Is there something wrong with me?
wow

Cookeville, TN

#44 Sep 8, 2010
jobsajob wrote:
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well, it's good advice, you should take it. Trust, communication, and patience are all that is needed. TALK to whoever the hell it is you're sleeping with so he can know what to do to make you feel good. That's all. Just get over whatever hang-up you've got going on, and for God's sake LISTEN when a man tells you to do this. There is ONE thing every man on earth learns how to do, usually when we're children, and forever afterwards we can ALWAYS do it, we never miss when we set out to do it, and and we know the process in and out, and that's how to have an orgasm for God's sake. It's the one thing we're AWESOME at. So find one to help you, open up a little bit, and let one of us drive and we'll get you to the promised land cupcake. Or, just go through life orgasm-less. No skin off my ass.
that sounded sincere until the last comment but good looking out but im not hung up on anything,no childhood traumas or fears or anything.Im actually set on figuring this whole thing out so that i can move on to the next pleasurable moments in life!
jobsajob

Tullahoma, TN

#45 Sep 8, 2010
wow wrote:
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that sounded sincere until the last comment but good looking out but im not hung up on anything,no childhood traumas or fears or anything.Im actually set on figuring this whole thing out so that i can move on to the next pleasurable moments in life!
well, fine. You want some advice? Shave your PUSSY. Cooter, Snatch, Cows Ear, Coinpurse, whatever you prefer to call it. Just get it bald. Parents keep your kids off topix. Kepp them off the internet, in fact. And half the advice WAS sincere. You need an orgasm? Find a man, trust him, don't be afraid of having sex with him, tell him what you feel good, you'll get there. It's as inevitable as night follows day. Unless you go with young one. They're stupid. I don't know if I believe you when you say you've never had an orgasm, but I do believe it HAS been a common-place condition for a long time in many societies. It's probably prevelent in the Muslim world with the shame they attach to sex. But this day and age? Very unlikely. Almost ridiculous, I kinda think it's something only a really fat or homely girl would say. Even then I'm not sure I'd believe it. An orgasm comes from MASTURBATION. If you have'nt figured out that by age 33, you're life has sucked, is sucking and will ALWAYS suck till you die. Human beings are still natural, you know. You're just not functioning properly if that's true.
pen light

Columbia, SC

#46 Sep 8, 2010
jobsajob wrote:
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well, fine. You want some advice? Shave your PUSSY. Cooter, Snatch, Cows Ear, Coinpurse, whatever you prefer to call it. Just get it bald. Parents keep your kids off topix. Kepp them off the internet, in fact. And half the advice WAS sincere. You need an orgasm? Find a man, trust him, don't be afraid of having sex with him, tell him what you feel good, you'll get there. It's as inevitable as night follows day. Unless you go with young one. They're stupid. I don't know if I believe you when you say you've never had an orgasm, but I do believe it HAS been a common-place condition for a long time in many societies. It's probably prevelent in the Muslim world with the shame they attach to sex. But this day and age? Very unlikely. Almost ridiculous, I kinda think it's something only a really fat or homely girl would say. Even then I'm not sure I'd believe it. An orgasm comes from MASTURBATION. If you have'nt figured out that by age 33, you're life has sucked, is sucking and will ALWAYS suck till you die. Human beings are still natural, you know. You're just not functioning properly if that's true.
He's right. And I really don't think he is trying to be mean or rude about it. He's just telling you like it is hun. If a man cares anything about you having an orgasm, then he will listen to what feels good to YOU. TELL HIM!! Don't be shy or ashamed. Trust me, it worked for me. I had never had a man give me an orgasm until I was 27. I had them all the time when I masturbated but never could with a man. So I finally just got bold and told my man what I wanted him to do to me and it worked. Hope it works for you as well hun, JUST RELAX, TRUST HIM AND TELL HIM WHAT FEELS GOOD.
R U Crazy

Dunlap, TN

#48 Sep 8, 2010
curious wrote:
33 year old female and has never had an orgasm what's wrong with me this cant be normal or is it known to be?
1) Have you tried any supplements such as Spanish Fly or Viagra for women? These may help. Also; if you don't object to alcohol, try a glass of good wine about a half hour before sex. It could just be a case of nerves and this will calm you down.

2) See a Doctor. There are certain medical conditions which can cause erectile dysfunction in men and I'm quite certain there are conditions which can cause this in women too.

There; two good suggestions and no mean comments. Don't you wish they were all so nice?
R U Crazy

Dunlap, TN

#49 Sep 8, 2010
jobsajob wrote:
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well, it's good advice, you should take it. Trust, communication, and patience are all that is needed. TALK to whoever the hell it is you're sleeping with so he can know what to do to make you feel good. That's all. Just get over whatever hang-up you've got going on, and for God's sake LISTEN when a man tells you to do this. There is ONE thing every man on earth learns how to do, usually when we're children, and forever afterwards we can ALWAYS do it, we never miss when we set out to do it, and and we know the process in and out, and that's how to have an orgasm for God's sake. It's the one thing we're AWESOME at. So find one to help you, open up a little bit, and let one of us drive and we'll get you to the promised land cupcake. Or, just go through life orgasm-less. No skin off my ass.
You're wrong man. As a guy the two most important things for me are relaxation and imagination. I am sure it is the same for this poor woman. Trust me I've been around the block a time or two.
jobsajob

Tullahoma, TN

#50 Sep 9, 2010
R U Crazy wrote:
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You're wrong man. As a guy the two most important things for me are relaxation and imagination. I am sure it is the same for this poor woman. Trust me I've been around the block a time or two.
then she's a lesbo in training. I've been around the block a time or two myself. This is some office slut looking to widen her circle cause her husband's getting too familiar with the rest of the office staff, something like that. Probably be a wild little ride though if you ever got her unstuck. Get her to shave and all and you could probably get her on a stripper pole. They go a little crazy if there's ever the possibility they were telling the TRUTH and you really gave them their first orgasm ever. That'd make me feel kinda bad over some previous, unintended, unattended, uninformed abortions. I was hoping for a mousy librarian, type. Topix is useless for women. I think I'm gonna go back to bars. Least the sluts fuck you there.
the truth reveals itself

Cookeville, TN

#51 Sep 9, 2010
jobsajob wrote:
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then she's a lesbo in training. I've been around the block a time or two myself. This is some office slut looking to widen her circle cause her husband's getting too familiar with the rest of the office staff, something like that. Probably be a wild little ride though if you ever got her unstuck. Get her to shave and all and you could probably get her on a stripper pole. They go a little crazy if there's ever the possibility they were telling the TRUTH and you really gave them their first orgasm ever. That'd make me feel kinda bad over some previous, unintended, unattended, uninformed abortions. I was hoping for a mousy librarian, type. Topix is useless for women. I think I'm gonna go back to bars. Least the sluts fuck you there.
No wonder you are so full of hate! You, yourself can't even get laid. Thanks for telling the truth for a change.

May you catch a violent case of herpes on your quest to bang a bar slut.
jobsajob

Tullahoma, TN

#52 Sep 9, 2010
the truth reveals itself wrote:
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No wonder you are so full of hate! You, yourself can't even get laid. Thanks for telling the truth for a change.
May you catch a violent case of herpes on your quest to bang a bar slut.
dumbass, if I wanted to bang a bar slut, I did it yesterday. I told you, that's why I decided to come back to topix and put a line in the water. Sometimes the bar sluts are on D.U.I. status, and they ain't drinking in public or whatever. Sometimes you catch 'em. Sometimes you don't. Slut's a slut, though. Who cares? I'll tell you what though, if this bitch was even REMOTELY truthful in her orgasm status, she'd be a bar slut three weeks after I met her. Probably you too, I'll give some respect, but DEFINATELY if I met her.
jobsajob

Tullahoma, TN

#53 Sep 9, 2010
she should take that stuff into consideration. ESPECIALLY if she's got a kid or something. Always tell them ahead of time, even if you're just on some any-chick goes even fat fields to plow... Let 'em know your uncomfortable weight-limit range. Work it out to a science, fat women have smothered men. But give them a chance... even if she's fat, old, or sagging, a married woman seeking her first real orgasm can be awesome. Next stop, Nursing homes.
curious

Cookeville, TN

#54 Sep 9, 2010
jobsajob wrote:
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then she's a lesbo in training. I've been around the block a time or two myself. This is some office slut looking to widen her circle cause her husband's getting too familiar with the rest of the office staff, something like that. Probably be a wild little ride though if you ever got her unstuck. Get her to shave and all and you could probably get her on a stripper pole. They go a little crazy if there's ever the possibility they were telling the TRUTH and you really gave them their first orgasm ever. That'd make me feel kinda bad over some previous, unintended, unattended, uninformed abortions. I was hoping for a mousy librarian, type. Topix is useless for women. I think I'm gonna go back to bars. Least the sluts fuck you there.
You need professional help!
curious

Cookeville, TN

#55 Sep 9, 2010
I am 5'1 120lbs long hair and a nice body i have 2 teenage kids and a kickass personality with a college education i think i am far from anything you have described i enjoy sex and alot of other things in life there is just that small little piece missing to my puzzle its not like im completely screwed up
jobsajob

Cookeville, TN

#57 Sep 9, 2010
curious wrote:
I am 5'1 120lbs long hair and a nice body i have 2 teenage kids and a kickass personality with a college education i think i am far from anything you have described i enjoy sex and alot of other things in life there is just that small little piece missing to my puzzle its not like im completely screwed up
you have a college education? Yet you think you've never had an orgasm? What's wrong with this fuckin picture? God, you women kill me. You have'nt figured out ghow to masturbate properly, much less get off sexually with a man, yet you've managed to spend at a minimum 20 or 30 grand to learn a bunch of crap you don't even use or will ever help you in life. Little girl, I could give you an orgasm with one FINGER. If I wanted to. But the chances of you being a 120 lbs. girl with a nice body and a college education and somebody who actually has their shit together in life are virtually nill. What you should do, is fuck the guy who comes into your office to change out the water cooler jug. Or, fuck a convenience store clerk. That'll be somebody your husband'll never trace. You do have me wondering what you'ld be capable of discussing, though. I love college-educated women. What's your major in?
jobsajob

Cookeville, TN

#58 Sep 9, 2010
how, I meant. no excuse this time.

Since: Mar 10

Location hidden

#59 Sep 9, 2010
curious wrote:
I am 5'1 120lbs long hair and a nice body i have 2 teenage kids and a kickass personality with a college education i think i am far from anything you have described i enjoy sex and alot of other things in life there is just that small little piece missing to my puzzle its not like im completely screwed up
I agree 100% things like this happen and it could be one of several factors. You just have to eliminate and narrow down the reasons involved. I have been with women who could only reach orgasm by stimulation to their clit, for some it was more emotional and others it was just intercourse. Bottom line is that people are different and it does not make them screwed up by any means.
curious

Cookeville, TN

#61 Sep 9, 2010
OutnAbout wrote:
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I agree 100% things like this happen and it could be one of several factors. You just have to eliminate and narrow down the reasons involved. I have been with women who could only reach orgasm by stimulation to their clit, for some it was more emotional and others it was just intercourse. Bottom line is that people are different and it does not make them screwed up by any means.
THANK YOU! I do believe i have gotten close to having one by being on top and in control and with intercourse and finger play with my legs closed around but just have not totally scored yet.This conversation is getting kinda crazy,LOL...
curious

Cookeville, TN

#62 Sep 9, 2010
jobsajob wrote:
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you have a college education? Yet you think you've never had an orgasm? What's wrong with this fuckin picture? God, you women kill me. You have'nt figured out ghow to masturbate properly, much less get off sexually with a man, yet you've managed to spend at a minimum 20 or 30 grand to learn a bunch of crap you don't even use or will ever help you in life. Little girl, I could give you an orgasm with one FINGER. If I wanted to. But the chances of you being a 120 lbs. girl with a nice body and a college education and somebody who actually has their shit together in life are virtually nill. What you should do, is fuck the guy who comes into your office to change out the water cooler jug. Or, fuck a convenience store clerk. That'll be somebody your husband'll never trace. You do have me wondering what you'ld be capable of discussing, though. I love college-educated women. What's your major in?
As of right now i have a business degree but this semester i have started attempting the nursing field,maybe one day i will be a doctor and wont need advice from people on topix especially the mean people!

Since: Mar 10

Location hidden

#63 Sep 9, 2010
curious wrote:
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THANK YOU! I do believe i have gotten close to having one by being on top and in control and with intercourse and finger play with my legs closed around but just have not totally scored yet.This conversation is getting kinda crazy,LOL...
Just a little, lol...but I have nothing to do right now and maybe I can help with advice, of course. Well if you have came close to having an orgasm while in this position with finger play what stopped you from finishing? Was it mentally that you just stopped in the heat of the moment? Or was it that you just didn't get stimulated in that crucial moment? I know this may sound crazy, to some, but if it was lack of stimulus have you thought of using a small toy to give added stimulation to your sensitive areas. Also I now think trojan makes a stimulus ring that your partner wears around his penis that has a small vibrator that will hit just the right spots for you.

Since: Mar 10

Location hidden

#64 Sep 9, 2010
Sorry for being kinda graphic.
jobsajob

Tullahoma, TN

#65 Sep 9, 2010
curious wrote:
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As of right now i have a business degree but this semester i have started attempting the nursing field,maybe one day i will be a doctor and wont need advice from people on topix especially the mean people!
You like it. It makes you wet just reading it, but the typos aggravate and distract you. Business and nursing... that could work. Do you have a little nurses outfit? I'm betting you're a granny-panties girl too. Funny thing about that is that your type can be some of the wildest fucks too. You'll be down for anything as long as you know it's gonna make you cum. And believe me, there's a lot. Not that you'ld remember, psyco. There's no telling what your reactions going to be when you finally cum after years of neglect. I still can't believe you're trying this bullshit, though. A 33 year-old woman who's NEVER had an orgasm? That is one of the saddest things I could imagine. I'd understand if you were one of those Muslim clitorectomy victims or something, but the idea that you're just an average chick who's never had one or has'nt had one in decades...that's just awful. I may just light a candle for you.
curious

United States

#66 Sep 9, 2010
OutnAbout wrote:
Sorry for being kinda graphic.
I can handle graphic its fun sometimes i just cant handle rudeness or meanness other than that im up for conversation!

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