,its guarenteed there every month at least.AND state suspends Drivers license till paid up.
thank you so much for this info
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Feb 8, 2013
 
Stressed wrote:
same goes for us Dads who have custody and the "mother" doesn't pay.
i went to DHS,signed child up on TANF and got a monthly check to replace the support which wasn't paid. it was put on a debit card.
soon as you do THAT, the state REALLY goes after them to re-coup funds.they keep the paid support $$
as long as you keep getting TANF check.but,its guarenteed there every month at least.AND state suspends Drivers license till paid up.
What is that? Like food stamps? I've had the worst time fighting with these people over child support! He's made half ass partial payments and it don't even but my child's lunch for school!
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Feb 8, 2013
 
You can get a lawyer.. most of the time if a parent is behind on child support you will receive every bit of the income tax they get back every year until the back child support is paid. Nick Bain is an excellent lawyer in Corinth. He'll let you make payments and then make your ex pay you back... there is help for struggling parents with dead beats
angry mother

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Feb 8, 2013
 
ughh wrote:
You can get a lawyer.. most of the time if a parent is behind on child support you will receive every bit of the income tax they get back every year until the back child support is paid. Nick Bain is an excellent lawyer in Corinth. He'll let you make payments and then make your ex pay you back... there is help for struggling parents with dead beats
thank you
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Feb 8, 2013
 
I feel so bad for you. In Mississippi it's hard to make dead beat parents pay whether it's the mom or the dad. I had a judgement for garnishment against my ex and he quit his job and got unemployment. I guess they can't garnish those checks. Good luck with whoever you get. Your kids need financial support.
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Feb 8, 2013
 
another angry mama wrote:
I feel so bad for you. In Mississippi it's hard to make dead beat parents pay whether it's the mom or the dad. I had a judgement for garnishment against my ex and he quit his job and got unemployment. I guess they can't garnish those checks. Good luck with whoever you get. Your kids need financial support.
thank you. You're right people should help financially support their children. I don't know how people can lay their head down at night not knowing if their child is taken care of or where their at. I couldn't sleep if I didn't know

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Feb 8, 2013
 
If u call jackson over like 4 times a month they start taking fifty cents off ur child support every call over the 4. So I'm the past 7 years if you have called more than that in a months time that a probably why.
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Feb 8, 2013
 
lovemehateme2013 wrote:
If u call jackson over like 4 times a month they start taking fifty cents off ur child support every call over the 4. So I'm the past 7 years if you have called more than that in a months time that a probably why.
that might be what it is. I use to check it a lot when he would call me and lie and say he send some money In but I have t checked it in I know 2 or 3 years. I wouldn't of even checked it then but I got a letter in mail saying sense it had been longer than 6 months that I hadn't received anything they were letting me know money had been added to the card. I got a little excited thinking he finally sent his son some money so you can imagine how angry I was that there was $7 on the card. Lol
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Feb 9, 2013
 
angry mom wrote:
<quoted text>that might be what it is. I use to check it a lot when he would call me and lie and say he send some money In but I have t checked it in I know 2 or 3 years. I wouldn't of even checked it then but I got a letter in mail saying sense it had been longer than 6 months that I hadn't received anything they were letting me know money had been added to the card. I got a little excited thinking he finally sent his son some money so you can imagine how angry I was that there was $7 on the card. Lol
There is a website on the back of the card where you can get it set up online to check for payments received. If you do that you do not get charged anything for checking. Even if you check it 10 times a day, no charge. No fee for setting it up online either. You can also set up an email address on there to notify you when payment has been made.
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Feb 9, 2013
 
I don't believe any court should make anyone mother or father pay child support. If a man or woman doesn't want to support their own child they shouldn't be made do it but they should give up their parental rights and leave the child alone. I was a single mother of two and never received a nickel and had it put in the divorce that no child support was to be ordered. I had tough times but we made it. I'm sorry but I don't believe in court order pay if a person doesn't care and love a child that they helped bring in the world to support because they want to the child is better off without it in the long run
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Feb 9, 2013
 
they should outlaw sex in BURNSVILLE period.
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Feb 9, 2013
 
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<quoted text>There is a website on the back of the card where you can get it set up online to check for payments received. If you do that you do not get charged anything for checking. Even if you check it 10 times a day, no charge. No fee for setting it up online either. You can also set up an email address on there to notify you when payment has been made.
thank you so much for letting me know this. I'll def do that when I get home
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Feb 9, 2013
 
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I don't believe any court should make anyone mother or father pay child support. If a man or woman doesn't want to support their own child they shouldn't be made do it but they should give up their parental rights and leave the child alone. I was a single mother of two and never received a nickel and had it put in the divorce that no child support was to be ordered. I had tough times but we made it. I'm sorry but I don't believe in court order pay if a person doesn't care and love a child that they helped bring in the world to support because they want to the child is better off without it in the long run
i wish he would sign his rights away. My husband and I have been married sence my son was2. My son realizes that's not his biological father but wants to change his name. My husband wants to adopt him badly. The last time I talked to my EX I told him that our son wanted to change his last name to my husbands and he flew off the handle. If he was being a daddy to my son I could understand him getting angry but he hasn't seen him in years. I told him if hed sign his rights over he wouldn't have to pay child support anymore. He said he'd never do that.
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Feb 9, 2013
 
angry mom wrote:
<quoted text>i wish he would sign his rights away. My husband and I have been married sence my son was2. My son realizes that's not his biological father but wants to change his name. My husband wants to adopt him badly. The last time I talked to my EX I told him that our son wanted to change his last name to my husbands and he flew off the handle. If he was being a daddy to my son I could understand him getting angry but he hasn't seen him in years. I told him if hed sign his rights over he wouldn't have to pay child support anymore. He said he'd never do that.
Get him on aboundment but that 20 bucks will look great for him the law will say he is trying. Good luck I hope the best for you I thank god my ex signed his rights away. Like I said I saw hard times but made it and it was all worth the barley getting by.

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