How Do you Get over Someone you LOVE???

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Needed INFO

Campbellsville, KY

#1 Jul 14, 2007
Me and my boyfriend dated for 10 months and we broke up today and I dont know how to get over him... Any advice??
beentheredonetha t

Utica, KY

#2 Jul 15, 2007
YOU JUST DEAL! No matter how long it takes you to get over it , you know you gotta.... JUST DEAL WITH IT !If he loves you and wants you , he wouldnt have left you !If someone else turned his head then its for real over!He wasnt thinking of you when someone else got his attention! I am learning the same as you , and only offering the advice that I've been given and have found that it is true . If you dated for 10 months its gonna be hard to get over him ,but it can be done. I wish you the best !

“You gonna eat that?”

Since: Apr 07

Wasilla, AK

#3 Jul 15, 2007
You start by listening to a lot of Bob Dylan. Start with "Blood on the Tracks" and throw in "Time Out Of Mind" at regular intervals. If you can't stand his voice, just read the lyrics.

10 months is not much of an investment. You will be OK in about four months, give or take a couple. Don't worry, in the meantime cry a lot and surround yourself with friends and ice cream.

Since: Jul 07

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#4 Jul 15, 2007
I couldnt agree more. My mother always told me that the best way to get over a man was to find another one. Get out of the house, enjoy time with your friends, keep your options open. As Yahweh suggested, a good cry and a pint of ice cream will help tremendously. You'd be surprised at how much you feel with a little time. Right now you are focusing on what was so right with the relationship, but try to think about the things that were wrong. I am sure that he did things that drove you crazy. Remember those. Good friends will usually pitch in and help you remember those things too.

Good luck! Keep in mind - most of us have been there and we could share broken heart stories all night. It's painful, but it will heal!
whodidit

Russell Springs, KY

#5 Jul 15, 2007
My sister went with a guy for 6 yrs. and he up and went for another. She called me crying wondering what to do . I told her to let him go and if he didn't return then he was never hers to start with. Look at it this way someday he may realize that he is the one that made the big mistake! You can love someone but you can't make someone love you, so don't beat yourself up about it. Time is the heeler. If he loved you he wouldn't have left.

“You gonna eat that?”

Since: Apr 07

Wasilla, AK

#6 Jul 15, 2007
whodidit wrote:
My sister went with a guy for 6 yrs. and he up and went for another. She called me crying wondering what to do . I told her to let him go and if he didn't return then he was never hers to start with. Look at it this way someday he may realize that he is the one that made the big mistake! You can love someone but you can't make someone love you, so don't beat yourself up about it. Time is the heeler. If he loved you he wouldn't have left.
Good point! If he truly loves you, he'll be in your life forever, maybe not as a boyfriend but as a friend. If he can't be your friend, he can't be your boyfriend, so you haven't really lost someone who loves you.
whodidit

Russell Springs, KY

#7 Jul 15, 2007
Needed INFO wrote:
Me and my boyfriend dated for 10 months and we broke up today and I dont know how to get over him... Any advice??
Love is a bunch of things that are all balled up into the word LOVE. There is companionship,caring,sharing,u nderstanding,trust,thruth,hone sty it's not just a sexual thing. So look for all these things in a relationship before you say I do! And lastly as I told my spouse: You might think this is going to be a bed of roses but let me inform you that there will be some big thorns in it as well. We have been married for 21 yrs now. I wish you the best!!! Remember time is the healer
wow

Campbellsville, KY

#8 Jul 15, 2007
You get over it one day at a time. As hard as it is...you don't want to be with someone that doesn't love you. Everyone deserves someone that loves them. Not fair to either of you to stay together if one is not in love anymore. Concentrate on getting through one day at a time...it will get better.
amber

Russell Springs, KY

#9 Jul 15, 2007
Needed INFO wrote:
Me and my boyfriend dated for 10 months and we broke up today and I dont know how to get over him... Any advice??
get under someone else
BMWRN

Leitchfield, KY

#10 Jul 15, 2007
Needed INFO wrote:
Me and my boyfriend dated for 10 months and we broke up today and I dont know how to get over him... Any advice??
good luck im still trying to get over someone too and there are good days and really bad days, but faith will keep us going.
opinion

Greensburg, KY

#11 Jul 15, 2007
there isnt a shortcut to get over someone. It just takes time. It's a process and if you try to skip a step it'll catch up with you later on.

“Save Me from Falling ”

Since: May 07

Not here, or I would not be me

#12 Jul 15, 2007
Opinion is right, you don't get over someone you love in a day.
If it was true love to you it may take a long time, if not then you'll know in a few weeks. You'll start looking again.
Time

Elizabethtown, KY

#13 Jul 15, 2007
You should first of all cry your heart out, and let that be your crying limit. Do not listen to music unless it is up beat. You should remove any reminders from your presents, even if u have to bag them. You should focus strongly on something else, not someone else, unless it is you. You should include as many friends in your day as possible. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THE ONE FOR YOU IS OUT THERE... Be patient and you will be surpised.
whodidit

Russell Springs, KY

#15 Jul 15, 2007
Time wrote:
You should first of all cry your heart out, and let that be your crying limit. Do not listen to music unless it is up beat. You should remove any reminders from your presents, even if u have to bag them. You should focus strongly on something else, not someone else, unless it is you. You should include as many friends in your day as possible. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THE ONE FOR YOU IS OUT THERE... Be patient and you will be surpised.
I totally agree... been there done that
whodidit

Russell Springs, KY

#16 Jul 15, 2007
Needed INFO wrote:
Me and my boyfriend dated for 10 months and we broke up today and I dont know how to get over him... Any advice??
Well what do you think so far? Are we being any help?
Jessica Boyd

Elizabethtown, KY

#17 Jul 15, 2007
"Time will heal all wounds"

“I was born a poor, black child”

Since: Jan 07

that weren't no easy thing

#18 Jul 15, 2007
Time wrote:
You should first of all cry your heart out, and let that be your crying limit. Do not listen to music unless it is up beat. You should remove any reminders from your presents, even if u have to bag them. You should focus strongly on something else, not someone else, unless it is you. You should include as many friends in your day as possible. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THE ONE FOR YOU IS OUT THERE... Be patient and you will be surpised.
this is solid advice. you should consider writing a book.
playing catch up

Elizabethtown, KY

#19 Jul 15, 2007
Don't eat the ice cream, this is not a time to get fat. Don't go anywhere he goes. This is a good time to concentrate on you. Eat right, exercise, get a new hair style, manicure & pedicure. Find a worthy cause and throw yourself into it. Stay busy and soon you will be okay!
Goodluck. Now get out there and get a life.
jesse

Belford, NJ

#20 Jul 22, 2007
me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years i loved her with all my heart i may be only 18 but but that makes it wors because she was my first tru love and i was her i gave her all i could when we first dated she thought she wasn't worth it and she was ugly and im not just saying it but she was worth it and not ugly i helped her get over that feeling i worked 3 jobs so we can get are own place im a grown mane and never cried at a family death and i cryed over her i guess she relized she was prity and to good for me bu if it wasn't for me she would never feel like this to have the one you love look you in the eye and tell you shes not in love with you anymore i cryed i didn't eat for 2 days couldn't sleep through up and im still not better its bin 4 days and to see her having fun hanging out with guys it kills me she was my tru love and will always be maybe she will come back to me but noing she was with other guys i dont no if i can i asked her to marry me she said yes and now all the good times and all i did means nothing i have eatin 1 time in 4 days and still not hungry my friends hooked me up with a girl and can barley look at her with out thinkig of lauren witch is her name i hope she comes back to me soon i will do anything to get her back and if that is inposable i hope i can stop feeling this way she already has how can you stop loving some one you spent 2 years with and we were with each other every day i had no friends b/c i choised her how can the pain stop she lived with me for 3 months i can't sleep with out holding her lauren e if you ever read this this is how i feel im missing alot more but i can't think about it any more thanks for listing
jim-bob

Elizabethtown, KY

#21 Jul 22, 2007
Join the Marines.
jesse wrote:
me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years i loved her with all my heart i may be only 18 but but that makes it wors because she was my first tru love and i was her i gave her all i could when we first dated she thought she wasn't worth it and she was ugly and im not just saying it but she was worth it and not ugly i helped her get over that feeling i worked 3 jobs so we can get are own place im a grown mane and never cried at a family death and i cryed over her i guess she relized she was prity and to good for me bu if it wasn't for me she would never feel like this to have the one you love look you in the eye and tell you shes not in love with you anymore i cryed i didn't eat for 2 days couldn't sleep through up and im still not better its bin 4 days and to see her having fun hanging out with guys it kills me she was my tru love and will always be maybe she will come back to me but noing she was with other guys i dont no if i can i asked her to marry me she said yes and now all the good times and all i did means nothing i have eatin 1 time in 4 days and still not hungry my friends hooked me up with a girl and can barley look at her with out thinkig of lauren witch is her name i hope she comes back to me soon i will do anything to get her back and if that is inposable i hope i can stop feeling this way she already has how can you stop loving some one you spent 2 years with and we were with each other every day i had no friends b/c i choised her how can the pain stop she lived with me for 3 months i can't sleep with out holding her lauren e if you ever read this this is how i feel im missing alot more but i can't think about it any more thanks for listing

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