jmo

Spiceland, IN

#22 Dec 8, 2012
jmo: After a woman has been hurt, hurt pretty bad by one of these "bad boys" that she thinks will change, usually her priorities shift. If she's mature and willing to learn from mistakes. Then this woman usually will be much more interested in a kind, decent, caring, mature, responsible guy.

I think men and women alike often fall for the "wild ones", the ones that seem more of a "challenge". Hopefully as we get a little older we learn to appreciate and seek different qualities in a mate.

The "nice guys" need to be careful when thinking about who they want to date. Make sure the lady you're interested in shows signs of maturity, stability, and the qualities that are important to you. Neither a good guy or a good woman should "settle" for less than you know you deserve!
schill

Oakville, Canada

#23 Dec 9, 2012
First off these particular "people" are not real women and certainly not real ladies. They are in the same group as the worst sex offenders and pretators. Basically scums, with zero worth. So basically in my humble yet blessed opinion, the thing to do is to just send them to a zoo, and just have them get locked in a cage with a Polar Bear or Grizzly Bear or Lion or a Tiger, and uhh...let THEM (the animals) decide what is best, even better when the animals are hungry lol. You know they say that some animals have a better gut instinct then humans, sooo...you never know right!?lol Give them a chance, they may fix her up in some sort of way, lol if nothing else they get a good meal. BUT on second thought that would be a bad idea, to feed lowlifes like that to these wonderful animals would be to literally poison these majestic creatures, which would be the REAL crime here!! Maybe if they truly like the "bad boys" then I'd say give them what they want, and become a bad boy, but I mean REALLY BAD, and just stay that way with them for the rest of their lives and every 'bad' thing you do, do always to them. I mean that's what they want right?!?! so give it to them!! and then some. hehe
youre crazy

Spiceland, IN

#24 Dec 9, 2012
schill wrote:
First off these particular "people" are not real women and certainly not real ladies. They are in the same group as the worst sex offenders and pretators. Basically scums, with zero worth. So basically in my humble yet blessed opinion, the thing to do is to just send them to a zoo, and just have them get locked in a cage with a Polar Bear or Grizzly Bear or Lion or a Tiger, and uhh...let THEM (the animals) decide what is best, even better when the animals are hungry lol. You know they say that some animals have a better gut instinct then humans, sooo...you never know right!?lol Give them a chance, they may fix her up in some sort of way, lol if nothing else they get a good meal. BUT on second thought that would be a bad idea, to feed lowlifes like that to these wonderful animals would be to literally poison these majestic creatures, which would be the REAL crime here!! Maybe if they truly like the "bad boys" then I'd say give them what they want, and become a bad boy, but I mean REALLY BAD, and just stay that way with them for the rest of their lives and every 'bad' thing you do, do always to them. I mean that's what they want right?!?! so give it to them!! and then some. hehe
Lord have mercy, you are crazy!! I bet you don't have a good woman!! What an insane, rambling, barely coherent rant!! I know of no quality woman that would want anything to do with a crazy sounding, irrational, illogical boy such as yourself.

Lots of men want the "wild girls". Lots of women want the "bad boys". HOPEFULLY, they BOTH learn from these experiences that what you REALLY want is a nice, stable, responsible partner.

You sir, do not sound stable or nice. You also sound immature. And goodness knows a good woman wants a mature MAN. That's man with capital letters. A real man.
yoyo

Connersville, IN

#25 Dec 10, 2012
good woman in connersville thats funny stuff
schill

Oakville, Canada

#26 Dec 10, 2012
youre crazy wrote:
<quoted text>
Lord have mercy, you are crazy!! I bet you don't have a good woman!! What an insane, rambling, barely coherent rant!! I know of no quality woman that would want anything to do with a crazy sounding, irrational, illogical boy such as yourself.
Lots of men want the "wild girls". Lots of women want the "bad boys". HOPEFULLY, they BOTH learn from these experiences that what you REALLY want is a nice, stable, responsible partner.
You sir, do not sound stable or nice. You also sound immature. And goodness knows a good woman wants a mature MAN. That's man with capital letters. A real man.
I was just playing around, trying to add some humour to an emotional subject for alot of men. I wish everyone could have a good person with great character and someone trustworthy and live happily ever after. I am just posting to match the mood of the conversation at hand. Lighten up and relax. I'm suprised you made an issue of my posts when again it was meant as a joke to lighten to mood. I mean from what I've read when these questions are asked, nobody seems to put a serious answer anyways, they blame the guy about it some how. So...again relax!
what

Connersville, IN

#27 Dec 10, 2012
schill wrote:
<quoted text>
I was just playing around, trying to add some humour to an emotional subject for alot of men. I wish everyone could have a good person with great character and someone trustworthy and live happily ever after. I am just posting to match the mood of the conversation at hand. Lighten up and relax. I'm suprised you made an issue of my posts when again it was meant as a joke to lighten to mood. I mean from what I've read when these questions are asked, nobody seems to put a serious answer anyways, they blame the guy about it some how. So...again relax!
My post under jmo was a serious answer. I felt the thread needed a serious answer.

If one takes the time to pay attention to red flags, comments and behavior of concern, then you have a much better chance of getting that quality mate. No one should settle for less than you know you want and deserve.

Sometimes the man is to blame, sometimes the woman is to blame. Both sexes are guilty of ignoring things they know are not good or acceptable and both sexes can be guilty of thinking the other person will change when they receive all this love and good treatment. People usually are who they're going to be in the future.

Serious issue, serious answer.

Your post still was rambling and barely coherent. If it was your idea of humor, epic fail.
connersville HICK

Liberty, IN

#28 Dec 10, 2012
Nice guys never win because girls don't want a pansy. They want somebody who will bang it up hardcore. Being nice = making love. That's not what you are after here.

Do not call her back, for any reason. If she doesn't call you back, you move on. Better yet, never assume anything...find another girl in the mean time to knock boots with. If one or the other, or both, call back then you nail them both on different dates. If things get too serious, tell her you can't go on seeing her because (insert lie here).

You get to live one time. You get one trip around, then you die. You can't knock boots when you're dead, so do it NOW and QUIT WORRYING ABOUT BEING NICE. Sure, buy her dinner every now and then but never, and I mean never, talk about a "relationship." That is a red flag that means she's wanting to tie your ass down, and you can't have that. Hit it hard, then move on. There are millions of women out there, pick the clean ones and make her your own private porn star...then tell her you're tired and make her leave.
really

Connersville, IN

#29 Dec 10, 2012
connersville HICK wrote:
Nice guys never win because girls don't want a pansy. They want somebody who will bang it up hardcore. Being nice = making love. That's not what you are after here.
Do not call her back, for any reason. If she doesn't call you back, you move on. Better yet, never assume anything...find another girl in the mean time to knock boots with. If one or the other, or both, call back then you nail them both on different dates. If things get too serious, tell her you can't go on seeing her because (insert lie here).
You get to live one time. You get one trip around, then you die. You can't knock boots when you're dead, so do it NOW and QUIT WORRYING ABOUT BEING NICE. Sure, buy her dinner every now and then but never, and I mean never, talk about a "relationship." That is a red flag that means she's wanting to tie your ass down, and you can't have that. Hit it hard, then move on. There are millions of women out there, pick the clean ones and make her your own private porn star...then tell her you're tired and make her leave.
You are a complete and total idiot. You will live your life alone for sure. Freak. And btw: you wrote entirely too much crap. No one wants to read that much crap. It was long and ignorant. You sound as if you are trash, with no morals. Likely a "no REAL job having" piece of trash.
look

Sunman, IN

#30 Dec 10, 2012
Thing is...he's right. If that's not what women wanted they wouldn't be lying down left and right without so much as buying her dinner. They shack up and marry the loser who's desperate for some constant pu$$y and wants her to be his mommy. Soft men these days. Divorce rates at 50%. Women filing for 75% of them. Men taken to the cleaners. There is literally zero incentive for a man to get married but for women it guarantees cash and prizes. Look up red pill awareness or manosphere. It's all there and explains everything. Millions of good men getting trampled and cleaned out. Ruined by hypergamous women. If you don't know what hypergamy means you don't matter. Look it up. Women regularly drop these good, albeit clueless nice guys the first instant they can upgrade. The problem is women say what they want but do another. They wanr a nice gentle soft guy but will FUCK the bad boy behind the Nicholas sparks dream guy's back. I urge my fellow.brothers. don't ever marry women. Men don't get lonely, we're strong willed, we can entertain ourselves and surpress emotion. Use your brain, make money, save for your future, be skilled, constantly learn, NEVER LAY DOWN AND MARRY. The risk is far too great in this feminine biased judicial system. You will be screwed over. The chances are the same as 3 rounds in the chamber in a fame of Russian roulette. No fault divorce serves the feminine agenda. No woman is ever screwed over in a divorce. Extreme extreme cases maybe but you can count on it....9 times out of 9.5...you'll be PAYING.
Master Spanker

Berlin, WI

#31 Feb 4, 2013
I don't know how many times I have heard, "There are no decent men". Most of them wouldn't recognize a decent fellow if they were sitting here, reading his post. So many think they'll change him, when it never happens. The worse they're treated, the more they fall in love. I'm not alcoholic, audulterous, abusive, or addicted. I guess I just don't have the qualifications, required for the women around here.
wow

Martinsville, IN

#32 Feb 4, 2013
I am so tired of lookin. Just about givin up.
Master Spanker

Wheaton, IL

#33 Feb 4, 2013
wow wrote:
I am so tired of lookin. Just about givin up.
Yeah, me too. What's the point of looking anymore? I am alone, and alone I'll stay. Who needs the hassle of trying to please someone who won't be pleased, and will be always demanding more and more?
So funny

Connersville, IN

#34 Feb 5, 2013
Only on TOPIX, Their are plenty of good ladies and men out there! Just NOT on TOPIX, LOL!
Meeting for Dummies

United States

#35 Feb 5, 2013
If there are plenty of good single women actively looking and if there are plenty of good single men actively looking, why can they not meet? As an actively looking woman or man, what type of event or situation would they find acceptable to meet? If you are looking local, there cannot be that many truly available women or men to meet in their age range. So, it might be you (reading this) or someone you know, put it out there (situation/event) where you would feel comfortable meeting.
wow

Chicago, IL

#36 Feb 5, 2013
Meeting for Dummies wrote:
If there are plenty of good single women actively looking and if there are plenty of good single men actively looking, why can they not meet? As an actively looking woman or man, what type of event or situation would they find acceptable to meet? If you are looking local, there cannot be that many truly available women or men to meet in their age range. So, it might be you (reading this) or someone you know, put it out there (situation/event) where you would feel comfortable meeting.
. It's a good idea but r we supposed to have a secret handshake or something to signify to each other that we r looking & available? I know u will say that u can't think of everything.

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#37 Feb 5, 2013
saying reversed wrote:
Says something about the wives and girlfriends, unfaithful throw rugs
....lol....true that....
Meeting for Dummies

United States

#38 Feb 5, 2013
wow wrote:
<quoted text>. It's a good idea but r we supposed to have a secret handshake or something to signify to each other that we r looking & available? I know u will say that u can't think of everything.
No, that seems weird. I say an event like ad in the paper or radio about singles for coffee at ???? Or, beers for singles at???
wow

Chicago, IL

#39 Feb 5, 2013
Meeting for Dummies wrote:
<quoted text>
No, that seems weird. I say an event like ad in the paper or radio about singles for coffee at ???? Or, beers for singles at???
. But I don't drink coffee or beer.:-D

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#40 Feb 5, 2013
...No wonder, you're still available....lol....
wow

Chicago, IL

#41 Feb 5, 2013
Go Blue Forever wrote:
...No wonder, you're still available....lol....
. Ha ha ha ur funny.......NOT!!!!!!!!

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