mean husband

Flemingsburg, KY

#1 Jun 29, 2010
Why is it that your husbands want to treat you like a piece of crap, beacause you don't do enough to make them happy..
why

Columbia, KY

#2 Jun 30, 2010
Why do the wives put up with the mean husbands. I know one husband that lies, cheats, talks real bad about the wife when she is not around and even has stolen from her...but she stays with him. This woman gives her husband everything and anything he could ever want and more but husbands are going to continue to do what they do until the wives put their foot down and let these husbands no they are tired of it and if that means they physically leave them to get their point across than they need to do it. It will be the husbands lost and the wives gain if they did get rid of them.

Now don't get me wrong, there are some wives out there too that can be just as mean when their husbands kiss the ground they walk on, but like I said until that person stands up and says they had enough they will continue to do what they do.
wonder

Burkesville, KY

#3 Jun 30, 2010
mean husband wrote:
Why is it that your husbands want to treat you like a piece of crap, beacause you don't do enough to make them happy..
I do everything possible to make my husband happy, and he still treats me like crap. He gets to thinking I'm doing things I'm not and goes into a rage.

So I feel for you.
zzz

Russell Springs, KY

#4 Jun 30, 2010
You people are nuts for putting up with their
crap!
I understand

Elizabethtown, KY

#5 Jun 30, 2010
In my first marriage, I was so busy attempting to convice my husband that I had not done any of the things he was accusing me of. After awhile, I came to discover that HE WAS D
OING everything that he was accusing me of doing. Finally after several years of this, I became a smart women. He told me that I couldn't make it on my own with out him. I showed him that I could and did too (all with ever being on welfare). Although, I have to admit there were days when the meals were lean. But through the grace of God I have made it....Safely
Each person has to make their own decision for their situation and the children's.
God Bless!
wonder wrote:
<quoted text>
I do everything possible to make my husband happy, and he still treats me like crap. He gets to thinking I'm doing things I'm not and goes into a rage.
So I feel for you.
I understand

Elizabethtown, KY

#6 Jun 30, 2010
should have been "without"
I understand wrote:
In my first marriage, I was so busy attempting to convice my husband that I had not done any of the things he was accusing me of. After awhile, I came to discover that HE WAS D
OING everything that he was accusing me of doing. Finally after several years of this, I became a smart women. He told me that I couldn't make it on my own with out him. I showed him that I could and did too (all with ever being on welfare). Although, I have to admit there were days when the meals were lean. But through the grace of God I have made it....Safely
Each person has to make their own decision for their situation and the children's.
God Bless!
<quoted text>
wonder

Burkesville, KY

#7 Jun 30, 2010
zzz wrote:
You people are nuts for putting up with their
crap!
Sometimes you have too.
been there

Lebanon, KY

#8 Jul 1, 2010
wonder wrote:
<quoted text>
Sometimes you have too.
I used to say that too along with I have no choice, I have kids, you don't understand or really know what goes one, or you don't walk in my shoes.

You don't have to do anything you don't want to do and we all have choices. Yes, sometimes depending on the situation it maybe harder for some to get out of that situation than others are able to but you can still get out.

I was being treated like dirt for 9 years. The man would call me every name in the book, cheat, lie, phyiscally abused me, controlling, and it didn't matter if we were alone or with family and friends. I felt like I was walking on egg shells and if one of those shells broke or cracked a little to loud I knew I was going to get it in some way and not in a good way. Had kids by this person and I tried everything I could to make it better but no matter how many sorry's, tears, I love you's, and promises he would always go back to his old ways. I was new to the area so didn't know a lot of people that I could go to or trust for help/support. I got a part-time job and started putting back money a little at a time. Called lawyers from different phones so I could see what I could do to get out and get out safely. There are ways to get out of bad relationships but first you got to really truely want to get out of it. If you do, than you will find a way anyway necessary to get out.

I wish you all best of luck.
The Man

Elizabethtown, KY

#10 Jul 1, 2010
Any man that makes a habit of beating on women on a regular basis is one sorry SOB. I have never hit one in my life but it sure crossed my mind a time or two.

I do know several women that deserve to be beaten within inches of their lives for what they have done to good men.
Captain Obvious

Columbia, KY

#11 Jul 1, 2010
mean husband wrote:
Why is it that your husbands want to treat you like a piece of crap, beacause you don't do enough to make them happy..
Because you don't do enough to make them happy.
You're welcome.
MR SCOTT

Sheridan, AR

#12 Jul 2, 2010
Captain Obvious wrote:
<quoted text>
Because you don't do enough to make them happy.
You're welcome.
shout the hail up Skinny!!
Captain Obvious

Columbia, KY

#13 Jul 2, 2010
Shout the hail? Really? Did you miss your Mensa meeting this week?
poof he is gone

Elizabethtown, KY

#14 Jul 2, 2010
Captain Obvious wrote:
<quoted text>
Because you don't do enough to make them happy.
You're welcome.
There is more ways to kill a cat them choking him to death on butter.
Skinny

Columbia, KY

#15 Jul 2, 2010
poof he is gone wrote:
<quoted text>There is more ways to kill a cat them choking him to death on butter.
Tell us more O wise one...
poof he is gone

Elizabethtown, KY

#16 Jul 3, 2010
Skinny wrote:
<quoted text>
Tell us more O wise one...
Lets just say he wouldn't last long with me, any woman that takes that crap from men, is either got no guts or to scared to do anything, why live at all if you have to live in fear of another person, that isn't living, just existing, I am a firm believer that you get what you give, and if you let a man walk over you, he will continue as long as you let it happen, there comes a time when enought is enought.
meatwad

Elizabethtown, KY

#17 Jul 3, 2010
mean husband wrote:
Why is it that your husbands want to treat you like a piece of crap, beacause you don't do enough to make them happy..
first of all, do you have a life insurance policy on him?
catula

Blue Springs, MO

#18 Apr 2, 2013
My husband I met at 15. Best Friends from the start we had a daughter 2 yrs later...then after being together 4 yrs we decided to move in together. He showed his true colors. At first I thought it was me and I was in denial because I refuse 5o believe I was my mother. That meant to me that all guys had to be like this. That I just didn't understand men I guess. How could such a great friend of 5 yrs talk to me so badly? After 8 yrs i decided to finally look up of ot was normal for him to ruin every holiday, for him to always be angry about petty crap.
Then I saw how it was considered abuse. I thought because he never hit me it was no big deal and told myself I was being sensitive. im a shadow of my former self.
catula

Blue Springs, MO

#19 Apr 2, 2013
Now I feel powerless and I have 3 kids and married to him. I just dont want to have my kids aren't this and I also dont want to go to a homeless shelter with my babies cause I read what goes on. Ive done research and I have no degrees and no way to afford child care. Living with my parents is a no because my dads worse than my husband. He beats my mother and breaks things , wont pay rent, drinks, smokes pot etc. Plus they're both thieves. I owed 5k to irs for money I never received thanks to my mom trying to support dad. Im a terrible mother I swore this wouldn't be me but it is and im stuck.
david

Campbellsville, KY

#20 Apr 11, 2013
been there wrote:
<quoted text>
I used to say that too along with I have no choice, I have kids, you don't understand or really know what goes one, or you don't walk in my shoes.
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do and we all have choices. Yes, sometimes depending on the situation it maybe harder for some to get out of that situation than others are able to but you can still get out.
I was being treated like dirt for 9 years. The man would call me every name in the book, cheat, lie, phyiscally abused me, controlling, and it didn't matter if we were alone or with family and friends. I felt like I was walking on egg shells and if one of those shells broke or cracked a little to loud I knew I was going to get it in some way and not in a good way. Had kids by this person and I tried everything I could to make it better but no matter how many sorry's, tears, I love you's, and promises he would always go back to his old ways. I was new to the area so didn't know a lot of people that I could go to or trust for help/support. I got a part-time job and started putting back money a little at a time. Called lawyers from different phones so I could see what I could do to get out and get out safely. There are ways to get out of bad relationships but first you got to really truely want to get out of it. If you do, than you will find a way anyway necessary to get out.
I wish you all best of luck.
kids is just a lame ass accuse to stay with someone that treats you bad because you no all judges are in favor of the woman and you would get the kids with 400$ per child child support and a shit load of food stamps and you would live like a queen so wtf ever

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