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Mee
#1 Jun 7, 2013
The area is full of them.
lady

Greensburg, KY

#2 Jun 8, 2013
Mee wrote:
The area is full of them.
How about the dead beat moms? you know this is a 2 way street, or is just drawing welfare ok? A man is one half responsible for making a baby, but mommy is one half responsible also, if a man or a woman refuses to support their child they are a piece of trash, whoever you may be.
Close legs zip pants

Trinity, TX

#3 Jun 8, 2013
There would be no problem with dead beat dads, if young girls were taught to keep their legs closed, young men were taught to keep pants zipped, and that a creating a child is for a "lifetime" and is a huge and often heartbreaking responsibility that one has created when they create a child.

Young girls and older women alike should realize IF the person they are being promiscuous with has no values, nor morals,(and they obviously don't if they are doing this outside of marriage), then they are not going to magically gain values or morals just because a girl or woman decides to be irresponsible and bring a child into the world.

Both sexes need to be taught that many things should be considered BEFORE having sex with someone, least of which is that it should be done in a relationship of loving care, shared values/ beliefs, compassion, and a vow of commitment to each other such as one makes in marriage.

If those things are considered or present in a relationship there is typically no problems with loving support of the child they created.

Parents should never be angry at these young people either because all the things I mentioned are taught and learned at home through the parents upbringing and Church.
You want your kids to be happy, successful adults who make good moral choices, teach them the directions and commandments in the Bible. And be a good example by living it yourself.
well

Russell Springs, KY

#4 Jun 8, 2013
Close legs zip pants wrote:
There would be no problem with dead beat dads, if young girls were taught to keep their legs closed, young men were taught to keep pants zipped, and that a creating a child is for a "lifetime" and is a huge and often heartbreaking responsibility that one has created when they create a child.
Young girls and older women alike should realize IF the person they are being promiscuous with has no values, nor morals,(and they obviously don't if they are doing this outside of marriage), then they are not going to magically gain values or morals just because a girl or woman decides to be irresponsible and bring a child into the world.
Both sexes need to be taught that many things should be considered BEFORE having sex with someone, least of which is that it should be done in a relationship of loving care, shared values/ beliefs, compassion, and a vow of commitment to each other such as one makes in marriage.
If those things are considered or present in a relationship there is typically no problems with loving support of the child they created.
Parents should never be angry at these young people either because all the things I mentioned are taught and learned at home through the parents upbringing and Church.
You want your kids to be happy, successful adults who make good moral choices, teach them the directions and commandments in the Bible. And be a good example by living it yourself.
Promiscuos with? What if you are married to someone and both decide to start a family and later on the person shows their
true colors? They end up being a deadbeat parent that will not hold a job for nothing, not even to help feed the kids that they help get here?
fact is

Lexington, KY

#6 Jun 21, 2013
well wrote:
<quoted text>Promiscuos with? What if you are married to someone and both decide to start a family and later on the person shows their
true colors? They end up being a deadbeat parent that will not hold a job for nothing, not even to help feed the kids that they help get here?
You picked him, people don't change overnight, he was irresponsible all along, you didn't see that because you were blinded by love, men and woman are kind of like a tiger, we can't change our spots or habits, we just manage to camouflage them.
hmmmm

Burkesville, KY

#7 Jun 21, 2013
tigers don't have spots, leopards do
Fact also is

Russell Springs, KY

#8 Jun 21, 2013
fact is wrote:
<quoted text>You picked him, people don't change overnight, he was irresponsible all along, you didn't see that because you were blinded by love, men and woman are kind of like a tiger, we can't change our spots or habits, we just manage to camouflage them.
Some people camouflage them really well.
It sounds to me like you are blaming the victim.
blame

Greensburg, KY

#9 Jun 25, 2013
Always blaming someone else and nevertaking responsibility
yes

Russell Springs, KY

#10 Jun 26, 2013
I know one
so true

Leitchfield, KY

#11 Jun 26, 2013
some people just get caught uo in the moment
well

Russell Springs, KY

#12 Jun 26, 2013
so true wrote:
some people just get caught uo in the moment
They still need to take responsibility.
soooooo

AOL

#13 Jun 26, 2013
deadbeat moms just collect welfare ,..
aint no big thing ,..
its the way of the future
get used to it
Wow

Louisville, KY

#14 Jun 27, 2013
fact is wrote:
<quoted text>You picked him, people don't change overnight, he was irresponsible all along, you didn't see that because you were blinded by love, men and woman are kind of like a tiger, we can't change our spots or habits, we just manage to camouflage them.
You must live in a very small world because people do change. I had a great dad for 15 years. Very loving, worked and provided for his family, attended ball games and school functions even if he had to show up in greasy work clothes so that he didn't miss it. He changed. He left when I was 15 and contacted me once since, to tell me he didn't love me or want me anymore. That has been 10+ years ago and he still has nothing to do with me. Tigers have stripes, not spots and you can change habits, such as smoking or drinking, those are habits that you can quit. Habits can even be more simple than that, like I put open 2 liters in the fridge but my in-laws don't, so when I am at their house, I have to remind myself not to put the 2 liter in the fridge out of habit. You need a dictionary to learn the correct use of your terminology.
well good

Burkesville, KY

#15 Jun 27, 2013
Wow wrote:
<quoted text>
You must live in a very small world because people do change. I had a great dad for 15 years. Very loving, worked and provided for his family, attended ball games and school functions even if he had to show up in greasy work clothes so that he didn't miss it. He changed. He left when I was 15 and contacted me once since, to tell me he didn't love me or want me anymore. That has been 10+ years ago and he still has nothing to do with me. Tigers have stripes, not spots and you can change habits, such as smoking or drinking, those are habits that you can quit. Habits can even be more simple than that, like I put open 2 liters in the fridge but my in-laws don't, so when I am at their house, I have to remind myself not to put the 2 liter in the fridge out of habit. You need a dictionary to learn the correct use of your terminology.
Well that's your Dad's losss not your's.
OBAMA SHOULD BE KING

AOL

#16 Jun 27, 2013
dead beat moms will soon rule the nation ,....
they can have as many illegitimate baby's as they want ,...
and then demand free housing
free food
free collage
free health insurance
and free cells phones

you go girl !
well

Russell Springs, KY

#17 Jun 27, 2013
OBAMA SHOULD BE KING wrote:
dead beat moms will soon rule the nation ,....
they can have as many illegitimate baby's as they want ,...
and then demand free housing
free food
free collage
free health insurance
and free cells phones
you go girl !
Honey, a lot of them wouldn't be illegitimate
if the Deaddbeat daddies would stand up and take responsibility!
lol

Greensburg, KY

#18 Jun 27, 2013
and it is the womans responsibility as well as the mans, perhaps if they didn't spread like hot butter without protection, duh
Boo

Russell Springs, KY

#19 Jun 27, 2013
lol wrote:
and it is the womans responsibility as well as the mans, perhaps if they didn't spread like hot butter without protection, duh
Perhaps if the men wrapped it before they tapped it, duh!
got

Rineyville, KY

#20 Jun 27, 2013
people are so stupid
Boo

Russell Springs, KY

#21 Jun 28, 2013
got wrote:
people are so stupid
Says the moron changing their screen name out of Elizabethtown. Duh!

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