Since: Sep 11

United States

#1 Sep 10, 2011
I am friends with a girl who everyone says has a kid with him..its not true..if it was she wouldn't keep the kid from the family considerin that's all they would have left from him
and

Connersville, IN

#2 Sep 10, 2011
if it was true she would be going after the social security benefits.

Since: Sep 11

United States

#3 Sep 10, 2011
No that ain't true either they were really good friends..she is still tore up About it
mary alice

Georgetown, IN

#4 Sep 10, 2011
why after all this time you wanna start that...if it is then his family deserves to be a part of this kids life, and vice versa, R.I.P. BJ

Since: Sep 11

Ypsilanti, MI

#5 Sep 11, 2011
I am bringing it up now because p pl are still talking bad about her saying she don't let his family see the kid when in fact it ain't his. Just wanted to clear it up
just sayin

Connersville, IN

#6 Oct 13, 2011
then why dont she have a DNA done for there piece of mind..have it done with the man that she says is the dad..none of mine just thought i would put it out there
granny

Connersville, IN

#7 Oct 13, 2011
It is his son. looks just like him. i saw billy with the boy before
Just Saying

Connersville, IN

#8 Oct 14, 2011
granny wrote:
It is his son. looks just like him. i saw billy with the boy before
Who is the girl? Just wondering because I think people that knew Bj would be able to tell just by the kids facial features. This is actually really sad if Bj had a child his family should get to be apart of the kids life. If it's not his kid then everyone should drop it and let the family be. I think a DNA should definitely be done on the man saying he is the father. Hell he has a right to know if the child he believes is his ends up not being his. I just hate that there is a family out there that lost there son and they don't even know if this kid is apart of him. Just saying.
bobby

Lewisville, IN

#9 Oct 15, 2011
just sayin wrote:
then why dont she have a DNA done for there piece of mind..have it done with the man that she says is the dad..none of mine just thought i would put it out there
It does not matter if the child is BJ's or not! If a test showed it was his kid his parents and family have NO legal right to see this kid! Thats just how the law is. Maybe it is his kid and she knows it but feels like letting BJ's family in on the babies life would cause more problems than what she has now? Its her choice thats just the way it is! So get over it!
wrong

Connersville, IN

#10 Oct 15, 2011
bobby wrote:
<quoted text>It does not matter if the child is BJ's or not! If a test showed it was his kid his parents and family have NO legal right to see this kid! Thats just how the law is. Maybe it is his kid and she knows it but feels like letting BJ's family in on the babies life would cause more problems than what she has now? Its her choice thats just the way it is! So get over it!
You're wrong. Grandparents have rights. IT'S THE LAW.
bobby

Lewisville, IN

#11 Oct 15, 2011
wrong wrote:
<quoted text>
You're wrong. Grandparents have rights. IT'S THE LAW.
In the state of Indiana the grandparents (fathers side) Have no rights to the child when no paternal rights have been established between the child's mother and father. All the mother needs to do is tell the court its not his and being he is not around anymore to request a DNA test the court would go on her word. The fathers parents could request DNA testing done some judges will allow this, but it would cost the grandparents a lot of money because they would have to pay for BJ's body to be exhumed by a qualified forensics expert and for the DNA testing. Also they would have to live with the messing with his grave. From what i am getting from this thread his parents do not have that kind of money all this work plus legal fees would be close to $$100,000.00! Thats a lot for topix trash! LOL
Just Saying

Connersville, IN

#12 Oct 19, 2011
bobby wrote:
<quoted text> In the state of Indiana the grandparents (fathers side) Have no rights to the child when no paternal rights have been established between the child's mother and father. All the mother needs to do is tell the court its not his and being he is not around anymore to request a DNA test the court would go on her word. The fathers parents could request DNA testing done some judges will allow this, but it would cost the grandparents a lot of money because they would have to pay for BJ's body to be exhumed by a qualified forensics expert and for the DNA testing. Also they would have to live with the messing with his grave. From what i am getting from this thread his parents do not have that kind of money all this work plus legal fees would be close to $$100,000.00! Thats a lot for topix trash! LOL
Your right about the law....all I am saying is if there is a kid out there who has an entire family they've not gotten to know, wouldn't it be nice for both sides to have something to do with each other? I don't think it should be a right/wrong issue. If it were me I would simply want to know, or be able to love that kid with all my heart. I don't think they would want to go to court for custody rights or drag it through the system. But family is family why would it be soooo wrong for too many people to love a child? I didn't mean anything bad by my post previously except that I'm sure they would like the chance to show that child a little love. Its a moral decision from within not a legal decision full of drama. Regardless I hope all family involved are doing well and that kid has more love than he knows what to do with <3
idiot

Spiceland, IN

#13 Oct 20, 2011
Your a dumbass! Dont talk about forensics if you don't know shit about it. All they would have to do is get a DNA sample from BJ's mother or father. That only costs around $600 moron. As Maury would say "You are NOT the father". Go back to school Bobby!

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