Is watching internet porn cheating?

Is watching internet porn cheating?

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uncertain

Dwale, KY

#1 Feb 14, 2013
My first husband left me and our children for another woman. Shortly after, he volunteered that he'd cheated throughout our entire relationship, over a decade. I'm remarried and for all means and purposes we're happy. My current husband knows the circumstances of my divorce and my subsequent trust issues. Some time ago I caught him watching internet porn. Which made NO sense to me since he had available "resources" at his disposal; namely me, HIS WIFE! Explaining how offensive I found it, how betrayed I felt, and that I considered the behavior unfaithful, I asked that he not resort to porn ever again. He agreed. That was nearly a year ago. I caught him again this week. The fact that he lied, in itself, is hurtful enough. The fact that I'm not satisfying to him is crushing. Am I wrong in feeling this way?
abcd

Corbin, KY

#2 Feb 14, 2013
No, you're correct. Lusting after other women is wrong and sinful. I would seek couples counseling at a church.
2funny

Sikeston, MO

#4 Feb 15, 2013
abcd wrote:
No, you're correct. Lusting after other women is wrong and sinful. I would seek couples counseling at a church.
maybe you should watch it with him,instead of looking at it as he is cheating ,and use it to your advantage ,surprise him and tell him honey let's go watch some porn and get some new ideals,I bet it would excite him plus you joining him would make him want to say I'm gonna rock her world tonight.
lol

United States

#5 Feb 15, 2013
2funny wrote:
<quoted text>maybe you should watch it with him,instead of looking at it as he is cheating ,and use it to your advantage ,surprise him and tell him honey let's go watch some porn and get some new ideals,I bet it would excite him plus you joining him would make him want to say I'm gonna rock her world tonight.
Wrong.. Porn is an addiction, the spouse cant compete with it, ive seen it many times.. It will lead to him cheating most times however..

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Since: Jun 10

Orlando, FL

#7 Feb 15, 2013
It's only cheating if you get caught.
Bth

East Bernstadt, KY

#8 Feb 15, 2013
2funny wrote:
<quoted text>maybe you should watch it with him,instead of looking at it as he is cheating ,and use it to your advantage ,surprise him and tell him honey let's go watch some porn and get some new ideals,I bet it would excite him plus you joining him would make him want to say I'm gonna rock her world tonight.
I disagree,but i would buy me some play girl magazines and make sure he caught me looking at them,only then would he see how it felt.It is a fact ,you get more viruses from porn sites than any other web sites.I would wipe the drive and block all of them if it is a family pc,if it's his,let him ruin it.
2funny

Sikeston, MO

#10 Feb 15, 2013
Wow,get a grip ,enjoy porn with each laugh at it,talk about it,and try some of the stuff you see,its better than being so upright it can fun not a marriage break,sheezzzz
Man

Winchester, KY

#12 Feb 15, 2013
2funny wrote:
Wow,get a grip ,enjoy porn with each laugh at it,talk about it,and try some of the stuff you see,its better than being so upright it can fun not a marriage break,sheezzzz
I agree with you!
Man

Winchester, KY

#13 Feb 15, 2013
lol wrote:
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Wrong.. Porn is an addiction, the spouse cant compete with it, ive seen it many times.. It will lead to him cheating most times however..
You are clueless! Just emasculate the hell out of him, that'll do it.

Replace all the Testosterone running though him with Estrogen. You'll have him dancing around like a fairy, picking flowers.
2funny

Sikeston, MO

#15 Feb 16, 2013
Man wrote:
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You are clueless! Just emasculate the hell out of him, that'll do it.
Replace all the Testosterone running though him with Estrogen. You'll have him dancing around like a fairy, picking flowers.
lol
captain obvious

Mayfield, KY

#16 Feb 16, 2013
Man wrote:
<quoted text>You are clueless! Just emasculate the hell out of him, that'll do it.

Replace all the Testosterone running though him with Estrogen. You'll have him dancing around like a fairy, picking flowers.
Ya because the only route to a healthy relationship is through porn addiction.. Great point dumbass.. You morons think just because you have some weirdass view of the world that everybody should.. Get out of your "holler" a little bit inbred
2funny

Sikeston, MO

#19 Feb 16, 2013
Oh what a statement,inbred & holler .can't people think of something new to say?
captain obvious

Mayfield, KY

#20 Feb 16, 2013
2funny wrote:
Oh what a statement,inbred & holler .can't people think of something new to say?
Sure.. Backwoods, gap tooth, neck bearded, incest having, first of the month shopping, pajama in public wearing, mountain dew drinking, no shower taking, 14 hick kids not wearing shoes having, redneck, leech on society, hand out taking, scum.. Better?
mia

Oneida, TN

#21 Feb 16, 2013
Ever had you significant other throw their wedding ring at you?
2funny

Sikeston, MO

#22 Feb 16, 2013
captain obvious wrote:
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Sure.. Backwoods, gap tooth, neck bearded, incest having, first of the month shopping, pajama in public wearing, mountain dew drinking, no shower taking, 14 hick kids not wearing shoes having, redneck, leech on society, hand out taking, scum.. Better?
yes thank you...lol
no label

Louisville, KY

#23 Feb 16, 2013
Its not cheating. Its called watching porn. If he were cheating, then you could call that cheating. If you dont want him watching porn, then ask him to stop. Duh??? wTf??
Crush

Winchester, KY

#24 Feb 16, 2013
Some women drive their men to porn by being frigid nags. Don't give your man a reason to look for a release and more times than not, it won't happen!
tip

San Jose, CA

#27 Feb 18, 2013
Obviously you dont put out the "resources" as often as he likes. Or your more Save-A-Lot while he wants Krogers quality.
tip

San Jose, CA

#28 Feb 18, 2013
abcd wrote:
No, you're correct. Lusting after other women is wrong and sinful. I would seek couples counseling at a church.
"And the elder said to the younger Our father is old, and there is no man left on the earth, to come in unto us after the manner of the whole earth. Come, let us make him drunk with wine, and let us lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father. And they made their father drink wine that night: and the elder went in and lay with her father"

Soooo incest is OK but lust is bad. Id keep the church out of it myself.
2funny

Sikeston, MO

#30 Feb 18, 2013
tip wrote:
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"And the elder said to the younger Our father is old, and there is no man left on the earth, to come in unto us after the manner of the whole earth. Come, let us make him drunk with wine, and let us lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father. And they made their father drink wine that night: and the elder went in and lay with her father"
Soooo incest is OK but lust is bad. Id keep the church out of it myself.
lust isn't bad

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